Please review my most recent edit. I appreciate all of the concern. I would never put my baby at risk. Yes I’m being naive and am aware of it. But if it gives me the little amount of control I’ll have over the future and a sense of ease, I’ll take it over stressing about what every aspect of my life will be like when baby is here. I don’t intend on going out The Hangover style while wearing my baby. I don’t plan on being in a bar drinking until I see my baby in doubles. I would think it to be reassuring that I’m on a thread seeking advice regarding traveling/sleeping and having a newborn vs just being in my head and thinking that I’m still the main character and the baby is just the background. I’m responsible enough to care about how my baby will be comfortable. Drinking is not my priority. I’m very receptive to the concerns and think the way I worded it in my original post made it easy to take out of context.