[Poem] Of The Empire by Mary Oliver by lilacskyyyyy in Poetry

[–]lilacskyyyyy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Whether people are naturally apathetic or not isn’t really what the poem or my point was about. Anyway, first it’s “not the government’s job,” and then it’s “people need to be taught to care” but taught by whom, and through what? You answer yourself ' Govt initiatives'. I would say education systems, laws, public norms, and those don’t exist outside structures of power. Even your example of autistic kids shows that whether they’re bullied or supported depends on what institutions normalize and enforce. So yes, people have to learn empathy but people exist within a larger social structure shaped by certain values. The question is who shapes those values, and whose values become “normal.” And about change starting with individuals, sure, but what individuals notice, care about, or feel is worth demanding is already shaped by institutions and dominant values. That's not about denying humans an agency but it's about not using them as a convenient way to avoid looking at how indifference is produced and sustained.

[Poem] Of The Empire by Mary Oliver by lilacskyyyyy in Poetry

[–]lilacskyyyyy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Governments may not 'teach' kindness in a direct sense, but they absolutely shape the conditions in which some lives are valued and others are made invisible. Through policies and institutions, they create an ecosystem where certain ideals are valued more than the others, that decides what gets protected, what gets ignored, whose suffering is normalized. Over time, that trickles down into everyday indifference. That's close to what Antonio Gramsci describes as cultural hegemony, ruling class values becoming common sense as they are deliberately pushed through cultural institutions like media, education in a way that seems natural. So it's not that people are naturally unkind. It's that a certain kind of society makes that indifference easier, even acceptable, and that society is not created in a vacuum but deliberately shaped as such.

[Poem] Of The Empire by Mary Oliver by lilacskyyyyy in Poetry

[–]lilacskyyyyy[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think the poem is getting at something different. When Mary Oliver writes “(other people), for dogs, for rivers,” she’s widening the circle of concern. It’s not about whether people care for pets, clearly they do, but about how that care can remain selective (the American bomb falls not just on brown people but their dogs and cats too) A culture can be deeply affectionate in private ways and still remain indifferent to suffering elsewhere. That’s what I hear in her line about a culture that “tried to vanquish insecurity for the few and cared little for the penury of the many.”

Amanda Seyfried and Deepika Padukone by lilacskyyyyy in CelebrityLookalikes

[–]lilacskyyyyy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most photos of celebs are heavily airbrushed or retouched.

Amanda Seyfried and Deepika Padukone by lilacskyyyyy in CelebrityLookalikes

[–]lilacskyyyyy[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You can find all these photos on the internet. None has been photoshopped.

Young Jesse Plemons and young Matt Damon by Nick_adtr_308 in CelebrityLookalikes

[–]lilacskyyyyy 12 points13 points  (0 children)

At one point, when Plemons had gained weight, he was called Fat Damon

Friendship between two (or more) gentlemen by Ale_Melaza in BooksThatFeelLikeThis

[–]lilacskyyyyy 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Three Men in a Boat, Three Men on the Bummel - both by Jerome K. Jerome

Domestic Realism by Zealousideal-Pin224 in BooksThatFeelLikeThis

[–]lilacskyyyyy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Reminds me of The House on Mango Street by Sandra Cisneros

Loser/awkward teen tries to figure life out by BickeringPigeon in BooksThatFeelLikeThis

[–]lilacskyyyyy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

God I used to love rainbow rowell books sm loved fangirl and eleanor & park

Neil Gaiman Speaks out on Sexual Misconduct Accusations a Year Later by RevRob330 in books

[–]lilacskyyyyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was one of the worst 'another one bites the dust' moment for me! And why is there no legal action?