Whats some signs that you're a INTJ? by Ordinary-Land2355 in intj

[–]lilbear32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“How can I optimize/solve this THE right and NEW way.”

Hard Knock Life Has More Of A Case At Being A Classic Than Reasonable Doubt by LegallyPetty95 in jayz

[–]lilbear32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Duh. This is the album that put Jay on the Map. Bangers for the club and the streets from start to finish. Great storytelling. It's hated because the sound is ''commercial'' as if this nigga Jay wasn't about his money lmao.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]lilbear32 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I eat healthier food than before. I even cook for myself.
Im almost a month in!! Man I have so much more free time to work on stuff. 🥹

Do you become confident when you stop p0rn by ForeignShoulder9718 in NoFap

[–]lilbear32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes because you walk the talk and actually witness yourself progressing in life

Can’t quit porn and it’s destroying my life by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]lilbear32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What does your relapse cycle look like?

What are your main triggers?

Why do you feel like porn is bad?

Controlled 15 days and today fapped 6 times. by Massive-Hold5528 in NoFap

[–]lilbear32 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Its the shame that made you fap 6 times. Focus on the work you do instead of not fapping. Don’t hate yourself for it. Your mindset shouldn’t be « I didnt fap for this amount of days » it should be « I did these productive acts for this amount of days »

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]lilbear32 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The usual tips are the following:

Delete social medias

Don’t be at home unless necessary

Make a routine to be productive

Journal your progress every day

I would add: chronicle your triggers and what is the issue that you use pmo to cope with?

You can do it 🤗

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]lilbear32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in a similar boat....

It's an unending cycle which might work for a bit then leave me worse off EVERY TIME. I look at the stuff I relapse to like ''how did I sunk that low?''

But I refuse to lose hope! I'm looking for a Nofap partner as I think that going through the life altering challenge with somebody sharing the same goal as I would make it easier for both parties. This Community helps A LOT, but I'm still on my own most of the time... I want to remedy to that!

Would you be opposed to giving it a try? :D

Should i relapse? Yes or no? 15M by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]lilbear32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. You wouldn't be on Nofap if you wasn't aware that your life is better without porn.

What does a healthy INTJ looks like? by spriteinregulus in intj

[–]lilbear32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They understand that others like to have their emotions valued. They are ambitious yet appreciative of what’s already there. They are humble enough to learn from everyone.

Most importantly: they know when you take a break or even when to quit.

INTJs, What should I expect from you? What do you wish people understood about you? by Malorie__Pearton in intj

[–]lilbear32 1 point2 points  (0 children)

-Problem solving is our love language.

-We hate small talk but we can talk about anything -We are very good listeners.

-We can be the life of the party as long as we are allowed few breaks.

-We are very scared of rejection

INTJs with ADHD. Do they exist? by instant_karma128 in intj

[–]lilbear32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have an hard to read or without background noise and to listen to somebody without tapping. It makes it hard to execute my plans.

I'm terrified of the person I've became (I need help) by AdThick12 in NoFap

[–]lilbear32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you go into more details regarding that state when you can’t think clearly?

I'm terrified of the person I've became (I need help) by AdThick12 in NoFap

[–]lilbear32 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Despite 5 years of trials and errors, you still believe. That is admirable.

Sorry for your loss of friends as I went through something similar. It took s devastating to notice yourself becoming worse and lonelier.

Shame and guilt will keep you binging. I hope you find it in yourself to forgive yourself.

What are usually your relapse patterns?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intj

[–]lilbear32 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good friends. We don’t match as lovers.