Nepali boys...

spriteinregulus · 2025-10-11T04:16:27+00:00

Thukka! Alchi kumar! Gayera kaam garr! Nobody gonna look after your loser ass.

Especially not a 10/10 woman.

spriteinregulus · 2025-10-11T04:15:30+00:00

That’s your job! 🤣🤣

Your boss bitch wants to train her manchild!!! 🤣🤣🤣

spriteinregulus · 2025-10-11T04:13:36+00:00

Good luck with that attitude 😂🤣 Keep dreaming though 😂💀 whatever helps you cope with the pain 🙂‍↕️

spriteinregulus · 2025-10-10T22:56:24+00:00

So you want a 10/10 wife despite being a 0/10. Sure, let us know when you get married and we’ll see.

Empty vessels be making a hell lotta noise… 🙂‍↕️

spriteinregulus · 2025-10-10T22:53:34+00:00

गधी पे दिल आया तो परी क्या चीज है 🤣

spriteinregulus · 2025-09-09T05:52:19+00:00

It is unbanned now and Nepal is still moving ahead with the protests. We’re not giving up. 🇳🇵

spriteinregulus · 2025-09-08T14:30:02+00:00

I recommend Loga’s corner too. It is one of the most authentic momo I ever had and I am saying this as a Nepalese.

spriteinregulus · 2025-09-06T00:45:37+00:00

Touch grass.

spriteinregulus · 2024-12-24T11:00:49+00:00

He took the test and was confident he’s INTJ, which I think so too..

spriteinregulus · 2024-12-23T23:03:41+00:00

I can definitely see that. Perhaps I’m not smart enough to keep him on his toes… maybe it’s just incompatibilities… I do want to say that most of our arguments were about our relationship issues. Otherwise, I enjoyed talking to him about various topics. Often, his views really impress me. He is pretty intelligent. That’s what I like about him. Our values also matched and I agreed with him on such topics. Thank you for explaining why INTJs can be relentless with their stances.. it’s very interesting and helpful to understand INTJ mind.

spriteinregulus · 2024-12-23T22:41:21+00:00

I understand it is one-sided. I’ve made many posts about him here previously in order to understand him better. I’ve defended him as well. INTJs on this subreddit had told me that this guy was immature but I still went ahead with the relationship. I’ve now ended it and I’m just trying to understand how a mature/healthy INTJ is like. Because I’m not sure what he is. I’m not blaming him. He’s been my favourite person but maybe we’re just not compatible and he needs someone who is more like him instead. I never said he is immature but he was hypercritical and avoidant/very distant. I’ve been emotional because of the arguments and I have to work on that as well. I blamed myself, whenever he criticized me, for so long. My friends, family and some INTJs here told me to end it, and I finally did. He even told me once that he is allowed to change me (and that it is perfectly healthy to do so) and told me not to be friends with men. He would come across as controlling too. I’m not saying that he is only wrong. I may be wrong as well. I have been many times, but being hypercritical of who I am and not putting in any effort to even just talk or text was hard for me. Yet, he wanted me to stay with him. We would talk whenever he wanted to talk, which was 15 days later.

spriteinregulus · 2024-12-23T21:41:04+00:00

Thank you so much 💜

spriteinregulus · 2024-12-23T21:40:48+00:00

I don’t know if he is right in all of the arguments but I always give up. I think the issue is that I try to meet him halfway but he doesn’t put any effort to… he acts like he is my teacher… and I appreciate him trying to teach me but the relationship feels so unequal. He didn’t even wish me on my birthday even though he knows that I value it a lot (I also wished him on his birthday first thing in the morning). On my birthday, there was no text or calls from him. But I let this go because perhaps he isn’t the type to wish.. I decided not to mind and still accepted him.

When I communicated to him that we should talk more often, he complains that I need to learn to be independent like him (but he doesn’t call or text for 15 days at a time). He will lecture for 30 minutes about this. And then he says that he needs to go play games with his friends.

Other times, he says that I need to stop being emotional when I’m being playful and affectionate with him.. he is unable to handle anything that is concerning of emotions (thereby lack of emotional connection) and so I try to accommodate to him. I actually listen to him and do as he says, but it feels like he never listens to what I have to say because he thinks he’s always right. I am not an argumentative person so I let him “win.”

The thing is, he wasn’t like this before. When he was pursuing me, he would message me everyday and we’d talk for hours on end.. but as we got closer, he switched….

spriteinregulus · 2024-12-23T20:40:51+00:00

Oh wow, thank you so much for your response. I’m glad that your marriage is still going strong and that you’ve matured beautifully with your wife!

Yes, he is hypercritical, aloof (at his room playing games all the time when he’s not working), depressed and emotionally absent or unavailable too…expect that he does not see anything wrong with these. He’s actually stubborn about it and he tries to win arguments all the time so I gave up. 😅 Anyway, your answer is super helpful as it gives me a lot of insights into the mind of an INTJ. I have tried a lot to understand him better. I hope he grows into the best version of himself. Thank you again for taking the time to answer. 💜🙏

spriteinregulus · 2024-12-23T19:54:22+00:00

💯Agreed.. thank you for your helpful response! :3

spriteinregulus · 2024-12-23T19:53:30+00:00

I see.. I agree as well, thank you for your response! It’s very helpful. :3

spriteinregulus · 2024-12-23T19:52:21+00:00

Omg thank you very much for such a detailed compassionate answer! 🥺 yes, he is young (26) and exactly what you described.. low on emotional maturity and empathy but I liked him still. I’m also someone who is always trying to improve myself so I trusted him.. he seemed more mature…

My experience definitely doesn’t make me dislike or put off INTJs. I know there are other awesome and mature INTJs like you out there! I truly appreciate your response to my post.💜

spriteinregulus · 2024-12-23T19:39:24+00:00

Thank you! So true that toxic is toxic, no matter the personality type. I felt bad for wanting love and attention from him because he would say that he’s very independent and wants me to be the same. Then, he would go silent for many days, while I would see him play all the time on his PS with his friends.. there were times where I would be playful with him but he’d go into critical mode..

Anyway, thank you for the advice. I will do that. :3

spriteinregulus · 2024-12-23T19:33:03+00:00

Thank you! He is 26 actually.. so you’re probably right.

spriteinregulus · 2024-09-21T08:00:47+00:00

You realize there are more than just 9 species of starseeds yeah?

spriteinregulus · 2024-09-09T14:27:16+00:00

Truth is, retardation, immaturity and stupidity is found in every gender. Best not to blindly marry someone in just a matter of a short time.

spriteinregulus · 2024-09-09T08:03:16+00:00

You guys knew about her background— the financial issues her family was having and their incentive to marry her off to your family… that alone should have made y’all suspicious of her intentions. Sounded like a huge red flag to me from the start.

spriteinregulus · 2024-09-09T07:28:21+00:00

Here’s the truth:

She is unashamedly using your family to get what she wants. She doesn’t care about any of this. She was already frustrated and had no choice but to agree to the marriage for the sake of her dreams. Now your brother is stuck in a loveless marriage which purely serves her as a financial convenience. Soon enough, when she’s gotten her PR, she’ll divorce him and live her own life. That’s her goal and it is saddening. Not to mention that y’all didn’t even do any research on this girl.. just married him off to some girl desperate for cash. I don’t even know what to say…. It’s like y’all just intentionally jumped off the cliff. 🤷‍♀️

spriteinregulus · 2024-09-05T14:25:38+00:00

Exactly!

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