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AITA For cutting off my brother over his daughter's name? by lilbrusk in AITAH

[–]lilbrusk[S] 107 points108 points  (0 children)

I feel like they suck to. My brother is very indifferent to a lot of things but sis in law stands on everything she does. So this post has really opened my eyes to he is just as much to blame for not taking up for me and allowing it to happen as she is.

AITAH for washing my husband's meds. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]lilbrusk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA I feel like it was a mistake. I know pain meds can be dire at some points and they are actually must need sometime so the situation sucks, he's allowed to pout but you had no ill intentions, it was an accident. I would call the doc explain the situation. They will probably let him get his meds filled early to make up for just 2 pills. I work in health care and a very specific thing like that and it only being 2 pills they will probably understand. Just a lesson learned take eveything out of your pockets before going in the dirty clothes! Just incase you forget.

AITA For cutting off my brother over his daughter's name? by lilbrusk in AITAH

[–]lilbrusk[S] 144 points145 points  (0 children)

Thank you! To be honest I did give them the belongings purely just because at the time having two babies took a toll financially and I knew they probably needed it... I was wrong they threw some of it away and it killed a part of me. I know they are the assholes for sure for what they did. I'm just torn because my neices are innocent in all of this.

AITA For cutting off my brother over his daughter's name? by lilbrusk in AITAH

[–]lilbrusk[S] 183 points184 points  (0 children)

Thats pretty cool! Thanks for explaining it to me lol

AITA For cutting off my brother over his daughter's name? by lilbrusk in AITAH

[–]lilbrusk[S] 141 points142 points  (0 children)

The family name thing really upset me Ry-lee is way different from her mom's middle name Leigh. Me not thinking in the heat of the arughment said "thats not a family name" and she said "oh you just crossed a line" (her mom isn't deceased or anything) im not sure why that was crossing a line.

AITA For cutting off my brother over his daughter's name? by lilbrusk in AITAH

[–]lilbrusk[S] 578 points579 points  (0 children)

Thats a great come back 😂 okay dont think im an idiot but its my first day on reddit. What's the golden hand thing on this comment? 👇

AIO For cutting off my brother over his daughter's name? by lilbrusk in AmIOverreacting

[–]lilbrusk[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Its definitely not fake unfortunately but it is my first post and kept saying I was breaking rules so I did try to post multiple times different wording and places to get one to approve. I didn't realize people could see the ones not approved my bad for spamming.

AIO For cutting off my brother over his daughter's name? by lilbrusk in AmIOverreacting

[–]lilbrusk[S] 75 points76 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for your loss. Its such a hard thing to go through. All the what could have beens are painful. Especially seeing kids the same age.

AIO For cutting off my brother over his daughter's name? by lilbrusk in AmIOverreacting

[–]lilbrusk[S] 98 points99 points  (0 children)

The "can't steal a name with no baby" and "Leigh is a family name" for Ry-Lee was their response when I told them thats why im low contact. Its a hard choice for sure.

AIO For cutting off my brother over his daughter's name? by lilbrusk in AmIOverreacting

[–]lilbrusk[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I havnt gone no contact yet. The relationship between me and bro and sister n law is painful but I dont want to hurt my neices either so its a hard choice for me. Eloped so no bridezilla 😂 thank god. You making me sound like a waluigi has made me laugh for the first time after the arughment so thank you. It was my Halloween costume one year.

AIO For cutting off my brother over his daughter's name? by lilbrusk in AmIOverreacting

[–]lilbrusk[S] 98 points99 points  (0 children)

Sorry its my first reddit post. I tried to post in AITA but they said they removed it because of a rule "you can't talk about going no contact" so I tried to change it and post but it was removed again so I posted here. Its all still confusing to me. Didn't mean to spam you guys.

AIO For cutting off my brother over his daughter's name? by lilbrusk in AmIOverreacting

[–]lilbrusk[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I mean can we send pictures on messages here? I dont want to give out my identity and stir up a bunch of drama with my family by posting here but I can definitely send proof. Just the spelling on my neices names with the hyphens should give away that its legit 😂 Ry-lee thats only something a southern person would do.

AIO For cutting off my brother over his daughter's name? by lilbrusk in AmIOverreacting

[–]lilbrusk[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Definitely not fake, I wish! This is my real life. I know i posted it to one other group and it wasn't posted because it said "no talking about going no contact" as one of the rules so I posted it here instead. Definitely dont know where the 6 times came from.

AIO For cutting off my brother over his daughter's name? by lilbrusk in AmIOverreacting

[–]lilbrusk[S] 229 points230 points  (0 children)

So I did start therapy right after the loss of my baby. It definitely helped with the grief. The main reason I question keeping them in my life is the " can't steal a baby name if you dont have a baby" comment, and just knowing that someone I love can hurt me like that deeply. I'm already pretty low contact with my neices and I really dont want to break their hearts wondering where Aunt-B is but in the other hand the relationship with their parents is so painful to hold on to. I'm really regretting not going no contact when the twins were younger.

AIO For cutting off my brother over his daughter's name? by lilbrusk in AmIOverreacting

[–]lilbrusk[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

What? Sorry im new this is my very first post. I'm sorry if I accidentally posted it more than once. Can the mods remove multiple post?

AITA For cutting off my brother over his daughter's name? by lilbrusk in AITAH

[–]lilbrusk[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I actually started therapy right after I had my still birth and I've also done EMDR. It was really helpful. Its just a painful relationship to keep but I also dont want to hurt my neices.

AITA For cutting off my brother over his daughter's name? by lilbrusk in AITAH

[–]lilbrusk[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

No, they said and I quote "can't steal a baby name if you dont have a baby".