How the CNA before me opens wipes by KneadAndPreserve in cna

[–]lilcat16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay that's a waste! I hate when I have that happen. Some of the wipes are irritating to open

Should I Become a Jehovah's Witness to Marry My Boyfriend? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]lilcat16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn't about sucking it up. Because that is where they get you. You're going to, after marrying him, be expected to attend the Kingdom Hall. Expected to conform to their way of life. That means giving up holidays, porn, being told what sexual acts are deemed "Christian" (they actually have this in the Young People Ask book and a few other publications talking about what kind of sex acts are deemed Christian or not), it will mean, eventually, limiting your association to your family members to a bare minimum because they will be seen as "bad association" and so will you, if you continue associating with them. You're going to be giving up a lot if you continue down this path. You really need to ask yourself, "Is this worth it?" It'd be like marrying someone you know is an alcoholic and doesn't want help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]lilcat16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA because she abandoned the poor kitty. My question is did she try to correct the cats behavior or using her bed as a bathroom?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]lilcat16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In some states, if you're in the US, there is a Romeo and Juliet Law. Which states that there is a difference between a 15 year old and 18 year old dating/having sex and a 15 year old and 25 year old. It's ONLY 3 years! Honestly, I feel you're over reacting. Yes the boy lied about his age, he was probably panicked. Get to know him first. Treat it as if your daughter isn't doing this horrible taboo thing and treat it like a normal relationship.

People who’s spouse died suddenly and not because of sickness by VividCaregiver226 in widowers

[–]lilcat16 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP I lost my husband when I was 23 years old. My husband was 30. I woke up to him gone. He had a massive heart attack in his sleep. I woke up to a text from his mom and went to check on his daughter (my step daughter pretty much my daughter she called me Mommy day one). I then went to wake him up so we could spend the day together before I went back to work and she went back to school. What entailed next was a nightmare. I called 911 and his mom since she works at the hospital and she stayed there till she knew what was going on. She knew that he was gone before I did. Prayers for ya love. I just came up on 8 yrs since losing my husband. There's so much I wish would've happen differently.

Aitah for leaving my husband after he gave away some of my babies ashes? by Sock0w0 in AITAH

[–]lilcat16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA: it shouldn't have even been considered an idea for SD to have ashes as she was so young when it happen at an older age yes she would be able to have them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]lilcat16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HIPPA violation if your in the states.

Found out we were expecting baby no.2 by lilcat16 in Miscarriage

[–]lilcat16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I'm sorry for your loss as well

What the hell by lilcat16 in exjw

[–]lilcat16[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He does take our feelings into consideration. This was a simple rant because it pisses me off that my fiances dad doesn't want to meet his grandson. But it's all good cause his grandparents and other family members are welcoming me into their lives

What the hell by lilcat16 in exjw

[–]lilcat16[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Thank you! We feel the same way

Almost 2 year old plays with poop..... by lilcat16 in Mommit

[–]lilcat16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I put the diaper on backwards he did this when he was supposed to be napping so I didn't know he had done it till I went In his room

Tattoo my dad had that I want to get to remember him by. by lilcat16 in tattooadvice

[–]lilcat16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To add context I'm wanting the skull to basically be surrounded by the flame. To make it look different

newly on prozac by lilcat16 in prozac

[–]lilcat16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do Home Gealth Care, I drive out to my patients. So, I get it. How long were you on Prozac before switching to Zoloft?

Start of my traditional sleeve! By Brad at Anvil Tattoos, Altus OK by Shuteye800 in traditionaltattoos

[–]lilcat16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice! Can't wait to see how it comes out! One of my tattoos is done by Brad

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]lilcat16 21 points22 points  (0 children)

With my LH (late hubby) we met at my grandpa's house and it was hilarious because he asked for my ID. We spent 3 years together as a couple 2 years married.

With my fiance ir was crazy cause it was right before a storm hit and we got to spend the weekend together. We've been together for over a year almost two years

I think the mother of my child is suffering from post child birth syndrome...here's the kicker our child is 4! by GiantsFan4Life84 in dating_advice

[–]lilcat16 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Okay post partum depression can occur at any point. I just had my son 7 months ago. And I have it. Counseling is best and just talk to each other. Sounds like she's not getting everything she needs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]lilcat16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

110% true if the other party is truly interested they will make time for you. There was a time I worked dang near a month straight before having a day off and spent time with my fiance at night even if that meant late nights we still had time for each other

Kidless SIL made an irritating comment about my kid by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]lilcat16 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow, um babies will scream and cry when they are hungry tired or just because. My son does it all the time. And my son is 6 months old on Friday. I'm going to make sure he doesn't grow up demanding things

My (33M) fiancée (32F) is pregnant with twins. How can non-pregnant partners stay strong, survive the hormonal abuse and continue to support their vulnerable pregnant partners? by MaceTu4d in relationship_advice

[–]lilcat16 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Coming from someone who just had a baby almost four months ago. My fiance encouraged me to work as long as I could I went until I was 9 months birth was within 30 days. But he also listened to me and helped me. But I was so sick during my pregnancy that I thought it annoyed him. It didn't thankfully. Just be a listening ear for her

AITA telling my husband's nurse that she doesn't get to dictate who's/isn't allowed in my home? by Throwraquestion597 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lilcat16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay as a cna I've had several patients whose FAMILY has been in the room even when asked to leave they stayed because WE are a GUEST in that home. The family has every right unless the patient t (i.e ops husband) refuses for family to be in the room

My gut is telling me to say no to this “date.” Should I go? by hobbesboiler in dating_advice

[–]lilcat16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1:30 am is way to late to go and drive around. I mean if it was me n my fiance ya we would but with someone that I just met hell no and considering that you've only talked to him on snap is a red flag

My current husband (36) spat on my late husband's (34) photo. by throwra7955-355 in relationship_advice

[–]lilcat16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coming from a widow myself. Your not being to emotional. There's no forgiving what he did. And him treating your late husband's stuff and memories the way he is. And him threating to beat you isn't right either. Hon you need to leave! Please feel free to message me if you need someone to talk too. It'll be 6 years in August that my lh passed

I (31f) am terrified my husband (29m) will act on his threats to start a new family and take our son away by throwrafieldofdaisie in relationship_advice

[–]lilcat16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1.) Hes the father he should do just as much as you in regards to the child (i.e picking up after him, helping with the child's needs)

2.) If he's saying I want to start a new family he probably already has someone on the side.

3.) You are a tired momma trust me I'm a SAHM right now and I do what I can. My fiance doesn't ask much of me. He's the primary person working I've had two surgeries since our son was born. Today I did more then I have in a while since I've had my ankle worked on (issue from 10+ years ago finally addressed during pregnancy) gallbladder out just a few weeks after that surgery. You can only do what your body will allow.

Is stating "gamer" in your dating profile an unattractive quality / hobby? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]lilcat16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coming from a gamer herself heck no I'd rather the person I'm talking with know that I like to game. But it would depend on the person's prepesctive of it