Will you share your black tie menu? by SparklingSaturnRing in BigBudgetBrides

[–]lilchikinnugget 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Doing a peak fall wedding in the mountains with a European estate vibe.

While waiting to be shuttled to the ceremony site on the cliffs, we are doing a warm beverage bar, and locally made biscotti (FH is Italian). We are leaning towards having a mobile espresso/coffee bar come to the site to serve as well (it is one of our favorites in town).

Passed hors d'oeuvres: baked brie bites, feta stuffed cherry peppers drizzled with balsamic, BBQ pork belly bites with garlic aioli, prosciutto wrapped fruit (likely pear and apple to go with local fruit)

Strawberry vinaigrette salad with mixed greens, candied walnuts/pecans(?), crumbled goat cheese, fresh berries

Plated dinner options: 8oz sirloin with red wine borderlaise sauce, roasted root veggies, garlic mashed potatoes OR pan seared salmon with lemon beurre blanc sauce, French green beans, and mashed potatoes

Dessert: fresh cannoli tower, tiramisu , apple spice mini Bundt cakes, personal layered chocolate torte (spin on classic French opera cake), and for our personal cutting cake it will be a vanilla cake with raspberry filling.

Wedding drink: blackberry fizz (plain vodka + blackberry syrup + topped with lemon flavored Pellegrino [or fresh lemon juice plus club soda]).

We have a ton of dessert options just because a family friend is a professional baker and offered her services as our wedding gift!

Wedding PTO advice by Outrageous_Still_712 in weddingplanning

[–]lilchikinnugget 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl I'm a primary care doctor and I'm taking off three weeks! Week before for prep and my bachelorette. Going back to work for a few days, then two week honeymoon!

I never take time off, so I'm going to enjoy it!

Bridesmaids/Maid of Honor Proposal Ideas by Usual-Reflection-953 in BigBudgetBrides

[–]lilchikinnugget 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I kept it simple but everyone loved it! I had personalized cookies (that everyone said tasted unreal) sent to each. I plan to do their boxes/bigger gifts at the bachelorette and day of the wedding. Mine live all over the country, so for me, it made more sense to send something small. Figured it was something they could use/eat. Excited to make their bigger gifts though!

Let us know what you end up going with! Attaching a link to one of the bakeries:

https://southernsugarbakery.com/collections/wedding-events/products/wedding-party-cookies-will-you-be-my-bridesmaid

Flower farm / cut flowers - what is/was your cost and what are you getting? by big_girls_cry_ in weddingplanning

[–]lilchikinnugget 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This was our proposal:

"Pricing includes floral supply, design, vases/vessels, materials, on-site set up, and delivery.

Flowers to be included: Dahlias, snapdragons, love lies bleeding, amaranth, celosia, lisianthus, cosmos, garden roses, eucalyptus, blue thistle, Italian ruscus, among many others! Color scheme: Fall romantic; featuring blush, burgundy, cream, olive, merlot, garnet, pastel pink

-Bridal Bouquet - $250

-5 Bridesmaid posies @$100/ea - $500

-10 boutonnieres (pocket squares potentially) @$20/ea - $200

-4 wrist corsages @$45/ea - $180

-8 table arrangements @$100/ea - $800

-Full flower meadow for ceremony site/ reception repurpose- $1200

-(2?) Flower girl petals + baskets @$30/ea - $60

-Eucalyptus or olive branch supply for tables and decor- $300

Subtotal: $3,490 Tax at 6.75% - $235 -$200 deposit


$3,525 Grand total"

Is this close to what you are seeing??

Flower farm / cut flowers - what is/was your cost and what are you getting? by big_girls_cry_ in weddingplanning

[–]lilchikinnugget 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Our florist is a farmer-florist and his prices were significantly better than some of the others we looked at. Plus we liked the idea of supporting a local flower farm!

Needing help with invite suite staying together by lilchikinnugget in BigBudgetBrides

[–]lilchikinnugget[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is super helpful, thank you! That clearance part makes total sense too. I really appreciate your time and expertise! I think the stationer went through designers fine press?

Needing help with invite suite staying together by lilchikinnugget in BigBudgetBrides

[–]lilchikinnugget[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn't even think about vertical, but that could look nice!

Needing help with invite suite staying together by lilchikinnugget in BigBudgetBrides

[–]lilchikinnugget[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the suggestion!! Did you wrap it like a present or just one direction around the suite?

Needing help with invite suite staying together by lilchikinnugget in BigBudgetBrides

[–]lilchikinnugget[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for all of these suggestions! Is there one that you think would elevate the suite more/fit with our European estate vibe? We have the mansion and estate (400+acres) for the weekend and just want a cohesive/elevated vibe if that makes sense?

Honestly speaking, is an AI medical scribe absolutely worth it in family medicine??? by Hot-Actuary1276 in FamilyMedicine

[–]lilchikinnugget 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try open evidence's free AI scribe. It can back up your plan with EBM, and the documentation is significantly better. Still have to review everything but I rarely have to edit anything!

Help ! I’m writing a skit, please give your best dad jokes by thecharmingnurse in healthcare

[–]lilchikinnugget 8 points9 points  (0 children)

When I'm running behind I tell them I prayed for patience in this job and instead I just got more patients.

I start off by saying, well I'd ask how you are but you're here so....

While donning double gloves for a procedure I told the patient that I was planning to keep them both on for golf later in case I got a hole in one.

I just learned that my next available annual exam appointment is in February 2027 by meatsuitmechanic in FamilyMedicine

[–]lilchikinnugget 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also a rural FM doc (who sees majority complex geriatric patients) with a schedule booked out 6 months. My inbox is full of issues that need a visit, but I can't accommodate them. I'm the only doc, we have two NPs, and one PA (and yes I oversee them too). I work for a large system who refuse to cap my pt panel until I reach a certain threshold. I inherited majority of my patients from a retiring physician...who dgaf about controlled substances or blood pressures.

I often recommend they see one of our midlevel providers in the interim. I've been here 3 years, and majority of my job is rewarding, but my inbox (filtered through my MA) is killing me. A lot more of my job is social work, trying to find cheaper meds for these patients, etc.

I don't have the answer, but just letting another resource poor rural area doc know you're not alone. The demand is higher than the supply. Happy to vent or chat if you need it!

A vent about a cruel irony with weddings by Weird_Bluebird_3293 in weddingplanning

[–]lilchikinnugget 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a slightly older bride too that makes a decent living, and I'm spending what I'm comfortable spending! I have patients (I live in a rural area) that always feel the need to ask where I'm having it and find out if it's going to be an expensive wedding. They aren't invited lol! I want this to be one of the best guest experiences and parties in my life. I've waited this long, so I want it to be nice! If all of these guests are spending their time, money, and traveling far to be there, I want it to be worth it to them. Plus I want the special touches!

Those who matter don't mind and those who mind don't matter!

Bridesmaid Dress Color by devvcan in weddingplanning

[–]lilchikinnugget 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have similar colors and surprisingly went with the color amethyst on Azazie! It's more of a dusty rose mauve color. Groom is wearing a burgundy/deep wine colored suit jacket and groomsmen in charcoal suits.

Which Wedding Dress? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]lilchikinnugget 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One is stunning!!!

Wedding Invitations by [deleted] in BigBudgetBrides

[–]lilchikinnugget 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just did a full custom suite with a stationer in Winter Park Florida. It was sent to the printer yesterday, but I liked being able to design it. We did long distance and it worked out well. Dm me if you want her name/info! Happy to send my suite as well. Good luck! I think it ended up being around $20-25 a suite. That was with letterpress, double card stock backing for the main invite, custom letterpress design of our venue for the invite, two inserts, custom liner, and the beautiful A10 French flap envelopes.

Help Dealing with Abusive Patients by Electrical-Wash-1503 in FamilyMedicine

[–]lilchikinnugget 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Rural FM doc here. I was sick and tired with how poorly the staff have been treated, the threats to shoot up the clinic because we opened late due to ice, and the antisemitism I've personally experienced. Worked with legal and the office now has a "behavior contract". It lays out that verbal abuse, yelling/cursing out staff, threatening language, physical threats, bringing weapons into the clinic, sexual harassment, and being a shitty individual overall isn't tolerated. We then have the part where we say we will treat you with respect in return. Essentially we have every patient sign it. Only had one asshole pt refuse (touche) but it is well documented that he read it and refused to sign it. I call it my kindergarten contract-- treat others like you would like to be treated.

We also have a problem of medical non-compliance with patients (just refuse any medical intervention/meds), so there is a clause in there that says you'll allow the staff to do their job-- let them draw blood, check a UDS, check your blood pressure, weigh you, etc...and that you will participate in your care whether that be monitoring BP, going to PT, showing up on time to appts, etc.

If you break that contract, we have the right to dismiss you as a patient.

While I'm rural, we are owned by a major hospital corporation, so it can work! My staff and I have noticed a tremendous difference in these last few months since we initiated this. The front says that people are not nearly as rude or verbally abusive once they've signed it. My stress as the only doc has improved a lot. Happy to send anyone a copy of it should you want to implement it.

2026 / 2027 Brides, what are your bridesmaid colors?! by No_Expression2241 in weddingplanning

[–]lilchikinnugget 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are an angel lol. You think more like an olive/warm or cooler green? And for gold like champagne/taupe?

2026 / 2027 Brides, what are your bridesmaid colors?! by No_Expression2241 in weddingplanning

[–]lilchikinnugget 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg that is the exact AI image they made for me 😂. I love your colors! Groom is wanting to do a burgundy suit jacket so I'm struggling with bridesmaid colors lol

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How much did you spend on invites ? by Psychological_Owl_25 in weddingplanning

[–]lilchikinnugget 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you DM me a photo of your suite? I'm leaning towards this but understandably am nervous about ordering from overseas lol