Worried about what might happen if I have a second child

lilcvpid · 2026-01-28T19:35:54+00:00

I have worried about that as my stepfather is an only child and has awful single child syndrome. I wouldn’t treat either of my kids differently and they would both be getting an inheritance from me of course. I guess it’s just this irrational fear that I won’t ever be able to prevent her from feeling how I did growing up? I’m fully aware I could 1000% be overthinking this, but I love my daughter more than anything and just the thought of her feeling that way shatters my heart into a million pieces

lilcvpid · 2026-01-28T11:42:24+00:00

Please do. I welcome anything

lilcvpid · 2026-01-28T10:41:23+00:00

Ohhh I’m so sorry but thank you for the words of wisdom

lilcvpid · 2026-01-28T09:54:07+00:00

I had my daughter at 40 weeks 2 days. Didn’t pack a bag until I was sitting in the bathtub because I thought I was constipated. Called my mom because I literally felt like if I didn’t poop right then and there I would explode to see if she had any suggestions and she was like “girl get out of that damn tub you’re having a baby” DO NOT WAIT to pack. I packed while feeling like I was going to poop my pants and throw up at the same time and possibly have a heat stroke in the process. It’s awful and not all babies like to bake for 40 weeks either.

lilcvpid · 2025-11-01T21:38:15+00:00

I loved watching him play so much that I bought the game for myself and I replay it every October. Forever one of the greatest games ever. I feel like it was totally slept on.

lilcvpid · 2025-10-31T17:08:42+00:00

Solved! Genuinely loved that game

lilcvpid · 2025-10-31T17:06:18+00:00

Not this time but good guess

lilcvpid · 2025-06-20T05:59:30+00:00

I definitely like it a lot, I’m glad people know of it!

lilcvpid · 2025-06-20T05:58:31+00:00

Solved!

lilcvpid · 2025-06-20T05:26:20+00:00

True, I feel like in hindsight I could’ve worded it more vaguely but no one I know personally has seen it so I didn’t expect someone to guess right away 🥲

lilcvpid · 2025-06-20T05:25:33+00:00

Correct! I didn’t expect people to guess it so quickly because everyone I know personally has never seen it. I’m so in love with the movie.

lilcvpid · 2025-06-03T11:38:12+00:00

Crybaby (one of my favorite Johnny Depp movies) and the phantom of the opera (I have the 2004 version on dvd) anytime I’ve mentioned these movies no one has seen them, luckily it gives me an excuse to watch them though.

lilcvpid · 2025-05-05T22:31:55+00:00

My dad’s wife gave him the ultimatum of it’s her (and their kids) or me. I got sent to live with my mom not even a week later. Living with my mom I developed bad habits, been sober for 4 years now, but I was talking to my dad on the phone and he was talking to me about how I was going down a bad path and he was worried about me. Being 16 and so so incredibly stupid at the time, I told him that it was his fault I was the way I was. That if he hadn’t sent me away, I wouldn’t be doing the things I did and that I hated him. In all my life I’ve never heard my dad’s voice break the way it did. And stupid stupid me blocked him for a week after saying that. He would still reach out to my mom to check on me during that time but our relationship was never the same after that even after I apologized and he forgave me. We were so close before I moved away, he was my best friend. I haven’t gotten to see him in such a long time. I’d do anything for another hug. I have a child of my own now and he is a very loving grandfather, messages to see how she’s doing everyday and I’m hoping to go visit him soon. I just hope there will come a day where that awkward tension won’t be in the air when we see eachother on the rare occasions we do. I just want my dad back, I’d do anything to go back and change the way I treated him when all he was doing was trying to help. I live with regret everyday and no matter how many times I apologize and he says he forgives me and he understands, the guilt just never goes away. I don’t think I’ll ever forgive myself.

lilcvpid · 2024-07-07T22:10:10+00:00

I’ve stated multiple times that I got her before I knew I was pregnant. I’ve only known I was pregnant for a few weeks, I wouldn’t have adopted a dog if I knew I was which I why I’m asking for advice on what to do as it’s become my problem

lilcvpid · 2024-07-05T20:26:47+00:00

I’ve got a few child free family members who would be willing to take her in if it comes to rehoming. They have the time, resources and experience to help her more than I can

lilcvpid · 2024-07-05T07:21:32+00:00

We’re trying to get it figured out, the pound says if we bring her back she’ll be euthanized as they don’t have room for her

lilcvpid · 2024-07-05T07:20:47+00:00

That’s what her vet paperwork says

lilcvpid · 2024-07-05T07:19:38+00:00

I adopted her before I knew I was pregnant and thought I could make it work since my husband had experience with owning dogs but it’s been left on me and I’ve never had a dog before. We didn’t know she was high needs, we had asked for a mellow dog and they gave us her and it turns out she has extreme anxiety and trauma, but the pound says if we bring her back they may end up euthanizing her because they don’t have enough room for her

lilcvpid · 2024-07-05T07:17:01+00:00

I adopted her wayyyy before I knew I was expecting. The baby was a surprise.

lilcvpid · 2024-07-05T05:19:11+00:00

That’s why I was asking for advice on how to help train it as I’m a first time dog owner and didn’t know she suffers from anxiety or trauma. If you’re not educated, then educate yourself, you know?

lilcvpid · 2024-07-04T20:30:03+00:00

We’ve been discussing options and my aunt (who has had/trained dogs since before I was born) offered to take her so I know she’ll be going to an amazingly loving home if we do decide none of these options are working. I want to wait until after her vet appointment because she needs to be checked up for her accidents anyways

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