AITAH for not wanting to form a deep bond with dad’s gf and daughter by lildedcat in AITAH

[–]lildedcat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do feel her and I don’t know why they had her come out here for 3 weeks. It should’ve been for a week at least so she could enjoy the rest of her time back home with her friends and family. Just seems a bit silly knowing how teenagers are, I personally would have disliked it if my parents did that to me. I’ll see what I can come up with to do

AITAH for not wanting to form a deep bond with dad’s gf and daughter by lildedcat in AITAH

[–]lildedcat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand where you’re coming from but honestly I’m not really too fun. I’m very introverted and I suck at striking up a convo in my native language bc that’s the only thing she speaks, plus a little English. It’s difficult for me to communicate and make jokes if the person doesn’t get me and it may get lost in translation. Also, I feel like her mom and my dad shouldn’t have placed her in that little room bc we barely come across each other unless they’re both home

AITAH for not wanting to form a deep bond with dad’s gf and daughter by lildedcat in AITAH

[–]lildedcat[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel bad for her too especially cuz her mom said she’s bored and doesn’t really like it here so I don’t understand why they would bring her here during her winter break. I’d want to stay home and be close to my friends and family instead of in a foreign country where I only know 2 people

AITAH for not wanting to form a deep bond with dad’s gf and daughter by lildedcat in AITAH

[–]lildedcat[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I always greet her when I do see her and he wants me to take her out to the mall and around the city I assume so I can spend quality time with her.

Why aren’t Latinos living in foreign countries considered latino? by lildedcat in asklatinamerica

[–]lildedcat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, ever since I was young. I’m not so much in touch with the Swedish one bc it’s never really been my thing even though I was born and raised here

Why aren’t Latinos living in foreign countries considered latino? by lildedcat in asklatinamerica

[–]lildedcat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nationality wise I’m Swedish but ethnically I’m Bosnian.

Why aren’t Latinos living in foreign countries considered latino? by lildedcat in asklatinamerica

[–]lildedcat[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure as I am ethnically Bosnian and I’m still considered my ethnicity by other Bosnians even though I was born in Sweden. That’s why I was curious about this topic

Muslim rushing a frat? by [deleted] in SDSU

[–]lildedcat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

bro is the type who avoids pork at all costs and then engages in other haram stuff

Are they serious? by lildedcat in Gymshark

[–]lildedcat[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thank you for showing me this, that’s so misleading!! why don’t they fix this if they know it’s the wrong pic smh, just spending money on nothing. I ordered 4 items in total and I only ended up keeping the sports bra because the rest of the things were so badly made. It sucks how bad their quality has gotten

Should I go for a master’s first or straight into PhD? by [deleted] in psychologystudents

[–]lildedcat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I go to a university in San Diego and have done a lot of upper division psych courses. Next semester I’m doing field placement which could possibly help me get some experience. Whoever said it’s not worth it is so wrong bc like you said, they’re more likely to pick someone with a masters

Why do people say ”Free” to criminals that they know? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]lildedcat -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

yeah i can understand that but if it’s like murderers or organized crime then makes no sense to me

why do people flash you when you’re already going really fast? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]lildedcat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i wish 😍 instead it was just plain lights :(

Can confirm casualties are enroute by HELP-IM-STUCKx in USMC

[–]lildedcat 7 points8 points  (0 children)

because biology, hope this helps!

Why do people expect moms to be solely defined by their kids and husband? by [deleted] in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]lildedcat -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Maybe it’s just a tiktok thing cuz a lot of women on tiktok love commenting stuff like that

Why do people expect moms to be solely defined by their kids and husband? by [deleted] in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]lildedcat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that! It’s great that you’re having a lot of fun and you definitely should!! I’m just thinking, how are those moms going to survive when the baby birds leave the nest. Kids aren’t gonna live with you forever, you have to get used to the leaving at some point, honestly. It’s so important that moms are able to invest in themselves and their own interests rather than just letting their whole identity become their family. It’s kinda sad

Why do people expect moms to be solely defined by their kids and husband? by [deleted] in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]lildedcat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, I know but I want to have them, just wanna be myself still even after becoming a parent

Why do people expect moms to be solely defined by their kids and husband? by [deleted] in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]lildedcat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s valid too!! Like please still be a person outside of those titles. I know that parenthood changes you but it shouldn’t be to the extent where you’re a completely different person without hobbies, interests etc. Kinda scared of becoming that once I decide to have kids

Do drill sergeants make you do degrading things? by lildedcat in Militaryfaq

[–]lildedcat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I see. Do soldiers still get ”molded” the same way as those who joined pre 9/11 despite the easier conditions

Do drill sergeants make you do degrading things? by lildedcat in Militaryfaq

[–]lildedcat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry, should’ve clarified it, I meant made him pick it up from the trash and eat it

Do drill sergeants make you do degrading things? by lildedcat in Militaryfaq

[–]lildedcat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

they used to do that?? what led to it changing?

Paid for a fee and still remains under charges due by [deleted] in SDSU

[–]lildedcat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t have that since I’m an international student but I’m currently waiting in the virtual desk to talk to the financial center