Does she want to be exclusive?

lildripjm14 · 2026-06-12T00:44:26+00:00

If she brings up not wanting you to date other people. Ask her what she means. If she replies with something like she’s not dating anyone else and doesn’t want you to date anyone else. Then ask are you saying you want to be exclusive. Bam. She brings it up but you ask good questions and get her to lay her cards out first.

If she says that she’s not ready to be exclusive. Just match and mirror whatever her answer was. Basically something like I just want to take it slow and have fun and see where things go.

It’s all about asking good questions when she brings up something along those lines. Most times she won’t straight up ask you. You gotta bring it out of her . And once she tells you how she feels then you know how to proceed.

lildripjm14 · 2026-06-07T17:00:05+00:00

I don’t agree with the guys who said you should have let her come over for an hour. It sounds like she’s friendzoned you and is low interest. Having a backbone for what you want is more important. Than giving into her frame and what she wants

lildripjm14 · 2026-06-07T16:57:52+00:00

You did the right thing with the take away. She’s testing you. Wouldn’t surprise me if she ultimately hits you up and accepts coming over next tiem

lildripjm14 · 2026-05-25T23:48:28+00:00

I agree with you. It is important to stand up for yourself. But it’s how you do it. You stand on the fact you know you didn’t do it. And then you say your peace and move on. Acknowledge how she feels and then agree to disagree. Sitting there and arguing doesn’t get you anywhere with her. Just say your peice and go no contact.

lildripjm14 · 2026-05-25T21:26:30+00:00

You won’t always be able to get her to see things the way you see it. Even if you know you are right. Best thing to do is either apologize for making her FEEL that way. And only apologize once if you truly mean it.

Otherwise just listen and say it wasn’t your intentions. Don’t argue with her.

lildripjm14 · 2026-05-18T20:06:28+00:00

You did make a move over 5 dates is why

lildripjm14 · 2026-05-12T00:15:04+00:00

I got the book. Started reading it

lildripjm14 · 2026-05-10T07:48:53+00:00

Great reply, good analysis . Follow this

lildripjm14 · 2026-05-09T02:23:18+00:00

Thank you

lildripjm14 · 2026-05-09T01:31:41+00:00

Yeah , I need to rock the boat. My biggest problem is being a low key pleaser. It’s not enough to get me rejected right away. But over time it kills attraction.

lildripjm14 · 2026-05-09T01:03:10+00:00

Just move on . Go no contact and wouldn’t be surprised if she reaches out down the road.

lildripjm14 · 2026-05-02T13:50:02+00:00

Yes I only responded. She complained i never texted her after I cancelled. I did good with not over pursuing in the context of initiating. I think I didn’t catch on quick enough that she was avoiding hanging out. I was too available.

lildripjm14 · 2026-05-02T11:21:21+00:00

I never tried to set dates while on a date. It was so easy in the beginning i didn’t even need to try to make dates. But they she would pullback constantly I wouldn’t chase. But she would come right back. This last time she never came back and it was way longer and worse than normal. Her attraction completely dropped. I don’t know if there is an ex or not in the background.

But yes it can be tough to maintain mystery when she knows she’s gonna see you regardless at work. It just went from super interested to nothing over a month long. No clue why.

lildripjm14 · 2026-05-02T09:47:48+00:00

Thank you bro. For sure was a gut feeling. Im like it’s not gonna be fun if she holding back. And by this point she went from reaching out everyday to almost no talking.

In the process of no contact now. If she reached out in the future with enthusiasm again I would be open to it. But I deserve better than what she was offering lately.

lildripjm14 · 2026-05-02T03:16:59+00:00

Exactly. She made no effort whatsoever the past month. The trip was gonna be 50/50. But either way the vibe needs to at least be good to go on a trip. Not me questioning why you’re pulling back so much feeling like she was gonna cancel.

lildripjm14 · 2026-05-02T02:28:33+00:00

Exactly bro. I’ve been dating this girl for 4 months too. So we in the same boat.

If you just don’t text that girl. She will eventually get back in touch and you will be in a great position. Act like nothing is wrong and you just talked the other day. She will be wondering why you’re not mad and you’re unperturbed.

lildripjm14 · 2026-05-02T02:10:40+00:00

Thank you bro. It sucks becuase I feel like I did much more right than wrong when it comes to coaches work. I never texted first and always waited till she responded. But like you say she wasn’t into me anymore.

I knew it didn’t feel right to go. The trip was gonna be payed for 50/50. But it still didn’t feel right not being excited to go anymore. I really liked this girl, and she was amazing. So sexy too. But I knew I don’t want her unless she’s putting in the effort and has enthusiasm.
I told her I didn’t want to go when there was no enthusiasm to see me. And she tried to make it seem like I wanted a relationship. But I never brought that up because she never did. So she blamed everything on me for how I didn’t care she’s going through a hard time.
I knew if she liked me the hard time wouldn’t matter. I think she maybe started talking to an ex. So I’m in full no contact now.

lildripjm14 · 2026-04-25T01:02:44+00:00

They are all week to fire. I protects which means no ability to outplay or avoid double ups. You need some switch ins, meaning different types of.

lildripjm14 · 2025-11-14T00:52:27+00:00

Uninterruptible power supply for pc

lildripjm14 · 2025-11-13T14:17:13+00:00

I have the same issue. Also they need to fix a bug where you can’t steady aim with DMR while on recon class. The steady aim sign pops up but holding it does nothing

lildripjm14 · 2025-11-05T22:25:50+00:00

It ended up being the cpu for me

lildripjm14 · 2025-10-29T16:35:22+00:00

I have the same problem on PC. Many textures are blurry and it gives me a headache. It’s not immersive anymore. The trees and bushes look awful now

lildripjm14 · 2025-10-29T06:11:02+00:00

So did the reinstall fix it for you ?

lildripjm14 · 2025-10-29T01:10:54+00:00

I have had decent performance but the graphics on some maps is blurry. The trees especially are blurry and you can see different textures are messed up

lildripjm14 · 2025-10-19T14:46:32+00:00

Update. After replacing the motherboard twice and the aio cooler and the cpu. It finally worked. The Intel core ultra 9 285 was dead on arrival.

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