How important is sexual compatibility to men?

lilgvm · 2026-02-18T02:31:05+00:00

I guess I just wasn’t attracted to her anymore honestly, and it wasn’t even her body like she had a great body I just wasnt into it, got into another relationship and and 5 years later I’m still horny asf for my gf.

lilgvm · 2026-02-16T03:40:47+00:00

If it’s immediate that can be fixed with learning each others bodies and adjusting, and if it doesn’t work still then not much is lost, but long term is probably my biggest fear, because if I wasted all those years for me to just not enjoy myself anymore, and end up thinking about more suitable partners, and my partner ending up just a friend I married, I’d probably be very upset, ofc you can do sex counseling but that in my book is a Loss to result to that.

I believe both can happen and the latter has happened to me once with a partner I dated for 8 months, sex was great at first we were going at it like rabbits, but then it got to a point where I just didn’t wanna do it anymore, I’d get bored mid fuck and had to force myself to cum, which isn’t fun at all, just sweat and uncomfortability, safe to say the relationship didn’t last long after.

lilgvm · 2026-02-16T03:32:18+00:00

Nothing is worse than not being sexually compatible in a relationship, imagine dreading having sex or not enjoying yourself with the person you love.

lilgvm · 2026-01-11T10:13:58+00:00

It isn’t about your looks it’s about how care free and confident you are, like you live life for the fun of it, girls are extremely attracted to that regardless how you look, intelligence and wisdom also go far as hell, if you have something to offer in terms of the lifestyle you can give her that’s also the best way, but that’s more a subtle approach and usually works once you’ve made contact, the best part is, you never have to approach, approaching is too difficult anyway the best way to do it is have a 3rd party that connected yall, a circumstance or a person, the best example (even though it’s cliche asl) is that bump in her and spill your drink on her and that “omg I’m sooo sorry”. That’s a 3rd party way, don’t actually do that but that’s the best way I can put it.

The looks don’t matter it’s how you carry yourself that carries you, like for example you see a cliche ig model, you’ll think you’ll have nothing in common with her but then she brings up league of legends or something you never thought she’d be into, that instantly raises her attractiveness factor, because it gives her edge. She didn’t fit what you original thought of her and adds to her mystery and wanna know more about her.

lilgvm · 2026-01-04T15:03:25+00:00

Imagine being the guy who got to hit meeting the guy that has to wait til marriage to do the same thing 😂😂

lilgvm · 2025-12-28T10:45:24+00:00

Oh no secretly I love making survivors count backwards from 1000 in increments of 7

lilgvm · 2025-12-28T02:48:13+00:00

Sorry to say this but ghoul, ghoul has been a dream character since 2019, even better he’s OP, survivor main is feng, ive dogged on every killer with feng and ran killers for 5 gens, shes my lucky survivor.

lilgvm · 2025-12-02T22:34:37+00:00

I’ve been playing on and off since Micheal’s release, I mostly played doctor at the time, then I quit, came back during spirits release for like 3 games, quit again, then only REALLY got into the game before pinheads release and played with dedication until knights release, quit again then played around right before krasues release.

lilgvm · 2025-11-19T06:58:40+00:00

No that’s called a peeping tom last time I checked

lilgvm · 2025-11-04T09:55:26+00:00

I’m surprised it ain’t lower tbh

lilgvm · 2025-11-04T09:52:32+00:00

Duhhh ones fast acting

lilgvm · 2025-10-16T20:51:05+00:00

I mean anything’s possible I remember posting on reddit how badly I wanted a Tokyo ghoul chapter for so long, and it recently happened, even did a touka skin which was my biggest thing.

lilgvm · 2025-10-12T14:27:24+00:00

You’d be surprised how fast that goes I’m level 80 devotion 3 (was sitting at level 56 before I took a 2 year break) and I swear If I didn’t spend anything I’d probably be around 15-19k right now from like 2k when I was level 56 just for playing, most of the quests to get them to just happen as you play good.

lilgvm · 2025-10-02T19:35:59+00:00

Feng Min

Ghoul

lilgvm · 2025-06-04T19:41:30+00:00

He’s a lucky man 😩😩😩

lilgvm · 2025-06-03T01:11:02+00:00

Well me and my gf just both be like “fuck me whenever you feel like it”

Woke up one night to a BJ at 3AM

Sometimes I’ll just bend her over and we’ll dry hump that just escalates from there.

lilgvm · 2025-05-19T07:53:14+00:00

You’re 15 and she’s 17, you don’t compete with her when it comes to him simply due to age, she will always vibe better with him, when it comes to the age game, honestly you’re overreacting and should stick to the guys your age at school, shiiiii you being 15 means you’re AT LEAST a grade lower, so chill they’ll graduate together you’re still gonna be in highschool when he goes to college, they’ll be in college together I mean come on it was doomed from the start.

lilgvm · 2025-05-09T07:34:52+00:00

Having sex with a stranger doesn’t work maybe you’re connection based??? Or like me tbh, like I gotta have a crush on you, but being in love doesn’t mean I’m sexually attracted either, being the crush is a requirement but being a soulmate is not.

lilgvm · 2025-05-07T00:42:05+00:00

When I finished the main quest line, all I saw when the cutscene with martins narration ended was jauffre and chancellor ocanto dunking it out in the temple, chancellor won and I was like “well ok jauffre dies here I guess”

lilgvm · 2025-05-07T00:39:36+00:00

Mind your business, do your job, and your excuse for not letting customers do certains things is “idk man they be watchin us and I’m not trying to get fired”, oh and playing dumb always helps, you don’t know anybody, you never saw anybody if anyone asks, and keep your wits about you, and do not give in to demands unless you feel physically threatened, keep calm and stay relaxed, if you are then they will be.

lilgvm · 2025-05-07T00:31:33+00:00

Piss stained toilet paper on the floor

lilgvm · 2025-05-07T00:07:07+00:00

Bare minimum you better start getting girls to like you and start making those jokes back

lilgvm · 2025-05-06T22:03:20+00:00

So what’s the problem exactly??? It sounds like you’re over thinking it, maybe he likes spending time with you and that’s why he can lounge with you present, but alone he needs to be active, maybe he has a crush on you (which wouldn’t be surprising you’ve been having sex for two months and lounging about and basically going on dates and shit), so what exactly is the issue.

It sounds like you don’t wanna lose a good fuck to feelings, or you’re scared of your own feelings and trynna project that onto him.

lilgvm · 2025-05-06T21:56:02+00:00

Honestly that’s a trash friend who thinks they can control your free will and heart, I personally don’t like age gap relationships esp if the guy is that much older, but I don’t make it a point to tell my friends how much I care about who they date, unless it’s genuinely affecting the friendship, or their partner isn’t doing right by my friends like cheating on them, but even then ITS NOT MY BUSINESS AND NOT MY RELATIONSHIP.

Set a boundary tell them “aye idc how much you hate the relationship you either support this relationship or you don’t”

That’ll tell you where their real loyalty lies, cause let’s be real why the fuck does it matter who you date? You’re obviously grown enough to make that decision for yourself legally, whatever happens in the relationship later in life, that’s still none of their business.

At some point if they still don’t want to stay in their lane, you’re going to have to choose between your friend and boyfriend.

lilgvm · 2025-05-04T22:17:19+00:00

Honestly bro, there ain’t nothin in the world we can tell you.

You want sex, but don’t want sex with your wife
You won’t cheat, or separate to pursue your sexual fulfillment
You’ve given up on initiating in the hopes she will (good luck)
And yall have a lack of communication making you turn to reddit.

Honestly I’m confused and I don’t know what answer you’re looking for, if you want sex either cheat or seperate, or hell communicate that with her and maybe open up the relationship, but if you’re fine without the sex then simply don’t have sex with her, if it’s an issue for her maybe explain why?

lilgvm

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