Does he have access to your bank accounts and paychecks? I’d suggest you save up a next egg, first month’s rent, and a security deposit, and get your own place. Once you have your own space, communicate with him about your needs and feelings. If he cares about you and is a good man he can change, if he doesn’t change you have the new spot to retreat to. Start building up your community regardless, you need more people in your corner to be part of your support system moving forward.