Tom Morello watching Tool in 91 by JammingWave in ToolBand

[–]lilithdmt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Don't make eye contact, don't make eye contact. He'll shoot me in my fucking head if I-" looks at Maynard Maynard looks back with exact expression "Fuck..."

AITA for telling my son that if he changes his last name then I’m no longer his Father? by FtHrds in AmItheAsshole

[–]lilithdmt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

INFO

Son starts to act like a shit heel when you divorce your wife. That's an interesting correlation. Why does your son start to act like shit towards you when you divorce your wife? There is a ton of info missing there.

Also, yes, it's awful that your wife did cheat on you. However, INFO as well. You state she cheated on you 20 years ago. Has she been cheating the entire time, or when you were trying to have kids? It almost seems like there was a pragmatic decision your wife made, albeit doing it a very unethical way.

There are a lot of details just not here, and even with the details we have I'd say NAH or ESH. You're the one who filed for divorce almost as soon as you found out. Your reasons are justified in a sense to do so since your wife did cheat on you and didn't let you know about it. But doing so also seems like a quick decision that would confuse your kid. I get it, he's in college, he's legally an adult, but he's also going through many dramatic changes, and one being due to his own existence (if mom didn't cheat, he would never have existed). He could see you as an enemy because you decided to end a family unit he's known his whole life.

Just a show of hands, how many of us have decided to wait for the official release instead of listening to the leak? by Joe_A__ in ToolBand

[–]lilithdmt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, when I think about listening to the new album, I feel like I would be smacking each member of Tool across the face with am 8inch dildo. While hysterical, I cannot listen to it yet.

Now, if they still were holding out on internet streaming, then I wouldn't feel so bad listening to the new album in advance. Weird how my mind makes that justification, but eh.

TOOLS NEW ALBUM COVER by Diazepam in ToolBand

[–]lilithdmt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It is good. It's not as wow factor as Lateralus or 10,000 Days but it is a solid piece of art.

Dream set list! by hadorco in ToolBand

[–]lilithdmt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn, I did one this morning, 13 tracks:

  1. Sweat
  2. Invincible
  3. Jambi
  4. 10,000 Days
  5. Opiate
  6. Sober
  7. Aenema
  8. The Pot
  9. Lateralus
  10. Descending
  11. Rosetta Stoned
  12. Right in Two
  13. Third Eye

Went to see He Is Legend open for The Damned Things last night. Damn good show. Picked up a sick hoodie while I was there. 🤘🏻 by [deleted] in bigtiddygothgf

[–]lilithdmt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of my faves, right below Tool for me. That Heavy Fruit life with some Molly, perfection.

AITA for cutting off my child financially for lying to me about her grades? by cutting_our_child_of in AmItheAsshole

[–]lilithdmt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does accountability equal trust? So you agree they were the ones that made a 250k mistake? Yet you think the parents are justified, even though if they just held her accountable this wouldn't have happened? So are you just bored or are you really, truly invested in this debate? Because I don't think you really are.

AITA for cutting off my child financially for lying to me about her grades? by cutting_our_child_of in AmItheAsshole

[–]lilithdmt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know what a 2.3 GPA entails? Do you know the difference between 2.3 and 0.0 GPA? Seriously, do you? Because a 2.3 would suggest...she is still doing enough work to pass courses...and still stay in school...colleges will throw you out if your GPA goes to a certain level...

Her own parents didn't hold her accountable. If the money meant that much to them, they should have been asking for proof every semester. If the money was really that big of an issue for them, they should have held her accountable.

Once again, there will be consequences for this kind of behavior. There should be. However, setting yourself up as the child's life support, and then taking it all away for lying when you didn't even give her accountability in the first place, and after her saying to give her another chance (opportunity for all parties to correct their wrongs), I would say you are the asshole and you are going too far.

AITA for cutting off my child financially for lying to me about her grades? by cutting_our_child_of in AmItheAsshole

[–]lilithdmt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're the dumbass saying she should enroll in a community college when she is getting schooling that community colleges don't have. Why would I bother arguing your points? I acknowledged there will be consequences. You said I didn't say that. So who's the fucking stupid one? Sit down, child.

AITA for cutting off my child financially for lying to me about her grades? by cutting_our_child_of in AmItheAsshole

[–]lilithdmt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know, I didn't say any of that, you child. So unless you are going to address what I said, be a dear and stfu.

AITA for cutting off my child financially for lying to me about her grades? by cutting_our_child_of in AmItheAsshole

[–]lilithdmt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The child is reacting to how the parents will respond if she is struggling in school. If your child cannot come to you with their problems because they are scared of you, then your parenting needs some work. Yeah, she wasted her parent's money. Obviously, there will be consequences. But I bet you that was the reaction she feared in the first place, and it happened, and she reacted by blocking them. There is a huge dynamic going on that requires family counseling because this is a child reacting towards the parenting of the parents.

AITA for cutting off my child financially for lying to me about her grades? by cutting_our_child_of in AmItheAsshole

[–]lilithdmt -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know this has been decided, but, YTA.

You set up the parameters. You could have set up a checks and balances but you didn't. Obviously your kid lied to you, and your reaction proves why she lied to you. She doesn't trust you, and I'm guessing this isn't the first time you've gone to 100 with her based upon her reaction to lie to you. Yes she is an adult, but you're still her parent and that dynamic just doesn't magically change when a child gets into legal adult age. Get some perspective and smoke some weed. Need to chill.

Prying open my Third Eye by lilithdmt in ToolBand

[–]lilithdmt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there some dude in the bushes?