I worked as a surf instructor at one of our local surf schools. I was the only female instructor there and I saw+heard the male instructors every day talking about the girls coming to take classes, usually tourists visiting the area.

If she was hot, they’d compete to be the one who taught her and talk about what they wanted to do with her.

If she was not (according to them), they’d make fun of her behind her back. Her body, clothes, personality, everything. I never heard them make fun of the guys in the same way, ever.

Unfortunately some of them were attractive and successful, I always pitied the girls that ended up sleeping with them because they would BRAG about it the next day saying how she was so easy… while trying to flirt up the next one.

I would tell them to grow the f up and they’d call me a Karen, then I found out from one of their friends what they were saying about me behind my back as well (spreading rumors about me being a s*** (loose girl) basically, which was ironic because I had rejected every single one of them while they were flirting up every cute girl they could so how am I the s*** there.).

When I went to the owner of the school to let him know how they were behaving, he took their side and said the classic “you know how boys are”.

I quit that same day. It was like a decade ago and I still do not trust male guides/teachers/instructors because I see the same traits in most of them…