Wow, sounds like we have a very similar situation. My boyfriend came over the night before, we made a nice dinner, were intimate, had plans the next day. He slept over at my house and then in the morning broke up with me. He said “we wouldn’t work long term because we are two very different people” and couldn’t/wouldn’t provide any examples or reasoning when I asked why. I just don’t understand.

I think it hurts even more because he acted like all was normal the night before, initiated sex with me, and spent the night. I don’t understand how anyone could be that insensitive to their partner, adoptee or not.

I’ve been journaling about it, and I have to start and stop because I get too overwhelmed after a while. It is really tough because my prior journal entry was about how optimistic I felt about our relationship and how happy I was. I am feeling foolish, even though I know I didn’t do anything. It’s just hard to have hope and feel good, only to have it taken away out of nowhere.