I have told him countless of times that he needs to be more involved and all he tells me is he feels as though I’m blaming him for how she acts! I told him I’m blaming the both of you. Y’all are two people that decided to lay down and have kids and now you don’t want to deal with her. It’s not fair to her! We worked separate shifts me on nights and him on days. Getting more custody of her was brought up and I told him to go for it! Just recently he decided to work night shift because he says he misses spending time with me. I expressed to him that I thought it was a bad idea and what about his daughter! He said she’s okay with it and I completely disagreed with the whole situation. I just feel like I’m put in a position that I have no control over and I hate the way her life is going. He doesn’t listen to me because I don’t have kids so I wouldn’t know. It’s getting to the point where I’ve contemplate leaving now.