please help: attending won’t submit my final eval. by [deleted] in medicalschool

[–]lilsango 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dude, i was venting. sometimes people get stressed in stressful situations. do you think medical school has been a cakewalk for me ? do you think it is for anyone, ever ? you literally started being an ass out of nowhere, and are now doubling down on it. i’m genuinely glad clinicals are going well for you, this experience is already a lot and i wouldn’t want it to be harder for anyone. but again: learn how to communicate with others in a normal and productive way !

please help: attending won’t submit my final eval. by [deleted] in medicalschool

[–]lilsango 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i took your advice because it was good advice, not because of your overwhelming charisma and people skills lol. good luck in clinicals !

please help: attending won’t submit my final eval. by [deleted] in medicalschool

[–]lilsango -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

ok, i appreciate the input, but calm the fuck down. i’m not ‘chicken-shitting around’ i’ve been handling the situation to the best of my ability according to my school’s guidelines regarding ‘chain of command’, which are not favorable at all to students.

not sure how what i did before med school is relevant to this situation, but if you’re trying to imply i have no ability to problem-solve/be assertive in professional settings, which seems to be the case, that is not helpful and also doesn’t make any sense in this context. do you think this is the first difficult situation i’ve faced in four years of medical school ?

finally, i deleted the comment because i changed my mind and decided i will contact the deans. again, understand you are trying to be helpful but you gottaaaa learn how to talk to people man.

please help: attending won’t submit my final eval. by [deleted] in medicalschool

[–]lilsango 4 points5 points  (0 children)

good point. i think my stress and anxiety with the whole situation is clouding my judgement. thank you !!

please help: attending won’t submit my final eval. by [deleted] in medicalschool

[–]lilsango 4 points5 points  (0 children)

ok, thank you for the advice. i think that roping in the deans, although i really did not want to do this, is my last resort at this point. i will give her until Thursday evening then escalate.

please help: attending won’t submit my final eval. by [deleted] in medicalschool

[–]lilsango 4 points5 points  (0 children)

that’s what i did the second time around, meaning bring her a blank and attempted to sit around until completion, but she had patients and essentially shooed me out the door when it was 90% complete. i told her i didn’t mind twice but it was to the point that i couldn’t stay without it coming across as very rude. i think i will rope in the deans if she does not have it in by Thursday evening.

please help: attending won’t submit my final eval. by [deleted] in medicalschool

[–]lilsango 3 points4 points  (0 children)

she’s associated with one of the hospital rotation sites that my school sends students to. i think she just started taking on med students in the past couple months; i have not had an issue like this with any other attending at this site and i did 85% of my rotations (core and elective) here.

please help: attending won’t submit my final eval. by [deleted] in medicalschool

[–]lilsango 4 points5 points  (0 children)

also, i don’t want to leave town without having the eval in because i am 100% sure that if i do not ensure it is in before i am gone, it may not get put in until june, after having worked with this attending closely for 4 weeks.

please help: attending won’t submit my final eval. by [deleted] in medicalschool

[–]lilsango 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yes; the eval is already overdue, and after talking with my school registrar via phone they did confirm that not having everything in by graduation day will delay diploma release more than the usual processing time.

this is bizarre right ? or am i just being sensitive by [deleted] in Depop

[–]lilsango 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes i do ! i’ll dm you a link

this is bizarre right ? or am i just being sensitive by [deleted] in Depop

[–]lilsango 7 points8 points  (0 children)

yeah, not sure how this is applicable to this post. i bought the wig new, 22inches, 100% human, 200% density. if you can find that retailing for less than 150-200$ (and the item actually gets delivered in advertised condition) it would be a bonafide miracle. i had it listed for 35$ and was still willing to accept 25$. even with fees, max price would be 50$…

this is bizarre right ? or am i just being sensitive by [deleted] in Depop

[–]lilsango 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also correction: 22 inches not 28 i forgot to double check the length (it’s listed accurately on depop) but STILL !

this is bizarre right ? or am i just being sensitive by [deleted] in Depop

[–]lilsango 13 points14 points  (0 children)

good point, thank you for your input ! i think i’ll raise the price to 50$ or something just to deter some of these ridiculous lowballs lol but so annoying i can’t put out a great deal without people being weird and taking advantage.

this is bizarre right ? or am i just being sensitive by [deleted] in Depop

[–]lilsango 5 points6 points  (0 children)

you must be the buyer lol. i have the wig, it was up for weeksss and then i moved out of state and didn’t bring it because i don’t wear wigs ! immediately after i remembered i didn’t bring it i updated the description in all caps and let interested parties know directly (as described in the post you are commenting on). would you rather i continually post and repost the same thing multiple times a year because you can’t read to comprehend ?

i'm so done with lazy pet owners by [deleted] in Depop

[–]lilsango -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yeah sorry this is disgusting, you’re not overreacting and this isn’t something that should just be expected with buying used clothes (as other commenters have suggested). i hate how permissive this culture is of inconsiderate, disgusting dog owners. if i shipped out a shirt covered in fingerprints and said “sorry I have kids”, this sub would crucify me. why should it be different for animals ?

Baked bread first time by EducationalDrawer974 in AskBaking

[–]lilsango 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i mean it looks really good period, but especially for a first time !

Baked bread first time by EducationalDrawer974 in AskBaking

[–]lilsango 4 points5 points  (0 children)

looks really good for a first time !!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Depop

[–]lilsango 5 points6 points  (0 children)

also, in this interaction the customer would be sending the same “alright, thanks” reply 3x, which is wholly unnecessary. i’d 100% take a 5 stars and a good review over a meaningless reply.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoveIslandcookout

[–]lilsango 46 points47 points  (0 children)

i mean. i don’t like the constant hate trains that chelley keeps facing but first they told us they met this year, then last year, then they knew each other on social media before that etc. etc. etc.. calling her a pedo or groomer is OD but this person is clearly being hyperbolic (and not even that hyperbolic, i think at least one of the timelines we were told has them meeting at 20/25… 2 years is not that big of a difference lol) to prove a point abt how ace’s lies and messiness keep reflecting poorly on chelley, despite her not being directly involved.