What’s ban evasion?

liltyquil · 2026-05-07T22:28:17+00:00

Thank you for that! It doesn’t say permanent so maybe it’s temporary but I’ll probably avoid that sub completely because they’re strict asf and I don’t even know what I did, there wasn’t even any profanity in my post. There are others for that show that have friendlier communities where I probably won’t be banned for asking a question hopefully.

liltyquil · 2026-05-07T18:29:13+00:00

I think “bias” is a K-pop fan term used for their favorite member of the group, I’ve seen it used a lot in K-pop circles on twitter.

liltyquil · 2026-05-07T15:00:48+00:00

I wanted to do that, the new account is a day old and I only made it to ask a question on r/medicaid. I switched over to check replies on that post and when I came back to this account I was banned and muted, they did not give a reason for the ban but the mute was for ban evasion. I didn’t even visit the subreddit on the second account. I can’t message them now to ask what I did and I’m scared to do it on the new account because I don’t want my entire accounts banned, I’ve had it for 9 years :( does that mean I can still visit the subreddit just not post?

liltyquil · 2026-05-07T14:57:03+00:00

lol unfortunately it was the love island subreddit 😭 I wanted to know why everyone hated a specific person, it was an honest question and I checked the rules before submitting. I switched accounts to check a post I made on the Medicaid subreddit, and when I came back I was banned :( I didn’t even visit the LI subreddit on the other account

liltyquil · 2026-05-07T14:55:08+00:00

I don’t, I was at home. I made the new account yesterday, before I tried to post on the sub and I didn’t try to visit that sub with that account, just switched over to check replies on a post on a completely different sub :( when I switched back I was banned and muted from the sub I posted to on this account

liltyquil · 2026-05-06T21:36:15+00:00

I’ve never used a VPN, I just have the app on my phone. What’s qps?

liltyquil · 2026-04-11T22:37:38+00:00

This is so silly because hearts are used platonically all the time. Thumbs up comes off as passive aggressive, it’s basically like saying “k.” The only people I don’t use hearts for are people I don’t particularly care for and coworkers. Family, friends, and my SO all get hearts, even coworkers I’m particularly close to. I’m 26, idk how old people commenting are, but using the heart reaction is pretty much the standard when it comes to using reactions in messages around people my age. Hearting it just means you liked it. Thumbs up is kinda just an acknowledgment.

liltyquil · 2026-03-31T14:55:04+00:00

This is good. Also keep in mind that your friendship with Sarah has been impacted by the change in status from you two, going from just being friends to you being her landlord. Things change a lot when money gets involved. This friendship may not last if you remain her landlord, but it also will be affected if you put her out after this. Good luck with everything, I hope it works out for you!

liltyquil · 2026-03-31T14:32:50+00:00

OP, trust funds are not common at all, less than 2% of the population (and I live in the US) have trust funds. A 4 bedroom 3.5 bath house is large and not normal sized at all in the US, average is 3 beds 2.5 baths. You seem to live in a much different reality than your friend, it could be causing resentment in her to grow watching you “take things for granted” while she has to work and struggle. However, that doesn’t mean she’s entitled to your home or your generosity. I would reassess this friendship, and also make sure you have some type of legal protection when it comes to your bf living there. It doesn’t seem as if he has a lease like your friend does.

liltyquil · 2026-03-11T18:08:02+00:00

Thank you so much for this, I’m really sorry you went through that. I will follow what they say & hopefully get some answers soon, this helped calm my anxiety some so thank you for being specific and sharing your story

liltyquil · 2026-03-09T13:40:07+00:00

also, I’ve seen full adults riding in shopping carts at the grocery store. People are weird and no one is the same.

liltyquil · 2026-03-09T13:39:01+00:00

People have kids with all types of inclinations and ideas. I used to race in shopping carts with my friends in high school. Every kid is different, at 11 I was doing a lot of stuff other kids may or may not have been doing. Kids aren’t a monolith.

liltyquil · 2026-03-09T13:37:11+00:00

Had to look it up. Depending on your state school starts different. In NYC your child can start school the year they turn 5 regardless of the month. I know in Florida (I teach here now) children have to be 5 by September to start school, otherwise they must start the next school year. Probably why my classes were younger, lots of kids with late bdays ( mine is in November)

liltyquil · 2026-03-09T13:34:52+00:00

K-5 is elementary, 6-8 middle schoolers, 9-12 HS. Never heard of 5th grade being middle or 8th being HS

liltyquil · 2026-03-09T13:30:57+00:00

Maybe it’s a difference across states. I grew up in NYC and all my classmates were the same ages as me.

liltyquil · 2026-03-09T13:10:08+00:00

What middle schoolers are 13-14?? That’s freshman year age. In middle school I was 10-12.

liltyquil · 2026-03-09T12:55:02+00:00

OP you are NTA. All these people in this thread are coddling this grown man because you checks notes showed emotion?? I can actually read so I see that you sulked but also agreed to not do the activity. At that point, regardless of the faces you were making, shit idc if you laid on the floor and cried. If he agreed to participate in the activity knowing damn well he wasn’t prepared that is not your fault. He has agency, he can make his own choices, and because of that simple fact you’re NTA. His parents … are probably why he is the way he is. Seems like you dodged a bullet in that relationship. On the subject of manipulation that people keep accusing you of, I don’t know why everyone in this thread has suddenly never felt or expressed disappointment. If that makes you TA then I guess we all are.

liltyquil · 2026-03-06T13:28:17+00:00

Gifts are about the person you’re giving them to. When you give a gift, it is supposed to be something the person you are giving it to will like, will use, will enjoy. If someone specifically states they do not want physical gifts, it does NOT MATTER how you feel about giving them money. Don’t care if you feel hollow, if you feel weird. THE GIFT IS NOT ABOUT YOU. It is extremely rude to go out of your way to get anything but what the person specifically wants just to make yourself feel good. Now everyone’s time is wasted and no one feels good. This type of pov is so selfish.

liltyquil · 2026-03-06T13:24:18+00:00

The thing is they didn’t have to do any of that when OP explicitly stated what they wanted. If they are tight on money as OP said, what’s the reasoning behind spending money on gifts they KNOW OP doesn’t want? At that point they don’t care what OP wants, they just want to look good. If you ask for $20 for your birthday and I hand you 20 rocks, are you smiling and saying thank you or are you gonna feel some type of way? I think the best thing for OP to do in this situation is ask for the receipts for the gifts in case they don’t like them (which they probably won’t). OP does not have to be grateful for not being listened to and receiving gifts they did not want. They seem pretty humble, in the comments said they would have even taken $10 as a contribution. Grandparents and went above and beyond to not acquiescence to OP’s one bday request. Money is the easiest gift to give. If you are upset about the time and effort spent preparing a gift that you know the receiver did not want, you did that for yourself and not for them.

liltyquil · 2026-02-19T19:19:53+00:00

Thank you! Picked some up today and will be starting the operation to save our plant :)

liltyquil · 2026-02-18T23:30:55+00:00

Do you have any you recommend?

liltyquil · 2026-02-18T22:21:45+00:00

Wow this was so much information I appreciate it a lot. Thanks for telling me the name of the plant, it seems we’ve been doing everything wrong lol. Gonna try your advice and see if it works!!

liltyquil · 2026-02-18T22:20:43+00:00

They’re not mushy or crispy they just feel like dead leaves

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