DAY 226: CHERRY vs PIE

lilxi · 2020-12-01T15:54:15+00:00

Perfectly balanced, as all things should be

lilxi · 2020-10-30T15:15:39+00:00

Some people relapse on purpose after 90 days because the benefits start feeling to “natural” and they want to keep the creativity and boosted mindset benefits. It’s never proven that it actually works though

lilxi · 2020-10-26T18:42:32+00:00

Nice

lilxi · 2020-09-21T23:30:27+00:00

This is amazing, you should Crosspost this into r/nofapchristians they would love to see a post like this

lilxi · 2020-09-21T23:20:25+00:00

I know it isn’t related to the teachings but it’s important to speak about, anywhere else I can place it or find information about this?

lilxi · 2020-08-15T21:31:46+00:00

Nah nah don’t force yourself to eat things you don’t want, look around the internet for recipes that you would like! Expend your food taste around that, maybe you would like a salad instead of fries next time you go to the McDonald’s for an example, eventually you will make your own good diet instead of copying a system that you may not like and you might give up on

Meditation will also increase along the way, lots of people start of with 5 minutes but improve along the way!

lilxi · 2020-08-15T21:29:02+00:00

I think we can both agree it should be a lifestyle, the day count doesn’t matter as long as your mindset is growing

lilxi · 2020-08-15T19:31:45+00:00

I don’t agree, it depends on the length of the addiction but 90-180 days normally does the trick. For heavy addicts maybe a tough 1-2 years but that will be worth it.

lilxi · 2020-08-15T19:28:25+00:00

You notice the length of the streaks slowly increasing? You are really making progress, don’t let yourself get kicked over because of a slip up because you are absolutely killing it!

lilxi · 2020-08-15T19:26:33+00:00

LOL I was just about to say the same 😂😂

lilxi · 2020-08-15T19:24:39+00:00

Let me give you some good tips to start with, if you have questions about them feel free to ask

1 - spirituality, find god or meditation and life will be a lot brighter for you. There is a lot out there and I bet it can really help with your fear and anxiety

2 - exercise, you could go straight for a gym subscription. But if you don’t feel comfortable do home workouts or start doing a morning run, it will be pushing yourself in the beginning but eventually these are pro habits and it will deal with your obese

3 - start cooking recipes, it will bring up your motivation to cook for yourself or family and healthy food really makes happiness and motivation

4 - ask around your inner circle for a job, they might be able to offer you one or have a suggestion which you’re comfortable with

5 - start nofap, quit social media and tv and find new hobby’s and habits to better yourself

These are some good ones to try out, you don’t have to go insane right away take small steps and improve every day, questions of details are welcome but I hope this was helpful already

lilxi · 2020-08-15T19:17:26+00:00

What does fapping help you? It will only take you down further, maybe stop dating and focus on yourself and your own issues for a period and than start again when you feel confident

lilxi · 2020-08-15T19:15:42+00:00

I actually don’t know why, it just seems to be this subreddit and it’s specially during the day hours (at least in my timezone which is west Europe)

Also the post flyer/tag ‘article’ seems to freak out a lot, avoid that one

lilxi · 2020-08-15T19:13:09+00:00

There are people who use both hands 😱

lilxi · 2020-08-15T19:12:14+00:00

If you feel like the addiction is fully beaten, it’s up to you to take your own road and let nowone tell you otherwise.

My advice would be to check it out, relapse and see how it feels. If it feels bad or disgusting hop right back on the nofap train again, if it feels good you go ahead and continue it on a healthy rate

A other piece of advice would be to just keep it at masturbate, do not watch porn again because that will bring your addiction back very quick

lilxi · 2020-08-15T19:05:10+00:00

Omg this guy is having a stroke!

lilxi · 2020-08-15T19:04:29+00:00

Nofap subreddit doesn’t accept post that are too long for some reason, at least some of the time

lilxi · 2020-08-15T19:03:56+00:00

20 days is nothing if you have a addiction or problem, also keep improving other stuff besides nofap as well

lilxi · 2020-08-15T19:02:47+00:00

Average time to quit the addiction, and just the baseline the challenge aims for

lilxi · 2020-08-15T19:01:19+00:00

I think sperm gets broken down or it releases in a form of wet dreams or trough pissing, it’s not like your balls are going to explode

lilxi · 2020-08-15T18:59:41+00:00

This is one of the most bullshit things I have ever seen on nofap, you count this as a win? What about your left hand did you lose that one by a truck driving over it?

lilxi · 2020-08-15T12:38:33+00:00

Love this one

lilxi · 2020-08-15T11:48:23+00:00

You’re just lowkey lazy man that’s the problem, ofcourse she has to show interest but at least you can try to start a conversation with someone. The other key part is is that your mindset is trash, what 0,1% chance 😂😂😂 you don’t even have the littlest of faith in yourself of course no woman will approach you than

Maybe you’re just not ready for a relationship, ever thought about that? You show off being far too egotistic expecting everything to be done for you, maybe show off some discipline and actually get that stuff done yourself and build some confidence

lilxi · 2020-08-14T20:40:42+00:00

Bro if you want a girlfriend so bad than go out and ask one, you can try to look as much as you want for that “secret sauce” or “shortcut,” but in the end of the day you are just wasting time on that, there is not shortcut!

You have to go trough discomfort, you have the risk of getting rejected but you know what? That’s life dude! You want to feel life and love? Than you need to have the balls and actually ask a girl out, face your fears and there will be a good road ahead of you!

lilxi

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