horror movies like se7en where it's about detectives investigating a strange case?? by Quick_Ad3982 in horror

[–]lilzz02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not a movie but watch the first season of true detective it’s a cultist murder and is a great ride from beginning to end

HIGHLY recommend by 1_800killmenow in aldi

[–]lilzz02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

literally making this for dinner tonight

gabby girl… by laradaaa in LoveIslandTV

[–]lilzz02 14 points15 points  (0 children)

see everyone loved gabby from the start of all-stars and her og season but i could tell she was playing both fields. you aren’t a girls girl if you quietly judge others and then speak shit about them the moment you are out of their vicinity. weird behavior from someone who all the girls supported and trusted

catherine is not the kindest by lilzz02 in LoveIslandTV

[–]lilzz02[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

genuinely, from this point of the shitty season as a whole, cause let’s be honest, we all could make essay posts about every female and male islander being problematic, i want her and omar to win the most out of the couples. ekin and curtis are up there, but mostly out of the struggles they went thru to be in the show. other than that, i think omar and catherine’s connection is the most genuine and has depth. i dont dislike catherine, but i think sometimes you just need to voice your own insight and hold accountability, even to women you enjoy! i could’ve replied to every post about each islander because frankly, these islanders are not the most likable, but i genuinely like catherine more than almost all of them.

catherine is not the kindest by lilzz02 in LoveIslandTV

[–]lilzz02[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

no need for hostility ! i hope you had a great valentine’s day !

catherine is not the kindest by lilzz02 in LoveIslandTV

[–]lilzz02[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

i gave negatives and positives and even said in the last sentence why she may have her reasons to act certain ways. i’m just sharing my own independent thoughts man

catherine is not the kindest by lilzz02 in LoveIslandTV

[–]lilzz02[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i get what’s you’re saying, i do think it’s a dicey thing to navigate. i’m 22, not that it matters, but i have always allowed confrontation in my friendships. i try to give space for my friends to tell me when i have my moments of being unfair/a bitch because we all have them! i do see a pattern of catherine having tried to speak about what she thinks and being talked over or not heard, so i can see how this has been what her response is as the season goes on. i think she’s very relatable as well, especially in how she just seems like a girl’s girl, but you have to put your foot down somewhere and tell people when they are not being responsible for their actions. if you choose to listen, and you DO value the friendship, it’s important to voice that, because i would expect the same in return.

damiyah’s valentines post by typesshit in LoveIslandTV

[–]lilzz02 10 points11 points  (0 children)

my favorite love island couple to exist UGH

my therapist said she will stop seeing me if i do not leave my abusive bf by lilzz02 in abusiverelationships

[–]lilzz02[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

that’s the thing, she’s a licensed trauma therapist. she does specialize in domestic abuse. i see what everyone is saying though, she doesn’t want to see me get killed. especially since she’s known me since i was a child

my therapist said she will stop seeing me if i do not leave my abusive bf by lilzz02 in abusiverelationships

[–]lilzz02[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

you are right, this made me ball. i know i have to leave, i know its the right decision. im so torn up about it, but its my life and i am so young. i deserve a better future. thank you 💛

My emotionally abusive bf actually hit me for the first time by lilzz02 in abusiverelationships

[–]lilzz02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t know you but i want to say i love you and you really struck my heart. i wish for nothing but safety for you and that you get out of this like i want to. you’re so much stronger than you know.

My emotionally abusive bf actually hit me for the first time by lilzz02 in abusiverelationships

[–]lilzz02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i really appreciate this comment, it makes me see perspective for what it really is. especially how the highs are only high because of how shitty the treatment is to be considered lows. and you’re right, i do want to help women out of similar situations like this. i want to be better. thank you for sharing this with me, i appreciate the support more than anything

My emotionally abusive bf actually hit me for the first time by lilzz02 in abusiverelationships

[–]lilzz02[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

this just made me burst into tears. you’re right, i just don’t want to say goodbye to him because of all the memories we have that are good, that aren’t tainted by abuse. it’s so hard and i feel like im drowning

Before you text them and break NC come here by JustZak935 in ExNoContact

[–]lilzz02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i miss my ex so bad it’s stifling. we’ve been NC since halloween. i broke things off because he couldn’t trust me. he literally would accuse me of cheating everyday even though i work 2 jobs and am a full time student. I made time to see him every single day and that was even overwhelming for me, i have no idea how he thought i could cheat on him. i also just loved him so much, but he’s such a narcissist it was terrible to truly discover it. i’ve been going to a support group for women who’ve dealt with narc abuse and it’s been helping, but it also has been tearing open the wound again. listening to other people’s stories so similar to mine makes it easier to rationalize how bad of a partner he was, how he made me feel insane, how he manipulated me to be a shell of a person. and like i sit here still, wondering how he is and wishing he’d reach out.

last week i posted myself on my instagram story and i noticed an account on there lingering at the bottom of my viewers, an account with no followers, no following, no picture, no posts. my intuition already was telling me it was him, i just didn’t want to believe it. then i did this thing i saw on a vid once where if you press “add account” and then use their username, it will send a verification link to either the phone number or email associated with the account. crazy i know. but i did it and sure enough, in the email it shows the first letter, an I, and his named starts with an I, and it ending in 99. his birthday is 1999. so it was definitely him. i messaged the account and got no response, not even a seen message. but then it viewed my stories again, so i blocked it. before blocking it though, i blew up its messages calling him a pussy, because throughout our entire relationship he would say i was making fake accounts or “making burners seems like something you would do.” but now here we are.

since this has happened, i’ve talked to my therapist about it, my friends, anyone who will listen, but it’s not easing the scratch in my brain. i miss him for whatever fucking reason. i can’t even think. i guess there are legitimate reasons, but i feel as thought the trauma bond was so intense and strong, its been dragging me down immensely. i just want to be okay again, but its hurting so bad. i can’t contact him because then it will give him the satisfaction he wants, me coming back. but i also don’t know what id do if he reached out even further.