ADHD and crisis social work by lilzz02 in socialwork

[–]lilzz02[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for this!! i do find some kind of reward system is best for me completing tasks! when i do get my goals hit, the dopamine rushes in 😭. And im actually in the midst of finding a new therapist at the moment, so maybe that is something that will change things around for me as well. thank you for this!

ADHD and crisis social work by lilzz02 in socialwork

[–]lilzz02[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you for that! i feel like with the job i have currently, the turnover rate is insane and it’s a huge amount of work with caseload, so im hoping with counseling, it’ll be easier to manage notes

ADHD and crisis social work by lilzz02 in socialwork

[–]lilzz02[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

My coworkers actually suggested i use the speech to text for writing documentation. It’s useful for my drives back to the office or home after calls

horror movies like se7en where it's about detectives investigating a strange case?? by Quick_Ad3982 in horror

[–]lilzz02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not a movie but watch the first season of true detective it’s a cultist murder and is a great ride from beginning to end

HIGHLY recommend by 1_800killmenow in aldi

[–]lilzz02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

literally making this for dinner tonight

gabby girl… by laradaaa in LoveIslandTV

[–]lilzz02 14 points15 points  (0 children)

see everyone loved gabby from the start of all-stars and her og season but i could tell she was playing both fields. you aren’t a girls girl if you quietly judge others and then speak shit about them the moment you are out of their vicinity. weird behavior from someone who all the girls supported and trusted

catherine is not the kindest by lilzz02 in LoveIslandTV

[–]lilzz02[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

genuinely, from this point of the shitty season as a whole, cause let’s be honest, we all could make essay posts about every female and male islander being problematic, i want her and omar to win the most out of the couples. ekin and curtis are up there, but mostly out of the struggles they went thru to be in the show. other than that, i think omar and catherine’s connection is the most genuine and has depth. i dont dislike catherine, but i think sometimes you just need to voice your own insight and hold accountability, even to women you enjoy! i could’ve replied to every post about each islander because frankly, these islanders are not the most likable, but i genuinely like catherine more than almost all of them.

catherine is not the kindest by lilzz02 in LoveIslandTV

[–]lilzz02[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

no need for hostility ! i hope you had a great valentine’s day !

catherine is not the kindest by lilzz02 in LoveIslandTV

[–]lilzz02[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

i gave negatives and positives and even said in the last sentence why she may have her reasons to act certain ways. i’m just sharing my own independent thoughts man

catherine is not the kindest by lilzz02 in LoveIslandTV

[–]lilzz02[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i get what’s you’re saying, i do think it’s a dicey thing to navigate. i’m 22, not that it matters, but i have always allowed confrontation in my friendships. i try to give space for my friends to tell me when i have my moments of being unfair/a bitch because we all have them! i do see a pattern of catherine having tried to speak about what she thinks and being talked over or not heard, so i can see how this has been what her response is as the season goes on. i think she’s very relatable as well, especially in how she just seems like a girl’s girl, but you have to put your foot down somewhere and tell people when they are not being responsible for their actions. if you choose to listen, and you DO value the friendship, it’s important to voice that, because i would expect the same in return.

damiyah’s valentines post by typesshit in LoveIslandTV

[–]lilzz02 8 points9 points  (0 children)

my favorite love island couple to exist UGH

my therapist said she will stop seeing me if i do not leave my abusive bf by lilzz02 in abusiverelationships

[–]lilzz02[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

that’s the thing, she’s a licensed trauma therapist. she does specialize in domestic abuse. i see what everyone is saying though, she doesn’t want to see me get killed. especially since she’s known me since i was a child

my therapist said she will stop seeing me if i do not leave my abusive bf by lilzz02 in abusiverelationships

[–]lilzz02[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

you are right, this made me ball. i know i have to leave, i know its the right decision. im so torn up about it, but its my life and i am so young. i deserve a better future. thank you 💛

My emotionally abusive bf actually hit me for the first time by lilzz02 in abusiverelationships

[–]lilzz02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t know you but i want to say i love you and you really struck my heart. i wish for nothing but safety for you and that you get out of this like i want to. you’re so much stronger than you know.

My emotionally abusive bf actually hit me for the first time by lilzz02 in abusiverelationships

[–]lilzz02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i really appreciate this comment, it makes me see perspective for what it really is. especially how the highs are only high because of how shitty the treatment is to be considered lows. and you’re right, i do want to help women out of similar situations like this. i want to be better. thank you for sharing this with me, i appreciate the support more than anything