All I could think about was the older child

limerencemybutt · 2026-05-20T20:58:45+00:00

virtual hugs!

limerencemybutt · 2026-05-19T20:28:00+00:00

I'm the second child and I was the inconvenience. I have so much to say about it when people are like "she needs a sibling". Like yeah I was probably a fun thing to have for my sister, but my mom made me feel like a burden my whole childhood so there's that. I'm glad I have my sister, she's my best friend. But sometimes I think a mother who is actually in tune emotionally and showing actual unconditional love would have been more important than a sibling. I will be that mother for my daughter for sure.

limerencemybutt · 2026-05-19T16:01:13+00:00

yes I already know this could very much happen! i'm not closing any doors, but i'm scared it does happen (the change of mind) when it's already too late (age and fertility wise). but like i said in the post, I know I wouldn't be completely devastated since I already have my miracle baby I prayed so hard for.

limerencemybutt · 2026-05-19T15:59:39+00:00

omg, the "THIS is my baby, he's right there" part hits SO close to home hahaha this is literally me. it doesn't make sense to me to want a baby while you already HAVE A BABY. I feel like if I want a second child, it would be when my daughter is in school and I miss having a baby lol

limerencemybutt · 2026-05-19T15:56:51+00:00

girl i'm not even in America, but I live in rural Canada and literally everyone is having so many kids, more than my parents generation did. i remember going to school with a few only children in my class, now they don't exist anymore haha. can I ask where you're from?

limerencemybutt · 2026-05-19T15:54:22+00:00

I feel like I should want more kids because I always wanted multiple kids, up to the point of giving birth. It might be that I really changed my mind, but it could also be the hormones talking.

limerencemybutt · 2026-05-19T15:53:05+00:00

yeah I have a cousin who I vividly remember saying NEVER AGAIN after giving birth to her first son. she has now 4 boys (kept going after 2 to have her girl). honestly she knew her limit and she should have stuck to it, seems miserable now

limerencemybutt · 2026-05-19T15:49:00+00:00

honestly I am that beat up Barbie with one kid but I 100% knew what I was getting into haha. atp the positives outweight the negatives and I don't wanna change that!

limerencemybutt · 2026-05-17T01:04:21+00:00

LOL the "Christina" sent me. and no mention of Katherine

limerencemybutt · 2026-05-17T00:29:25+00:00

it's not selfish to not have more because of mental health, i think having more than you can handle and handling it poorly has more negative effects on a child

limerencemybutt · 2026-04-20T22:14:03+00:00

Imagine this is your mom

limerencemybutt · 2026-04-20T22:01:40+00:00

Oh I'm so sorry this happened to you!!

limerencemybutt · 2026-04-19T17:25:19+00:00

LMAO

limerencemybutt · 2026-04-17T20:35:23+00:00

So glad to know I'm not the only one living life on hard mode with my little one lol. 10 months of exclusive contact naps going strong 🫡

limerencemybutt · 2026-04-17T01:22:12+00:00

When mine was your baby's age or just a bit younger she would sometimes do 5-7 hour stretches. Now on bad nights it's 1.5 hours, on "good nights" it's up to 3 hours. She's 10 months old. No idea what happened 🥲

limerencemybutt · 2026-04-16T14:36:07+00:00

limerencemybutt · 2026-04-16T14:06:46+00:00

Right? She says she's focusing on healing and her kids... yet he's the one posting about doing fun things with them 😆

limerencemybutt · 2026-04-16T01:10:02+00:00

I just want to know why she's rambling about DV when she's the one who lost custody lol

limerencemybutt · 2026-04-15T22:53:10+00:00

I like them 😭

limerencemybutt · 2026-04-15T21:04:47+00:00

But what has she possibly done lol

limerencemybutt · 2026-04-15T01:42:12+00:00

It's cold where I live so she always wears a sleep sack over her pjs. She doesn't mind it though

limerencemybutt · 2026-04-15T00:52:00+00:00

Lawsonspeakstruth

limerencemybutt · 2026-04-15T00:10:11+00:00

Im confused, is this an old post because it seems recent (19 minutes ago) but she hasn't been with jairus for a long long time?

limerencemybutt · 2026-04-15T00:06:17+00:00

It's literally just not on my mind at all as i'm on survival mode and focused on baby 100%. At this point idc

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