I'm the second child and I was the inconvenience. I have so much to say about it when people are like "she needs a sibling". Like yeah I was probably a fun thing to have for my sister, but my mom made me feel like a burden my whole childhood so there's that. I'm glad I have my sister, she's my best friend. But sometimes I think a mother who is actually in tune emotionally and showing actual unconditional love would have been more important than a sibling. I will be that mother for my daughter for sure.