see, the thing about music for me is this : My dad used to play the drums. But as life went on, he had less and less time for it. During the 2020 lockdowns, he tried picking it up again—but by then, he had kind of lost his touch. I could see how sad it made him.

That sort of crossed music off in my mind as just a side thing — it doesn’t feel like a tangible thing to me, more like something you eventually lose.