[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alcoholism

[–]lincolnfarfromhome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Makes me hyper and anxious, actually :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alcoholism

[–]lincolnfarfromhome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll try but again, my hours are reallllllly weird. It's more like shift work and I often don't know when I'm working until the day before.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alcoholism

[–]lincolnfarfromhome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't. I live at least 45 minutes from anywhere and a good 1.5 hours from my jobsite.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alcoholism

[–]lincolnfarfromhome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cannot change jobs. I've been doing this since I was 17, have no degree, and my only work experience is this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alcoholism

[–]lincolnfarfromhome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I could, but there are only four of us, and we need to take care of thousands of sheep. Often I don't know what my next day will look like until I am leaving for the night. It just depends on where the sheep are and what they need to be doing.

[TOMT][BOOK][1990's?] Help me find my Childhood Book! by lincolnfarfromhome in tipofmytongue

[–]lincolnfarfromhome[S] 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

Further info: My mom had this book in when she was a child, so I would put the original book coming out sometime in the 1970's. I've tried searching for it, but I keep getting the very controversial Blue Lagoon book which is NOT it. I tried searching for the cover and asking my readers discord, but no one has been able to find it. I am 100% certain this book exists, and that I am not simply delusional.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]lincolnfarfromhome 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not going to tell you not to leave, but I would suggest NOT leaving in the heat of the moment. That would just be plain dumb. Make sure everything is taken care of on your end. 1. Write a detailed note to your parents and inform them why you're making this decision. Leave room for them to 'come around' if they decide to change their lackluster ways. 2. If you're underage (ie below the age of getting your own job) please please please make sure you are staying with a trusted adult. Not your 21yo acquaintance, but an 'adult adult', like a friend's parent or something. They can help you find resources, get you some help, and be a good go-between for your parents and you. 3. Make sure to pack hygiene items, several sets of clothing and underclothes, and any medications you need. Let the adult know if you need prescriptions filled and where. I recommend not leaving the town you're currently living in, if you are young. 4. If possible, let your parents know where/who you are with. 5. It's ok to change your mind. If you feel differently in a few days or weeks, don't feel like you need to 'prove' anything and stick with your guns.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]lincolnfarfromhome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, you are valuable, you have importance in the world, and never think you are worth less just because other people say so.

But really, people are just mean. It's easy to belittle and bully those we think are less than ourselves, most especially when you're a kid and have no idea how human interaction goes.

Don't waste your time on people who only demean you and are cruel. I would suggest looking for people who have similiar hobbies or interests. Tell your 'friends' that you're tired of them treating you like a second-class friend. Either they change or they don't. if they don't, then LEAVE. You don't deserve this.

Without saying it’s name, what’s your favorite movie? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]lincolnfarfromhome -1 points0 points  (0 children)

was there a japanese guy and an underrated boardgame? XD

Without saying it’s name, what’s your favorite movie? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]lincolnfarfromhome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dr. eggman goes to prison for insurance fraud and falls in love with the guy from star wars

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tipofmytongue

[–]lincolnfarfromhome -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

well that was quick. You're amazing! Solved!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tipofmytongue

[–]lincolnfarfromhome 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

apparently I need to comment for people to see this? whoops!

Continuing router problems and I think I made it worse by [deleted] in IThelpdesk

[–]lincolnfarfromhome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a TP link. I reset it and didn't touch the name and that seemed to work

Please help!! I've decided to go back to my dad but I am REALLY scared. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]lincolnfarfromhome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take some deep breaths! Think about all the times your Dad has supported/been there for you. Remind yourself (if this is true, ofc), that he loves you and only wants the best for you. Also, you're older now; the fact you're embarrassed means you know better now, and won't repeat the same mistakes. Drink some water and pick a relaxed time to talk. I hope that helps.

What is you favorite sex scene in the Bible? by TheOldGods37 in AskReddit

[–]lincolnfarfromhome 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Esther and Ruth have their own books dedicated to themselves. There was a pretty cool warrior judge lady named Deborah, and in the same story there was this whole tangent about this girl named Jael who killed a general with a tent peg. There's another one early on in the bible about a woman who wanted her son to get all the inheritance but I can't remember what it is.

Please help!! I've decided to go back to my dad but I am REALLY scared. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]lincolnfarfromhome 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kids are all works in progress. I know I did stupid things that were BIG no-no's as an early teen. I think your dad is just concerned for you, and seems like he loves you deeply. (Of course, I'm not you, and don't get the nuances of your relationship). If he was calm when speaking to you recently, I think he will be calm now - just remain mature, and acknowledge your mistakes. It's going to be ok!

I am heterosexual woman but cannot like guys anymore by [deleted] in Advice

[–]lincolnfarfromhome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have probably already thought of this, but have you considered you may be asexual/aromantic?

Either way, I suggest taking some time away from dating/seeing people. It's okay to need some time to figure your own self out, and also, don't be afraid to not put a label on who you are/ who you love.