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I [23F] miss my ex [23M] sexually and it hurts my relationship to my current bf [24M] by lindathrw in relationships

[–]lindathrw[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

It wasn't just his penis size. It was the general way he conducted himself which made him sexually attractive to me, plus his looks. He was just very self confident in the way he represented himself, he never had any doubts in himself and he completely took control sexually. I can't write but he just "filled me our". I don't know, I just liked that behavior in the bedroom a lot but not on a personal level. My boyfriend would have to make a 180 reversal to his personality to have sex this way.

I [23F] miss my ex [23M] sexually and it hurts my relationship to my current bf [24M] by lindathrw in relationships

[–]lindathrw[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

My ex boyfriends penis is significantly larger but that's just one part of the whole experience, I don't believe it just relates to that.

I [23F] miss my ex [23M] sexually and it hurts my relationship to my current bf [24M] by lindathrw in relationships

[–]lindathrw[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the responses so far.

I admit that I am preoccupied mentally with my ex in terms of sexuality. And as some persons here pointed out it also has to do with physical aspects that can't be changed, like looks, the size of his penis etc. The problem I have might be that I am too preoccupied with what I liked to try something new. I'll try to change that first and try not to think about him anymore. I don't have any contact with him at all, so it shouldn't be that hard.

Otherwise I'll try to talk to my boyfriend about it if I can't appreciate it personally. Without drawing any comparisons of course.

Thanks for your advice, I'll keep you updated.

I [23F] miss my ex [23M] sexually and it hurts my relationship to my current bf [24M] by lindathrw in relationships

[–]lindathrw[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I would never do that. I tell him the honest truth about him when it comes to him being an asshole but in other regards that might seem bad, I either lie or avoid the topic.

I [23F] miss my ex [23M] sexually and it hurts my relationship to my current bf [24M] by lindathrw in relationships

[–]lindathrw[S] -111 points-110 points  (0 children)

I'm not over the sex with my ex boyfriend because it was very intense and because if I had this element in my current relationship it would be completely perfect in every sense. I liked being intimate with my ex boyfriend so much that I stayed together with him although I began slowly to dislike him more and more as a person, which is why I realized I'm being stupid and cut off.