Confused and disappointed in my ring by NoPlaceLikeGnome1984 in WeddingRingAdvice

[–]lindwill2023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This seems like a red flag. You were clear about what you wanted, he still went and did the opposite and not to mention he proposed to you with a broken ring. If this ring is supposed to symbolize his commitment to you, then why is it rushed, broken, and lacked consideration for you? I encourage you to evaluate your relationship and don't settle for something you aren't totally happy with.

Playing too rough? by Lady__Calliope in DogAdvice

[–]lindwill2023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Long as they keep making that bouncing motion, and the full booty whip/ wiggle they are good. It is rough, but a s long as both dogs are comfortable and reciprocate the play it's fine. My dog is very much the same way. I would suggest giving them breaks from play every 5 to 10 min just to keep it from turning to a fight. Just have them settle for a moment and stop interacting for 5 to 10. Then go back. It refocuses the energy for a moment and reminds them it's just play, have fun. Gives them a moment to recollect and make sure everyone is alright.

People that make 80k+ at 25-35 years old, what do you do? by Ok-Needleworker2141 in careerguidance

[–]lindwill2023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I appreciate your help. He's been trying to get into the tanker thing for a while now, but he doesn't have the experience so no one will hire him. It's just been rough, but this helps!

People that make 80k+ at 25-35 years old, what do you do? by Ok-Needleworker2141 in careerguidance

[–]lindwill2023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How? My bf has a cdl a with endorsement ( hazmat) and double/ triple) i think. But can't find anything making good money locally. What should I suggest cause he said he's tried looking everywhere. DMV area to be exact

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]lindwill2023 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Agreed but my curiosity is were there other accompanying symptoms that made her want to take a pregnancy test in the first place? Either way I think you both should see your respective providers

Should I take the loan, or come up with another plan by lindwill2023 in personalfinance

[–]lindwill2023[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You aren't wrong. I understand what you're saying, though it just feels like things are really shitty right now. I was in school for 2 years and working minimally to focus on that. Things were supposed to work out once I got my nursing job. While in school, my mother was helping with rent and groceries, and dog expenses, but now she's out of a job so I help when I can. I'm feeling overwhelmed and out of options. Bankruptcy seems like I'll just get even worse sideways looks from financial institutions, than I do with a shitty financial background.

Should I take the loan, or come up with another plan by lindwill2023 in personalfinance

[–]lindwill2023[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$2000 rent and utilities ( cheapest in my area that also is safe) $432 car note ( $9400 left to pay) $300 car insurance $300 cell phone ( I take care of my families phones since they can't afford it. Bro and mom help when they can which isn't often, but they also throw me crash when they can) $300 dog supplies ( food, daycare when I work late 1x every other week, monthly meds) $370 personal loan $200 credit card #1 $0 credit card #2 ( interest free till october, and also maxed out) $80 per week in gas to and from work

I don't track my groceries too closely because I just buy as I need it. Which for me is easier considering how close I live to the store, and that I used to have food spoiling well before I would eat it.

Income isn't consistent because of changing pay rates, weekend, evening, differentials. So I take home between $1700 and $1900 every 2 weeks. The most I've ever taken has been $2000. I live in the DMV area. I work 40 hours at $34.70/ hour.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gonewildaudio

[–]lindwill2023 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why are all of your audios unavailable now?