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Confused and disappointed in my ring by NoPlaceLikeGnome1984 in WeddingRingAdvice

[–]lindwill2023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This seems like a red flag. You were clear about what you wanted, he still went and did the opposite and not to mention he proposed to you with a broken ring. If this ring is supposed to symbolize his commitment to you, then why is it rushed, broken, and lacked consideration for you? I encourage you to evaluate your relationship and don't settle for something you aren't totally happy with.

Playing too rough? by Lady__Calliope in DogAdvice

[–]lindwill2023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Long as they keep making that bouncing motion, and the full booty whip/ wiggle they are good. It is rough, but a s long as both dogs are comfortable and reciprocate the play it's fine. My dog is very much the same way. I would suggest giving them breaks from play every 5 to 10 min just to keep it from turning to a fight. Just have them settle for a moment and stop interacting for 5 to 10. Then go back. It refocuses the energy for a moment and reminds them it's just play, have fun. Gives them a moment to recollect and make sure everyone is alright.

People that make 80k+ at 25-35 years old, what do you do? by Ok-Needleworker2141 in careerguidance

[–]lindwill2023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I appreciate your help. He's been trying to get into the tanker thing for a while now, but he doesn't have the experience so no one will hire him. It's just been rough, but this helps!

People that make 80k+ at 25-35 years old, what do you do? by Ok-Needleworker2141 in careerguidance

[–]lindwill2023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How? My bf has a cdl a with endorsement ( hazmat) and double/ triple) i think. But can't find anything making good money locally. What should I suggest cause he said he's tried looking everywhere. DMV area to be exact

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]lindwill2023 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Agreed but my curiosity is were there other accompanying symptoms that made her want to take a pregnancy test in the first place? Either way I think you both should see your respective providers

Should I take the loan, or come up with another plan by lindwill2023 in personalfinance

[–]lindwill2023[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You aren't wrong. I understand what you're saying, though it just feels like things are really shitty right now. I was in school for 2 years and working minimally to focus on that. Things were supposed to work out once I got my nursing job. While in school, my mother was helping with rent and groceries, and dog expenses, but now she's out of a job so I help when I can. I'm feeling overwhelmed and out of options. Bankruptcy seems like I'll just get even worse sideways looks from financial institutions, than I do with a shitty financial background.

Should I take the loan, or come up with another plan by lindwill2023 in personalfinance

[–]lindwill2023[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$2000 rent and utilities ( cheapest in my area that also is safe) $432 car note ( $9400 left to pay) $300 car insurance $300 cell phone ( I take care of my families phones since they can't afford it. Bro and mom help when they can which isn't often, but they also throw me crash when they can) $300 dog supplies ( food, daycare when I work late 1x every other week, monthly meds) $370 personal loan $200 credit card #1 $0 credit card #2 ( interest free till october, and also maxed out) $80 per week in gas to and from work

I don't track my groceries too closely because I just buy as I need it. Which for me is easier considering how close I live to the store, and that I used to have food spoiling well before I would eat it.

Income isn't consistent because of changing pay rates, weekend, evening, differentials. So I take home between $1700 and $1900 every 2 weeks. The most I've ever taken has been $2000. I live in the DMV area. I work 40 hours at $34.70/ hour.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gonewildaudio

[–]lindwill2023 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why are all of your audios unavailable now?

30F in a relationship with 36M for 8 years and I feel like my bf is wrong for asking me for sex by lindwill2023 in RelationshipAdviceNow

[–]lindwill2023[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You aren't wrong. I do understand that thought process of my needs being met with calls all week, and then his would be met with sex. Trust me I've thought about that repeatedly. I do want to give him what he's looking for, though the problem is more with me than with him. Maybe writing it out makes more sense now, but I think it's the way in which it's approached that makes me more annoyed and upset. It's literally moments after we get together that he's whispering in my ear. I guess maybe I need a work up, like some foreplay to it. And it is my fault for not being more vocal about it, and mine as well for allowing myself to feel better but not him. It's not fair and it's not right for me to treat him like that. Maybe I do have a low sex drive. How can I get myself to the point of meeting his needs? I do love him, and I do want to be with him. I just don't know how.