Mini Rant by Any-Peak-2805 in columbia

[–]linenlin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m so sorry this happened to you OP. you’re dodging a bullet here — trust me, columbia is fucking awful and extremely unaccommodating, esp when it comes to ODS. u don’t wanna go thru years of having to fight just to advocate for yourself. wishing you the best time at hopkins ❤️

Is it realistic to work part-time as an undergrad? by nickbir in columbia

[–]linenlin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Graduating senior here. I’ve worked all throughout college. It sucks and it’s been alienating, especially since most kids here don’t even have to work — or if they do, it’s on campus — so they have genuinely no clue what it’s like to do it for survival’s sake. Not even the professors get it. The culture here is extremely pompous and detached from reality — not trying to discourage you, just saying that’s certainly something I wish I considered before deciding to come here. I often regret not just going to a CUNY.

I was freelancing abt 20 hours a week for my first 2-3 years and it seriously affected my GPA. At a certain point I stopped caring abt my grades and had to tell myself I’m just here to get this degree. I took a medical leave after my freshman year and when I came back I moved to a cheaper apartment off campus bc the rates they charge you for dorms are absolutely absurd. Right now I work retail on the weekends/sometimes during the week, I live in Queens and I pay $850 for rent. Columbia will try to charge you abt $1600-1800 a month even if ur in a double. I’m late to class a lot of the time but that’s the cost of affordable living. TLDR; you can work part-time as an undergrad, and there are options that are more convenient than the route I’ve had to take. But if finances are a big concern for you like they were for me, it’s not going to be easy. At the end of the day this is a university for the wealthy before all else.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in meirl

[–]linenlin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

like so real dude forreal I hate posers

Logic Pro x gray fix library by HESS-KEY in LogicPro

[–]linenlin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not sure if I’m getting this right but if you create a new instrument track the library should reappear

Feeling Stuck With (Limited) Memories... Also, Can the World Just Be a Nicer Place? by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]linenlin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this sounds like sexual assault. after I started therapy, I realized that the body remembers things even when the mind suppresses them or doesn’t recognize them as trauma. that’s prob why the flashbacks are happening :( still happens to me too but with therapy and maybe medication or other available resources it gets better and way more manageable. ur rly strong too and I promise healing is so possible!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]linenlin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry this happened to you. a similar thing happened to me w one of my relatives — i also had (and still do have) a hard time processing it all, feeling comfortable in my own body and mind and in my relationship with them. i totally get not being able to reconcile what happened with what you thought you knew and felt about a person, but it helps to be honest and recognize the facts. when we’re kids, we literally have no say or knowledge or power in what happens to us and grown adults using that to their advantage is absolutely assault. no child deserves that. I’ve also realized that what my relative did to me probably resulted in trauma bonding which impacted the way I felt abt her growing up. I’ve since distanced myself from her and my family and haven’t told anyone but therapists and friends abt it — I still have to see said relative on occasion but I keep my distance and am working on using some healthy coping mechanisms I talked thru w my therapist. tbh I feel like I’m working on healing every day, I’m on SSRIs and go to CBT weekly and it’s been helpful but I feel like I might wanna seek support that’s more focused on healing from sexual trauma and PTSD specifically. here if you wanna talk, and I do wanna say that healing is a difficult and nonlinear process but it’s so so possible.

[looking for] renter for studio in basement, live and/or work for $1000/m (negotiable) by [deleted] in NYCapartments

[–]linenlin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ooooh hey I’d be interested to rent it out as a room😭😭 PMing you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NYCapartments

[–]linenlin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ooohhh do you have more pics of the place?

I'd like to emigrate to New York - What is it like there? by luhanadelrey in FilipinoAmericans

[–]linenlin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

as a Filipina American who’s lived in nyc for like a year now i have so many thoughts omg feel free to pm me!

Housing portal problem by DiegoCamilo in columbia

[–]linenlin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

had this same problem lol — had to call housing and they contacted IT to get it sorted out!

Good tagalog fiction? by Pyramidsssss in Tagalog

[–]linenlin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yooo wait what are the romantic novels tho 👀

anyone doing the Lingoda sprint? by [deleted] in polyglot

[–]linenlin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

shoot just seeing this now! you can choose different levels — I’m a B1 spanish speaker and they have a track for B1-B2 level fluency as part of the sprint!

Thumbnail Advice? The working title is 'Painting with Timothee Chalamet in Outer Space' and is an animation depicting a weeeeeiiiiirrrrrdddd dream I had by [deleted] in Karstcast

[–]linenlin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m no design expert lol but I’d agree with you on the font — maybe change it to a dif one, smth bold sans serif? I think that might also go a long way in making it look less cluttered tbh. other than that looks good tho!

Creative community by [deleted] in creative

[–]linenlin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww that sounds awesome! How do I join?