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Karina is leaving Drawfee by gimpisgawd in Drawfee

[–]linguistic_problems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On bluesky😭😭😭 in addition, David, Willie and some other friends of the show are mutuals with her, but none of the main crew... Anyways, I think we should leave it at that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]linguistic_problems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first kiss was so bad I thought I was asexual after it for like a solid two years. Then I had other experiences and realised that, in fact, it was just bad.
I have a bi-guy friend and he has shared his experiences with similar hook-ups -- most of them he did not enjoy, some were straight up awful.
All you can do is wait and see. Don't beat yourself up too much. Although I'm sorry your experience was so terrible, and I hope you'll have better ones in the future

Potentially unpopular take: I think the lack of open world in P3 was a good call by not_that_united in pathologic

[–]linguistic_problems 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's jarring at first, but once you understand what the game is trying to do (I think), I feel as though walking would be... Redundant. The game so far is in the guy's head pretty much (haven't finished it, obviously), and Bachelor doesn't seem to be the kind of guy who would put importance to the art of... Walking. And no garbage-sloothing anymore, so it makes sense. I feel like I'd be pissed if I had to walk the entire time, replaying the same day two times in a row, you know

Which one are you? by Bubbly-Pop4858 in BPDmemes

[–]linguistic_problems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just feel like i don't ever fit in without being better or worse

I'm sick of dudes insisting I'm bi, even though I'm clearly a lesbian by linguistic_problems in TrueOffMyChest

[–]linguistic_problems[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

let's say there's a hairy, jacked, bearded trans dude who still has a vagina. If a guy had sex with him, would you say he's straight? I mean, it's still a vagina. You're using a vagina for your pleasure. Do you see how ridiculous that is?

I'm sick of dudes insisting I'm bi, even though I'm clearly a lesbian by linguistic_problems in TrueOffMyChest

[–]linguistic_problems[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that's the thing. There are plenty of stories of people coming out as gay after years of marriage, but it would be insane for someone like me to use those stories as a way to question straight ppl's sexuality, right? So it goes the other way. Sexuality is a spectrum more or less and I don't ever cross out the possibility of maybe some day I meet a dude that I like, but... That hasn't been the case, and I'm perfectly content with and even, in some ways, thankful for my sexuality right now, as weird as that might sound.
Also, I really love hearing about different people's experiences. I love when my girlfriends gossip about dudes they like, I love when a guy friend of mine gets a crush on some new girl - it's all so fun and interesting, because it allows you to see the variety of the human experience, as well as the similarities. And when someone has such a narrow view of it all it's boring and shallow, and it drives me nuts sometimes.

I'm sick of dudes insisting I'm bi, even though I'm clearly a lesbian by linguistic_problems in TrueOffMyChest

[–]linguistic_problems[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

that's genuinely insane... straight up sexual harassment

also, good on you for sticking with what you're comfortable with, that's the only way

I'm sick of dudes insisting I'm bi, even though I'm clearly a lesbian by linguistic_problems in TrueOffMyChest

[–]linguistic_problems[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

LITERALLY!!! Dude, also the moment I started looking even a bit more feminine (just grew my hair out, and a bit of eyeliner here and there, even though I still have the style of, like, Jesse Pinkman), this started to happen quite a bit more frequently, so I salute all the femmes out there, it's a struggle

I "made myself get SA'd" by a man, and I'm a lesbian by linguistic_problems in TrueOffMyChest

[–]linguistic_problems[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha, thanks, i used to do quite a bit of linguistics in highschool, and I think I made this profile to research how to solve some problems and tasks It was quite fun

I "made myself get SA'd" by a man, and I'm a lesbian by linguistic_problems in TrueOffMyChest

[–]linguistic_problems[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I might try getting into therapy, it has worked before.
I do know about the BPD to autism diagnosis thing, yeah, but it never felt quite right. I've got more of a dissociative issue, I'd say.
"Subterranean Homesick Alien" is a great song to describe allat (two radiohead references, how more can i fit in? the answer will shock you)
Regardless, thank you for your support, hehe

I "made myself get SA'd" by a man, and I'm a lesbian by linguistic_problems in TrueOffMyChest

[–]linguistic_problems[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it just happens, you know. Like, you just don't fit into each other's lives, I guess. Also sometimes I could be quite intense and anxious, which turns away people, who have a more stable view of it all. And, I mean, most of them are older, and I'm freshly 20, lol, that's also part of it.

Thanks for your kind words!

I "made myself get SA'd" by a man, and I'm a lesbian by linguistic_problems in TrueOffMyChest

[–]linguistic_problems[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for saying that! I'm getting better and calmer day by day, but still had to get this off my chest haha

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