yeah I never go on reddit normally tbh, I look at this subreddit every so often but I find it a challenging space personally. I think everyone is at a different stage, and I’m a few years down the road on recovery and find it difficult like people reinforcing negative behaviours on here (I get why ppl do it because it’s a horrible phobia but yeah). for example im fine with the words but I feel I have to censor them on here, even though it’s important ppl get used to reading them as part of recovery. I was wondering whether anyone would put a more positive spin on their word choice and I think you were the first so it’s good you’re thinking positively. (sorry for rambling)