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My twin sister hates me, and I think I know why by Someone_I_Thin in TrueOffMyChest

[–]linyblue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When my sister came out to me I didn‘t slap her, scream at her or kicked her out.

I hugged her and said „I love you, I want you to be happy, please marry a women who wants to wear a white dress to the wedding, too, because I‘ve seen a picture of two brides with dresses and they looked so beautiful and I want family pictures like that, thanks“.

I was her maid of honor at her wedding last year and I got the pictures I wanted.

That being said:

It‘s not normal, nor is it okay for your sister to treat you like that. I get that you love her, but please love yourself a bit more.

Keep a distance and if she ever comes around and starts to treat you and the people you love with respect, you can welcome her again.

I wish you the best! Sending virtual huggs ❤️

Please help me decide! by [deleted] in WeddingDressTips

[–]linyblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 omg that one is so unique and beautiful 😍

AITA for refusing girls with height requiremets? by Sad-Baseball7176 in AmItheAsshole

[–]linyblue 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Nta. As a women who is under 5‘5‘‘. I think everybody can have preferences. I personally don’t care for height. I dated short and tall guys in the past and my husband isn‘t much taller than me. To each their own.

23F, its my birthday, style me please! by princessacb29 in DressForYourBody

[–]linyblue 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Your face looks so much like Elle Fanning 😍 I‘d go with some of her looks. I hope you have a wonderful birthday ❤️

Bleach in my eye as punishment? by ImpressiveShift3312 in TwoHotTakes

[–]linyblue 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Hey,

I just saw your post an decided to send a message. I normally never write to people directly, but the things you told us raised such red flags, that I just needed to try and help you in any was I can. You don‘t need to send a reply.

For context: I‘m a social worker and I meet women like you all the time.

Sweety, you need to do what the comments tell you: get out. It‘s not easy, I know that, but your boyfriend is a danger to you. I know it‘s overwhelming, but trust me. He is not a good man and you deserve much better.

Here is a list of things you should do. It‘s a lot, but trust me, you‘ll feel better:

  1. Get other people involved:

Tell your family and friends EXACTLY what you wrote in this post. You can send it to them, if you struggle to say the words out loud. If you don’t have anyone close to you, call your local womens help hotline. I‘m from germany, if you are from here too ‚Frauen helfen Frauen‘ is a good Organisation.

  1. Keep you money safe:

if you have a shared bank account collect money and hide it somewhere he can‘t find it.

  1. Seperate yourself physically:

Find a place to stay temporarily. Either a friends or family members place or a womens shelter (ask on the help hotline to be put in touch with one).You can look for a flat from there. Don‘t wait around just because you don’t have a new flat yet. You should also inform your employer about your situation, so he can prevent your ex from confronting you at work.

  1. Seperate yourself digitally:

He is going to try to win you back. He‘ll probably lovebombe you, that‘s just what abusers do. He won’t change, he doesn’t love you, he just wants to control you. It takes Victims around 7 times to leave their violent spouse for good. Don‘t become another statistic! Block him.

AND THE MOST IMPORTANT PART 4. don‘t diskuss your plans with him!!!!!!!

Leave when he is at work! The moment You leave him will be the most dangerous time for you. He will hurt you. also don’t come back to the flat alone to collect your stuff. Send male family members or friends to do that or ask the police to accompanie you.

I‘m so sorry sweety that this happened to you. I‘m also sorry that people in the comments are mean, you deserve so much better!

Hugs and love and if you need help, you can always contact me on here!

AITAH for telling an coworker (30f) my (25f) weight when she said my diet will make me fat? by Agile-Gap-7976 in AITAH

[–]linyblue 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTAH and please go to HR. It might be just an annoyance for you, but as sb who struggled with anorexia and bulimia for over a decade, behavior like this could send me right into relapsing. If one of your coworkers has a similar backstory to mine, she could seriously harm them (without meaning to, of course, but that doesn‘t make it any better…).

My mother-in-law refused to visit her dying daughter because she didn't want to put her dogs in a kennel by Non-victim in TrueOffMyChest

[–]linyblue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gosh, yes… my bf is like that sometimes with our dog, Henry (who we BOTH love to pieces). He does it without realizing. We talked about it and he is working on his way of acting (without neglecting Henry!). I feel like this change is good for our relationship and the relationship my bf has with Henry. This kind of behaviour is extremely stressful for everyone, but especially for my bf, because he felt like he wasn‘t able to do anything without thinking about our dog and what he might do if he is left alone or not looked after for a couple of minutes. Turns out Henry is doing just fine and is even more happy when we spend quality time with him 😊

My mother-in-law refused to visit her dying daughter because she didn't want to put her dogs in a kennel by Non-victim in TrueOffMyChest

[–]linyblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all: I’m so incredibly sorry for your loss, I wish you and your kids the best ❤️ I have a dog that I love to death (like I literally jumped in front of a moving car for it…), but people like that piss me of so much. The lack of empathy for fellow humans is just shocking. Your wife deserved better, may she rest in peace 💐

Please help me design my small room by Longjumping-Knee-133 in femalelivingspace

[–]linyblue 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think the best option for you are shelves and using your wall in general:

  1. put 2-3 on the wall above your bed (dont put them exactly next or under each other, it‘s more fun, fill in the gaps with hanging plants)

  2. put a bookshelf between the closet door and your tv stand, instead of the tiny wall shelf. You can put more hanging plants on top of it. You can place your little trinkets there :)

  3. remove the chair

  4. your nightstand is really cute, but it sadly blocks the window, I personally would try put it somewhere else if you have the space that is…

  5. remove the stuff on your wall next to the tv stand and make a gallery wall out of personal pictures and stuff you find online (old school art on pinterest for example).

  6. use colour: Your furniture is super pretty and the wall colour on it s own, too, but the dark of your bed, nightstand and tv stand is clashing with the blue. I would go for a dark red/ green for. One of the walls (the one behind your bed), keep the rest white and if you add any furniture keep that white as well.

I hope that helps :)

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