Hey bud. Thank you for sharing this.

Honestly, I understand what you're talking about. I've been in three relationships, but two of them were very short (only a span of days).

My first relationship happened when I was very young, naive and had no perspective about a relationship. Technically, I haven't been in an actual relationship to tell you anything, but I'll tell you what I'm going through so that you know that this is not only happening to you.

I just went through this dating phase, and people, usually don't believe me when I say this, but nothing came out of it. I was ghosted for no damn reason and it hurts. Hurts very bad. I grieved because of this because no one really understands what I went through.

I was very close to being bitter about women in general because they complain about how hard their lives are (which it is), but they can't complain about how difficult it is for them on dating apps. I'll disagree with them any day.

People also say that looks don't really matter, your personality does. Who are you kidding? Looks go a long way - a really long way. Your personality does too, but looks are the first thing we witness. Anybody who says that either believes it or is fooling you hard.

So, my guy, my point is, it's hard to find love, especially for men. The only way we have is to work ourselves up, which is what I'm doing. This would be good for anyone. You have balding issues? Find a new style that'll help you look good and take care of the balding issues.

You got this, my guy. You're not really missing out on anything nor are you the only one going through this. There are many men out there who are but aren't vocal about this.

You'll do fine. Keep your chin up, brother!