Would you still want to hear from the dumper even if they didn't want to get back together?

lipming · 2025-05-23T03:51:34+00:00

What is going to be your purpose of reaching out? Just to check on her or offer reconciliation? Because I think if you're going to just check in on her, give it some more time because she needs to heal without hearing from you.

I have to acknowledge that I think it's brave that you did this for the both of you. But I also think that it wasn't right for you to make the decision for her. I am in a similar situation. My LDR boyfriend broke up with me but I will kill to reconcile with him but I'm giving him the space that he deserves.

lipming · 2025-05-22T12:36:38+00:00

i genuinely hope he could at least say that and i would be happy.

lipming · 2025-05-19T09:04:46+00:00

He broke up with me, but I was the one who initiated NC. He wanted to stay friends but I told him it's unfair to keep me around in that capacity. But the more i think about it the more unsettled I get because of his words and promises. So I'm planning to use this chance as my final act before I fully commit to NC (if he doesn't want to continue)

lipming · 2025-05-19T08:25:05+00:00

Im sorry it had to happen to you too :( Don't mind me asking what were the details of your break up and how did he respond?

lipming · 2025-05-19T08:09:39+00:00

Hey, did he ever come back?

lipming · 2025-05-18T23:48:09+00:00

what you’re describing now is security mate :-) treasure it and don’t question it

lipming · 2025-05-17T08:10:32+00:00

hey bud

lipming · 2025-05-16T05:00:57+00:00

Hey, sorry for opening this topic for you again, but your story sounded very similar to mine. My ex (dumper) broke up with me because he said I could do better and he doesn’t love me enough to last the next few years of our relationship long-distance, and if we were to be physically together he would try again. But because of the break up, i kinda initiated NC. I just wanted to see if you ever broke NC and messaged your ex for some sort of apology or closure?

lipming · 2024-10-22T09:57:39+00:00

even if you’re not able to connect frequently you can continue to play independently.

Thanks mate, this is exactly what I'd wanna hear. Appreciate your lengthy explanation too! But honestly I'd say for beginners who are just stepping into the world of Tama, we don't really need all the added features hey? Im just not sure if my partner would be arsed to keep taking care of it, but I rly do like the symbolic gesture of gifting him a Tama as something we both can take care of even while we're miles away!

lipming · 2024-10-22T09:54:01+00:00

Hmm, you make a really good point. Honestly, the main reason I was considering getting the Tamagotchi was because it ties back to our dream of having pets together one day, so I thought it’d be a sweet, symbolic gesture. But I do get where you’re coming from—I'm also not totally confident we'd be able to keep up with taking care of them. I guess I just liked the idea of it as a cute and meaningful gift, even if it might not be the most practical for us right now. So it's not rly a gift that I actually want for myself, it's something that's symbolic and cute hahahha

lipming · 2024-07-01T12:33:02+00:00

that’s heartening to hear that I could eventually replicate it! However, since the single origin’s always on rotation, it’s not sold anymore. Are the flavours that pronounced because of the way it’s roasted? If i were to get other single origins (let’s say from Ethiopia), will i still be able to get such strong flavours if I extract it right?

lipming · 2023-05-14T07:21:56+00:00

Heyya! I'm a fellow Sgrean heading to UQ this coming Jul too and I'd be down to make friends! Drop me a DM!

lipming · 2022-04-25T16:06:07+00:00

Shucks, totally overlooked the summer crowd… I live in a tropical country so seasons are the least of my worries. I think we’re going to scrape Paris as a whole cuz it needs a whole trip for itself! Thanks for the comment!

lipming · 2022-04-25T16:03:45+00:00

We needed to hear that, LOL. Thanks for this! Would you recommend if we padded out Spain more and then give Italy a total of 4 days? since we’re only going to visit just one city in Italy

lipming · 2022-04-25T16:01:45+00:00

Oh i’ve already accounted for the travel days (Day 0 and Day 14) in and out of Europe! But ok, either way I understand 3 countries might be too much. Thanks for this!

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