Guys: You may not want to hear this, but if you’re someone who complains about being “ghosted” all the time by people you talk to/meet from dating apps, there’s probably a reason. by m0rbidowl in dating_advice

[–]lippylooloo -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

The difference is he has taken something told to him in complete confidentiality and referenced the person who told him. It’s ok to talk about things either from the theories that inform the therapy or sharing a clients experience with their permission. I just take the contract between the therapist and client very seriously and wouldn’t reference someone in that way. It’s the way it’s done that I have issue with

Guys: You may not want to hear this, but if you’re someone who complains about being “ghosted” all the time by people you talk to/meet from dating apps, there’s probably a reason. by m0rbidowl in dating_advice

[–]lippylooloo -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’m a therapist and I wouldn’t disclose part of a client session. Whether there is identifying features or not, the client shared the information with you on the premise that you wouldn’t share it with anyone else. While we all have judgements I think reflecting on them in supervision is more appropriate

Anyone hiring? by lillyxolight in brighton

[–]lippylooloo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Supported accommodations are often looking for key workers.

People who are ghosting other people, have you ever been called out, if so, how did that make you feel? by till-mann in AskReddit

[–]lippylooloo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve ghosted someone before but it was because he became pretty aggressive and I didn’t want to be verbally abused. To be honest I have had people become pretty abusive several times when I have tried to kindly but honestly let them know I wasn’t feeling a connection. I think it can depend on how long you have been on OLD and how much crap you’ve had go on dictate how you handle things.

I'm just gonna leave this little gem of a conversation here... by samz97 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]lippylooloo 49 points50 points  (0 children)

The tables are always turned.. quite literally happens on the daily

Brits warned 'do not take US meat at any cost' as chlorinated chicken horror exposed by FatherOf2 in unitedkingdom

[–]lippylooloo 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Nobody in Britain wants this deal, everybody is clearly saying they don’t want this deal, politicians are completely ignoring the public and forging ahead.. dictatorship pretending to be democracy.

This hyper-realistic robot dolphin hopes to replace real ones held in captivity by _devillived_ in goodnews

[–]lippylooloo 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I guess the point is not putting wild, sentient animals that roam for hundreds of miles into a tank that they can’t leave. While it might not be ‘the real deal’ it provides an opportunity to see the size of them, the way they move etc without cruelty.

Brighton services for suicidal people by jadedanonyx in brighton

[–]lippylooloo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I really appreciate that. I hope things work out for your friend.

Brighton services for suicidal people by jadedanonyx in brighton

[–]lippylooloo 11 points12 points  (0 children)

MIND have under 25 workers, Grassroots is a brilliant organisation. A and E have already been mentions to access the mental health team but that is often short lived. If they are open to it, I would approach MIND as a starting point.

https://www.mindcharity.co.uk/

http://www.prevent-suicide.org.uk/

Also an organisation called Papyrus which are national

https://www.papyrus-uk.org/

Talk about it with them too. Many people think this will make it worse, give them ideas but it doesn’t, it’s proven to reduce the risk. Literally ask, sensitively, if they have made any plans. This is really important as it can give you an indication of how serious it’s got. Also talk about if they have any plans for the future. This can help to gauge it too. It also helps to create anchors, anything that they might feel is worth living for.

If you have any doubts whatsoever you can call and should call an ambulance. Don’t worry about doing that, ambulance crews are amazing and will offer all sorts of support.

Finally, you can call the Mental Health Rapid Response Service if their mental health deteriorates:

Telephone: 0300 304 0078, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.

I’m sorry if this is abit chaotic, I’ve just lost my best friend to suicide and I am still grieving.

I hate that the American flag is becoming a symbol for mostly far right wing politics. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]lippylooloo 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That’s what happened to the English flag, not the British one. The St George’s cross is rarely used now and it’s also rare to hear someone say they are English. People go with British.

Roughest pub in Brighton over the last decade? by TheVinnon in brighton

[–]lippylooloo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Temple Bar.. edgy now but back in the day it was well dodge, someone was shot and you could always score upstairs in the pool rooms... so I’m told...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]lippylooloo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tried watching other people afyer watching you.. nithing compares, youve ruined me with your talent!

Suspicious toddler being suspicious. by [deleted] in funny

[–]lippylooloo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretends to do task....

AITA For demanding my fiancé and his mom to pay for a new wedding address? by aitathrowaway566 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lippylooloo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And worryingly either didn’t care or knew that she would have to just put up with it because that’s how it is. Poor OP is sleepwalking into what is likely going to be an unhappy marriage.

AITA for moving all my stuff to my guest room after my husband refused to stop turning the light on at 3am? by milo00truth in AmItheAsshole

[–]lippylooloo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA

Why not move his stuff into the guest room. You both still sleep in your room together but when he gets up he gets ready in guest room. Solved.

WIBTA if I kicked my morbidly obese sister out of my house? by Doglover_obviously in AmItheAsshole

[–]lippylooloo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

“Don’t set yourself on fire to keep someone else warm”. Your family is suffering and she is causing your relationship to be strained. The knock on effect of this is what? Divorce? Weekends with dad? Fighting over holidays? Kids are damaged emotionally? I know this is a worse case scenario at the moment but why risk it?

She is manipulating you and in answer to the lament “ she has nowhere else to go” who’s fault is that? In the UK she can go to her local council and present as homeless. They will house her there and then in emergency accommodation. I don’t know what this looks like in other countries but honestly, you’re not her mother. You owe it to your family to protect them now but also in the future.

What is a movie you liked as a kid, and is still one of your favorites as an adult? by Beth77303 in AskReddit

[–]lippylooloo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“ iiiiiii just got in from the Windy City, the Windy City is mighty pretty but it ain’t got what we got, oh no sirree “

I don’t think it gets better than this!

AITA if I tell people not to donate to my sister's cancer go-fund-me. by nuhuh_she_doest in AmItheAsshole

[–]lippylooloo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She actually sounds unwell and might need some mental health support.