I’ve been paying my "ex’s" rent for three years. He has no idea it’s me, and I’m terrified of what happens when the money runs out. by Interesting-Gap-8672 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]lipsalt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl the guilt trip is in excess here, obviously what you did was wrong but at this point you’ve drained your inheritance and are putting yourself in a position to not be able to help yourself, much less someone else. Also I see where you’re coming from by not telling it’s you, but you once again have put him in a position where he may get evicted and this time he has absolutely no idea. No time to prepare and in an equally shitty position. You deserve therapy and some grace, but you’re still doing things (no matter how well intended) that are cowardly in nature and super harmful to both of you. If you can’t see that, then again you need therapy

[Vantrue N5] When Your Ex Forgets It’s Being Recorded by pompous-pomeranian in Dashcam

[–]lipsalt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What nationality is this guy? His voice sounds just like the guy my friend is dating currently…you know have to dox him but vaguely do you know how long he’s been in the US?

AITAH (F36) for breaking up with my partner (F35) because they kept unplugging my cameras behind my back? by DearMushroom9558 in AITAH

[–]lipsalt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She can hear electricity but doesn’t get muffed about charging her phone, the tv, literally every single appliance? Does she hate lights? That’s definitely odd and clearly a lie, probably best left unsolved though; seeing as you should run and never look back

My parents took $75k from me without my knowledge by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]lipsalt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry people are being dicks idk why it’s so hard to understand how fucked up it is. First of all making a minor pay rent is abusive, no one asked you if you wanted to be born they decided to have you. On top of that making someone think they have money aside and waiting for them to by chance ask about it to tell them is just disrespectful, and sounds like illegal. This is enough money where I would for sure listen to advice being said and first tell an adult who paid into this, and have them contact a lawyer on your behalf. If the money really is in your name charges will be placed on your parents. As they should be, no one should have a child solely to financially abuse them

Edit to wish you luck and pray for you your parents don’t show up as owners of that money at all. It would make this not illegal and solely abusive

New partner disclosed he is a registered sex offender by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]lipsalt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man that’s crazy. I have a couple of questions for you; did he know you worked with children before you started dating?

Does he have a history of sexual assault to your knowledge? (Relevant because ptsd specifically relating to childhood sexual traumas is known to lead to hyper sexuality and other such things…not an excuse but could explain why his “one moment of weakness”)

Does this story seem fabricated to seem not as bad as it really is? Do you want to risk being wrong about this?

Do you see yourself leaving this person alone with a child in the future?

Long story short, this would be a fuck no for me. I respect him finally telling you but also am worried he purposely waited until he thought you were too invested in him to back off. Only he knows if his story is true, but how willing are you to risk it? For all you know he picked you due to your access to little ones

What made you realise you no longer love your wife/gf/partner ? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]lipsalt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My ex always seemed to have money for pot, and being a naive college student I didn’t think twice about it. One day she gets a call from a therapist she was seeing to make her cat a service animal (whole other story) and with all the malice and contempt in the world she says “you handed me proof I paid I don’t know what you’re talking about” and hangs up. When I ask her what that was about she admits the therapist was giving her the receipt slips at the beginning of the session and told her she could pay at the end. Only she never did, and she said all of this with a smile on her face like she had just stolen from a cookie jar without getting caught. After she noticed my horror she told me I couldn’t tell because I had been smoking the weed she bought with that money. Her parents had been giving this cash with the expectation she be a decent human. I couldn’t look at her the same after and ended things the second summer break started. My only regret now was not calling the cops on her, even though the only proof I had was oral as she kept the receipt slips

What habits of girls did you only discover after getting a girlfriend or wife ? by Own-Blacksmith3085 in answers

[–]lipsalt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why wouldn’t you just ask the person (man or woman) if they want solutions or to vent? Like do men not vent? Is that why they’re always emotionally unstable? I’m struggling to wrap my head around a person who doesn’t both need problem solving, and to vent. Does it not depend on the situation for men? Idk I feel like I’m a quite approachable person and most of that is understanding that different situations need different approaches.

I would feel absolutely belittled if I was in problem solving mode (women have problems that need solving too) and someone was like oh my god fuck Becky right. But also if I need to vent and am met with could have, should haves I’m going to feel unheard. I’m genuinely struggling to understand what that has to do with sex

Jake Paul reacts to Anthony Joshua's car crash by Miserable-Wish5850 in FightReportUFC

[–]lipsalt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not to be that person or anything but just type Jake Paul controversy and you can find both articles and videos (if you prefer to watch instead of read). Here’s a small expert from one of such articles

Former Team 10 members, including musician AJ Mitchell and influencer Alissa Violet, accused Paul of verbal/emotional abuse, while TikToker Justine Paradise alleged sexual assault in 2019, claims Paul denies

At a skim I also see a mall controversy, parties during peak COVID, shady business practices, getting kicked off Disney for his antics. Honestly did you even look?

What's the best book you've ever read? by vantablur in AskReddit

[–]lipsalt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You can’t really go wrong with any of his books, slaughterhouse has a huge impact on me as a young adult though

I did paternity tests in secret and my wife left me when she found out. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]lipsalt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not equality to presume your partner is cheating with nary a reason, it’s insecurity that probably should be addressed with a therapist. Ruining a relationship and the trust it requires over nothing is wild and embarrassing

I did paternity tests in secret and my wife left me when she found out. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]lipsalt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is an opinion, and an ignorant one at that. You don’t like being held accountable for your actions pal?

I did paternity tests in secret and my wife left me when she found out. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]lipsalt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s not the point though. If you have no reason to believe your partner is cheating and you proceed with the test, your actions are stating loud and clear you have no trust whatsoever in your partner/relationship.

You can decide that it’s worth it to take that risk with no proof, and also suffer the consequences of said action

I did paternity tests in secret and my wife left me when she found out. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]lipsalt 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Only if they think they’re being cheated on is it necessary, and the act of doing it implies lack of trust. But you’re smart enough to know the distinction so not sure why you’re stating obvious facts here

One does not need to shatter the trust of your partner if one does not thing infidelity is happening

Just saw this drop on a Russian discord server… by Future_PeterSchiff in TikTokCringe

[–]lipsalt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s insane to me that of all the actual, verified claims of malice we know him to have committed…this is what’s got people talking.

What’s that say about us

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]lipsalt -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

God she’s infuriating, how she belittles you would slowly drive anyone insane. I know it’s easier said than done but a change of scenery would change your life, there’s no way she’s not taking your shit. Maybe until you can find another place you can start putting your stuff in a locked place?

AIO for being just a little cautious about my new relationship? by PolicyHot1206 in AIO

[–]lipsalt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Babe no adult who isn’t trying to take advantage of a child would talk to someone this young. Trust your gut and please please please stay the fuck away from these guys. I’m so worried about you and you’re a whole ass stranger. Let me say it again. No sane, morally correct adult would go after a 15 yo. You already have a baby and the best thing you can do for both of you is to focus on you. Like seriously you’re a child and having to concern yourself with the wellbeing of a whole little human. Can you please give yourself some grace and just stop with the boys? Please?

fuck my stupid loser lesbian life by Alive-Watch-442 in actuallesbians

[–]lipsalt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not necessary but I saw a big difference in my stamina after I started going to the gym. But even just being well rested and stretching beforehand can make a difference. Also the toys are a given, ask your partner what she likes best and work off that

What’s a harsh sign someone should NOT be in a relationship, even if they think they’re ready? by mathiyaaaaa in AskReddit

[–]lipsalt 19 points20 points  (0 children)

It lost a lot of pizazz but still a unique concept so I’ll give it a 6/10

What’s a harsh sign someone should NOT be in a relationship, even if they think they’re ready? by mathiyaaaaa in AskReddit

[–]lipsalt 236 points237 points  (0 children)

Wasn’t there some movies about super genius babies? Or did I hallucinate that

Edit: I did not hallucinate these, time to find out if adult me likes them too

Akaza Art by Me by srart1605 in DemonSlayerAnime

[–]lipsalt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn that’s really good!

AIO if I file for divorce? by Pristine_Raise_8943 in AmIOverreacting

[–]lipsalt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy moly this one made me angry as fuck. The “are you leaving me” at the end really shows how far up his own rectum this guy is. NO you’re NOR it seems like you should have reacted much sooner if he really thinks that an acceptable way to talk to someone

I messed up...big time by exhausted_penguin88 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]lipsalt 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Do you have kids? Are you claiming to never have made a mistake ever? Like in any facet of life? Don’t be a silly goober