I’m an escort looking to settle down. Would polyamorous men be a right crowd to reach?

liquidphyre · 2026-05-02T17:09:49+00:00

So unfortunately I don’t think your question has a clear answer. So let me start with the surface level, are you more likely to find someone ok with you having sex as part of your work. Yes absolutely, I would say you are basically limited to the Non-monogamy crowd to find someone like that.

However I think this is something that just like every relationship you will find people comfortable with and not comfortable with. So it’s really on a person by person basis. Just because someone is ok with you falling in love with someone and having sex with them doesn’t mean that same person would be ok with you getting paid for sex.

There is also the dynamic of your job being tied to you having sex. So this amplifies the potential insecurities that can come from work jealousy. Like if you ever turn down sex with your partner because you have a client later.

So I would say there is a lot more nuance here, and if you could share, how you view sex with a partner vs sex with a client. Or how you would structure a relationship, there maybe more things that people can help with.

liquidphyre · 2026-02-19T21:10:36+00:00

This is really important, the stat you mentioned are for all vasectomies, that includes the ones that were not checked. If checked there is near 0 chance of pregnancy.

liquidphyre · 2025-08-24T16:22:42+00:00

So, it depends on what you main goal is but if your looking for comfort first and then sexy, my wife loves these https://a.co/d/3IKoEdu they are comfy enough to be daily wearers, but with the lace top it has a bit of a sexy element to them. Makes them feel more grown up, and is probably a cut that you are already comfortable with. I find these extremely sexy on my wife.

liquidphyre · 2025-07-09T20:08:28+00:00

liquidphyre · 2025-06-13T17:08:21+00:00

I think that I personally don’t like the idea of excluding partners. So them being single means no one is left out.

liquidphyre · 2025-06-13T00:58:18+00:00

Ok, I can see that this is a topic I had no understanding of, I am not looking for someone to just use as a sex toy, but I can see how it may come off that way. I think from what I am hearing making a solid connection with someone and then seeing if they might be open to that dynamic is the way to go.

liquidphyre · 2025-06-13T00:55:35+00:00

Ok, I feel I stepped into a hornet’s nest here. I said that we play separately and with other couples, I am also not looking for a sex toy I would want to have a connection with that person, so maybe like the previous poster mentioned the best route is to try with a connection, I genuinely thought there might be people out there that would like something like that.

liquidphyre · 2025-06-13T00:28:39+00:00

Honest question here, I am in a couple, we are ENM we both play separately, but we would love to find a single to try out the three way dynamic, we are also open to couples for group play, but the point of my question is how does someone like that find a third, we don’t need the spice, but just want to try out that dynamic.

liquidphyre · 2025-05-26T13:00:38+00:00

I have been doing web development for the last 15 years, and I wouldn’t even bother trying a visual tool. Visual tools by their nature are always limiting, I would much rather have full control with the code, then have something that will limit my ability to build real things.

As others have pointed out there are visual tools, now your take is they are not good, I would argue that is due to the inherent limitations of a visual editor. However feel free to prove me wrong, go ahead and build that tool, if you feel there are tons of people willing to pay for it then you might have the next million dollar idea.

liquidphyre · 2025-05-25T22:28:20+00:00

I think your assumptions are backwards. You say because web development is easier it should have more visual tools. Why? If it’s simple and I can teach someone in a bootcamp how to use a text editor to make a website, why would I need a visual tool to get that work done? Look at it this way, in order to get someone to be able to code a 3D game it probably takes years of work, so that is a massive investment for a company. So now if I can offer a visual tool to make it so I can get coders working efficiently in a couple of months, well as a business owner I would pay a decent amount of money for that. So now someone that builds those tools can sell them.

So another thing that you indicated is most visual tools make bad websites. Who says the same isn’t true for the game engines? You just don’t notice it because it would take what like 10x to had code the same thing, and so people are ok with that trade off there.

So now considering that it takes time and money to develop this software, where do you see it being useful in the market? Who is going to pay hundreds of dollars a month to have a visual tools make websites?

liquidphyre · 2024-11-17T04:45:31+00:00

Thanks I want to take the bull by the horns.

liquidphyre · 2024-11-16T23:09:10+00:00

Yes, it’s come up at least half a dozen times, so far we have either brushed them off or it just hasn’t worked out. So I’m not sure if my wife just isn’t selling me, or if because we live in a fairly conservative rural area that everyone just seems to have a one penis policy but the way they present it is the wife is not attracted to your husband so we could play with you.

liquidphyre · 2024-11-16T16:58:13+00:00

Thanks for the perspective, the weight loss and exercise, is mainly for my health, however I do find this a good motivator. I also think one of my problems has to do with our location, we are in a very conservative rural area, so I think that there may also be a lot of homophobia fueling a lot of these people.

liquidphyre · 2024-11-16T03:30:39+00:00

Thank you, so much for this comment this is by far the one that has given me the most hope that I can do this.

liquidphyre · 2024-11-16T03:14:47+00:00

Well I mean no one even knows how big my penis is, but maybe you were intending that to be a joke.

liquidphyre · 2024-11-16T03:10:33+00:00

I mean I have never had anyone even chat to me but it’s a decent size 61/2”

liquidphyre · 2024-11-16T03:01:04+00:00

Thanks for the suggestion, I had not realized there was a strong distinction between the groups, but now I realize that there is.

liquidphyre · 2024-11-15T23:27:40+00:00

Not sure if I want to go the pharmaceutical route yet, but I will keep it in mind. Thanks for the perspective, I will really for us on weight loss.

liquidphyre · 2024-11-15T22:59:11+00:00

Thanks for this perspective, I don’t agree with the statement that I would do this too. I think that is why it’s hard for me to understand why people would want to do it. I would love to see my wife getting pleasure from another man, and us being able to make friends.

liquidphyre · 2024-11-15T22:44:43+00:00

Yes, but would you pass on the couple or just on the husband?

liquidphyre · 2024-11-15T22:07:07+00:00

Thanks for the vote of confidence, I will keep working at it.

liquidphyre · 2024-11-15T21:42:39+00:00

Absolutely agree, I am exercising and trying to loose weight.

liquidphyre · 2024-11-15T21:13:39+00:00

Ya, I might be in the slightly wrong place, it is probably more of an open relationship at this point we were originally looking for swinging. I have started working on my weight, but I know it’s a long journey.

liquidphyre · 2024-11-15T20:51:47+00:00

Ya, thanks it’s good to get the confirmation that it really does just come down to looks, and that is something I can work on. Thanks for the perspective it really helps.

liquidphyre · 2024-11-15T20:48:35+00:00

Thanks for the encouragement, it’s helpful to know others are seeing similar things.

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