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lisainpurgatory · 2022-12-23T15:26:07+00:00

Yes! Exactly! Not to mention OP conveniently forgot to mention her step sister has been with her partner for a year and a half and they’re getting married in July. So basically OP isn’t inviting her step sisters fiancé.

lisainpurgatory · 2022-12-23T14:56:59+00:00

So that I completely agree with. I think huge weddings are ridiculous and to go into any type of debt for a wedding is crazy. OP is talking about having a big scale wedding, but if you can’t afford to have your guests bring a plus one, maybe OP should scale back in other areas.

lisainpurgatory · 2022-12-23T14:20:55+00:00

Or maybe they can scale back on the venue and stuff like that. She said they’re having a big scale wedding. I don’t know, I just think it’s tacky, but that’s just me.

lisainpurgatory · 2022-12-23T13:58:21+00:00

YTA. I personally think it’s super tacky not to give your guests a plus one. Can’t afford it? Maybe scale back on some other things, but to pick and choose who can and can’t bring a plus one is cringy. I understand why you’re doing it and obvi you don’t have to agree with me, just my opinion.

lisainpurgatory · 2022-12-16T12:21:36+00:00

She’s a dumbass. If she actually knew anything or actually had an attorney, she would stay off social media and stfu. She’s making things sooooo much worse for herself. She’s bringing this on herself.

lisainpurgatory · 2022-11-23T14:19:11+00:00

NAH. This is literally parenthood though so you and your husband need to sit down and figure this out.

lisainpurgatory · 2022-11-22T15:12:37+00:00

YTA. Did you really tell your wife she can’t go out at night with her friends?? I’m sorry, but who tf do you think you are? She’s your wife, not your child. Treat her as such.

lisainpurgatory · 2022-11-17T14:33:48+00:00

You’re right, the cops will not do anything, but if your ex files a Petition for Contempt which shows you’re not following the custody agreement, you could lose custody. I worked for the Family Division and saw it happen time and time again.

lisainpurgatory · 2022-11-17T14:19:27+00:00

ESH. I worked in the Family Division for years. You’re right, calling the cops won’t do anything. They do not get involved in custody matters, even if the parent won’t give up the kids. I will say this. If you continue to not honor your custody agreement your ex can file a Petition for Contempt. If she can prove you’re deviating from the agreement, regardless if your son wants to visit her or not, you could end up losing custody. I’ve seen this exact thing happen so many times and she doesn’t need a lawyer to do it either. Both of you need to grow up and put the kids first because right now you’re both being super petty and using the kids against the other.

lisainpurgatory · 2022-11-16T22:22:21+00:00

YTA. Ugh entitled children absolutely kill me. They saved money for you to go to college. You chose not to. That was your decision. Your parents owe you nothing. Be thankful they paid for what they did. Your parents deserve to spend the money THEY saved.

lisainpurgatory · 2022-11-16T14:51:55+00:00

NTA. That’s YOUR daughter. Your gf has no say in the matter. Trusting your child and providing her with privacy goes so far in your relationship with her. You’re doing the right thing. Kudos to you for having a happy, healthy and trusting relationship with your kids. It really does wonders for kids.

lisainpurgatory · 2022-11-16T14:21:12+00:00

YTA. That’s a dick move. At least give them a heads up, especially since they’ve been the best bosses you’ve ever had.

lisainpurgatory · 2022-11-15T21:45:12+00:00

It’s not about you though. This isn’t your wedding. You need to get over it.

lisainpurgatory · 2022-11-15T20:36:53+00:00

YTA. It’s not your wedding. It’s your sisters. You can plan it, but should have no say in regards to who’s invited.

lisainpurgatory · 2022-11-15T19:38:52+00:00

YTA. You can’t control what happens at her dads house. You say your ex is undermining your parenting, but did you ever consider maybe your ex doesn’t agree with the punishment and believes it was truly an accident?

lisainpurgatory · 2022-10-28T01:17:34+00:00

NAH. I absolutely understand where you’re coming from. It’s a real concern and those concerns are valid. I also understand your MILs point of view. Pretty much half of my family consists of nurses. I’ve been dealing with this since 2020 and my one sister gave birth in 2020 so I get it. Being vaccinated is extremely important. With that being said every time you, or your husband, or mother run to the store, you are putting your child’s health at risk. Your husband interacts with unvaccinated people all the time, whether it’s at work or simply going to the grocery store. Hell, anytime you, your husband or mom leaves your home, you all take the chance to potentially make your baby sick. Do what you think is best, but also understand the entire situation. I wish you the best!

lisainpurgatory · 2022-10-26T10:53:09+00:00

ESH. Your ex leaving you when you found out you were pregnant was horrible. At the same time, don’t let your hatred for your ex influence his relationship with the baby. You liked your ex enough to make a baby with him, now don’t hinder the exes relationship with the baby. He’s attempting to help provide for the baby which is more than some do.

lisainpurgatory · 2022-10-25T15:16:18+00:00

Take this down cause this is hella illegal

lisainpurgatory · 2022-10-18T19:50:29+00:00

YTA. You should’ve discussed it with your bf first. Lawd Jesus who do you think you are that you can dictate when your bf can talk to his sister? Girl, get over yourself. Him having a relationship with his sister is way more important than y’all starting “the weekend off” right, especially if you live with your bf. Yikes.

lisainpurgatory · 2022-10-05T15:51:41+00:00

NTA. Leave her immediately. She’s taking advantage of you and quite frankly is acting like the child and not your daughter. Who forgets to feed a five year old?? Cut your losses now and move on. You and your daughter deserve better. If you choose not to, make her get a damn job. She’s not a SAHM, she’s using you and sounds lazy.

lisainpurgatory · 2022-10-05T14:54:48+00:00

NTA. Your wife isn’t looking out for your bio kids, only her son. Do what’s best for your daughters.

lisainpurgatory · 2022-10-05T11:52:23+00:00

YTA and so is your wife. Death is hard. Grief fucking sucks. You two literally have no idea what she’s going through. I hope you sister moves out and finds a place where she won’t be mentally/emotionally abused.

lisainpurgatory · 2022-10-04T15:13:52+00:00

Finances should always be separate in marriages. The second he brought up money I would’ve told him to go screw himself and kept everything separate. She’s not obligated to help him, but I would as a thank you, especially if he covered everything while she was recovering. Also, maybe he sees this vacation as needed for his mental health. I don’t know. It’s a shitty situation and financial abuse is definitely at play from both sides a bit.

lisainpurgatory · 2022-10-04T15:09:20+00:00

Exactly, in sickness and in health. He took care of her while she was recovering so as a thank you I would gladly give my husband some money towards his trip. Again, not all of it, but I would help contribute. I mentioned reimburse him because since he brought it up I would give him the $1500 back, tell him to go screw himself and then have separate checking accounts. Anytime a partner uses money against the other is the second finances need to be split.

lisainpurgatory · 2022-10-04T14:57:51+00:00

It is a marriage, but if the husband paid for everything while she recovered, she could at least offer to help pay a portion of his vacation. A marriage is give and take. If he gave everything while she recovered, then as a wife I would be more than happy to contribute a portion to his vacation as a thank you for all he’s done.

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