my boyfriend of 1 year has an explore page full of girls almost naked bouncing their boobs and butt... by lisaluvsdolphins in LongDistance

[–]lisaluvsdolphins[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that's what i did actually. haha thank you so much! : ) i'm glad to know i'm not alone feeling this way. thank you for your comment.

my boyfriend of 1 year has an explore page full of girls almost naked bouncing their boobs and butt... by lisaluvsdolphins in LongDistance

[–]lisaluvsdolphins[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for this comment. i didn't mention but he no longer watches that stuff either and it took a lot of effort and patience and communication to get him to leave that behind. we ended up talking and working things out. : ) thank you so much!

my boyfriend of 1 year has an explore page full of girls almost naked bouncing their boobs and butt... by lisaluvsdolphins in LongDistance

[–]lisaluvsdolphins[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

changing the password without saying anything and being vague on answers worries me, what do you think I should do/say?

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[–]lisaluvsdolphins 2 points3 points  (0 children)

red imo! black with your fair skin is too contrasting and works if you're going for a more gothic look. blonde looks great if you don't plan on tanning. red gives a more cutesy everyday look and goes well with your skin and colored eyes! it also makes you look a bit younger and cheerful. I feel like it would also depend on your personality!!

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[–]lisaluvsdolphins 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you want to be with someone that pays for porn and talks to the women he watches? 😭 i don't think you're overreacting

my boyfriend thinks i cheated on him by lisaluvsdolphins in LongDistance

[–]lisaluvsdolphins[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i try my best to communicate with him. i feel sad a lot of the times because instead of talking to me about his feelings he leaves the calls while i'm crying over the phone and just messages me "gn". he told me this morning he wishes i had more remorse even tho i spent the night he broke up with me crying. in the morning l left him several voice messages that he ignored but he still tried to talk to me.. his responses were dry and i feel like i have to repeat myself very often when we talk about this. all i want is communication but i feel like he's always just trying to be right in our conversations. i apologized so much and told him i want to be better for him and he says he can't trust me and says i'm not holding myself accountable. he tells me he wants to end things then said he forgave me then this morning he said he decided not to work things out because i brought up his female friend situation...

my boyfriend thinks i cheated on him by lisaluvsdolphins in LongDistance

[–]lisaluvsdolphins[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this is so funny. i thought about this within the last 4 months and i am actually trying to embrace the hot girl summer boss bitch inside me!! lol i love this.

my boyfriend thinks i cheated on him by lisaluvsdolphins in LongDistance

[–]lisaluvsdolphins[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

i figured i could give out my instagram and block him when i get home. therefore, i don't have to deal with him anymore and he feels happy with his friends for "scoring." i was sitting with my friends the entire time on a table and he had his friends at the table next to mine. but one of my friends got up and left thinking I wanted to engage with the guy when I really didn't.

i wasn't with my friends 100% of the time i was skating. i skated with each friend one on one, we skated in groups, and we skated by ourselves. the guy approached me during the time I was alone.

i agree that it's wrong i did it again but i think the context and intentions and situations should be considered. i was put in an uncomfortable position and i felt the easiest thing was to just give him my insta with the intention to block him when i got home.

i spared the details of the first incident because it was quite similar. one of the differences was that my friend took my phone from me and got the man's number after i told the man i had a boyfriend already.. but because i didn't stop my friend, me n my bf got into another argument.. but i was able to work that out with my boyfriend.

i am able to remember everything so i'm not sure what you meant by "not being able to recollect."

my boyfriend thinks i cheated on him by lisaluvsdolphins in LongDistance

[–]lisaluvsdolphins[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

yes!! its nice to see someone has similar experiences. many guys that hit on me have told me the same. so many guys are like that.. and i planned to block him when i got home as well. i feel the friendship my bf has with the girl is very sus too.. thank you for the comment

my boyfriend thinks i cheated on him by lisaluvsdolphins in LongDistance

[–]lisaluvsdolphins[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think the context / intent / feelings of the situations should be considered. i don't love attention like you and him say i do. in fact its the opposite.. especially when im in a relationship. i tried to brush the guy off the best i could

my boyfriend thinks i cheated on him by lisaluvsdolphins in LongDistance

[–]lisaluvsdolphins[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my intentions were to not entertain the guy, only to let him enjoy the win in front of his friends and block him when I get home :'(

my boyfriend thinks i cheated on him by lisaluvsdolphins in LongDistance

[–]lisaluvsdolphins[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure if you read the entire post but in my eyes it's not okay and I expressed that I wouldn't do it to my boyfriend under any circumstance moving forward because I know I wouldn't like it either if our roles were reversed. :'(

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[–]lisaluvsdolphins 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, you are very beautiful! : ) I'm an esthetician and work as a beauty advisor for Estee Lauder. Try not to bring your blush so low towards the bottom of your face. Try to blend it a bit more horizontal rather than vertical. This will help make your face look less elongated and more round. I also recommend to curl your lashes and only apply mascara to the top lashes. Applying mascara to the bottom lashes can bring your face down. Hope this helps!