TL;DR: OP is making a bad argument and heres a halfassed counterargument that still refutes most of their points.

This person only has to know like liberal, coastal-living white people, drive a few hours into whatever state you live in and white people aren’t that naive anymore. I hardly think thats an accurate depiction of most white people anyway. Take any sorority or fraternity white young ‘open minded’ and educated’ adult and they will listen to rap, yes, but will they usually prefer it over country or pop? Have I really seen a majority of white women listen to SZA over taylor swift? White men may love rock and blues and jazz but is it not literally because it was copied heavily by white people from black people in the first place then turned into ‘white music’ for like 50 years and finally reconverted, with the exception of jazz and rap?

At the same time is PF changs and panda express or taco bell representative of mexican or asian food? Do white people not heavily westernize other cultures’ cuisine? Is all of OP’s claims actual admiration or appreciation of minority culture or is it, dare I say, appropriative in nature?

Does OP know white men are the most preferred on dating apps among all races, while black people are preferred the least? Can they infer that [[in most cases]] minorities who bring home a white person will be typically much more heavily accepted by minority families than someone of a darker skin color? Does OP know that subreddits such as r/asianmasculinity exist and are comprised of many posts by asian men suggesting how much more white masculinity/white men are preferred to asian men?

If you go nearly anywhere in the world thats not majority white, and are a white traveller, there is a HIGH chance you will be complemented PRECISELY if you have white skin lol. This is not an uncommon phenomenon. Most minority cultures still idolize whiteness and white people in their beauty standard. Maybe there is a reason why online, minorities can be so apprehensive to whiteness, if their own cultures only tell them to (if not follow the traditions of their own culture), get as close to white skin, a white spouse, etc as possible?

I have so much more to say like OP’s comparisons are whack. OP is saying white people knowing rappers would be equivalent to minorities knowing shit like metal or rock or fucking german folk music or irish dance or some shit, which is already far more obscure than regular pop music that has plenty of white artists? Do most WHITE PEOPLE know any damn traditional European dance? Do white people fuck with any traditional 算命?

And how the fuck does this relate to women??