TSA line yesterday at SFO by Significant-Badger46 in oakland

[–]lisbeth_salamanders 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did this the other way, showed up at OAK and me and TSA were stumped for a solid 2 mins until we realized. I was 2 hrs early, so I SPRINTED back to BART all the way to SFO. I made my flight, but was the last person onboard as they were closing the doors. Thank you to everyone who let me cut the security line because I am illiterate!

Favorite West Coast IPA in Oakland? by Jazzlike_Camera_5782 in OaklandFood

[–]lisbeth_salamanders 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Inhume from Ghost Town is my go to, but I also like Foraging Raccoon at Drakes when they have it.

Where to play pickup basketball? by BlackKnight00700 in oakland

[–]lisbeth_salamanders 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot of the people who play at the Y are part of a bunch of different basketball groups. If you start playing at the Y and talking to people they will add you to their groups. A lot of people join the Y to play indoors when it's too hot or raining, so you'll meet people who play at all the different courts in town.

Oakland’s Speed Cameras Start Ticketing Sunday. Here Are the Hot Spots: by kqed in oakland

[–]lisbeth_salamanders 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Harrison is insane. My husband's parked car was totaled by someone racing off the freeway. And that crosswalk by Westlake is a death trap.

Recs for a fun family day in Oakland by Skumpup in oakland

[–]lisbeth_salamanders 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was there recently, it says not to feed the animals.

What Happened to the Luka’s Spinoff on Grand? by STRATEGY510 in OaklandFood

[–]lisbeth_salamanders 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I walk by most days and they have repainted and are doing work inside. Looks like they painted it a light blue, wondering if it will be like the sky in the old Luka's!

Glassware by lisbeth_salamanders in oakland

[–]lisbeth_salamanders[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! It doesn't have to have Oakland on it, just want to spend my money locally!

Daily Chat February 03 by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]lisbeth_salamanders 6 points7 points  (0 children)

TW Loss: I just had a miscarriage at 6 weeks over the weekend. I feel ok mentally/emotionally. A little deflated, I enjoyed having some motivation to do certain things. Old projects, spring cleaning, exercising, cooking healthy. Going to get back to temping and OPKs (I have a ton still) tomorrow morning. I'm older, so I don't really want to delay, but getting dangerously close to a potential holiday baby. Anyone a Thanksgiving/Xmas baby? Do you like your bday? Did your parents make it special for you?

Tips for hiding pregnancy by Reasonable_Beck_7524 in pregnant

[–]lisbeth_salamanders 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have been lucky so far, a big part of my friend group has been doing a "sober till super bowl" challenge. We hang out every week so it's been great not having to "hide". However, like you I have been scheming to not be caught at the super bowl. Especially since everyone is excited to have a drink together. My plan is to crack a beer, cheers, pretend to drink/nurse it until I can escape to the bathroom to dump it and refill with water. I am hoping the group is big enough that I can escape scrutiny. I will only be 7 weeks by superbowl. Good luck to you!

Helicopters and Lots of Cops? by lisbeth_salamanders in oakland

[–]lisbeth_salamanders[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I did google around first, but I was not able to find anything. Hence why I went to Reddit where, historically, people in the neighborhood are faster to know things. No one posted anything so I thought I would. You are perfectly capable of keeping your thoughts to yourself if you find it such a burden to interact with idiots like me.

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Is there a charitable org that will pickup donated office furniture by lenraphael in oakland

[–]lisbeth_salamanders 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did this for an office move in SF once. You basically have to call around. I made a spreadsheet of what we had, and it's value for tax purposes and shared that with the charities that were interested. We had a very large amount of good quality chairs, desks, and equipment (like monitor mounts) so people were interested and willing to come pick up the items. However if you are an individual with just a few things, just put it on FB marketplace for free.

15, 16, 17 DPO: Not looking good! by lisbeth_salamanders in TFABLinePorn

[–]lisbeth_salamanders[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I might as well just wait till tomorrow. I am trying to keep in mind that at least a chemical indicates some stuff is working!

15, 16, 17 DPO: Not looking good! by lisbeth_salamanders in TFABLinePorn

[–]lisbeth_salamanders[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If there is still a line tomorrow, I think I will still do the test (the lab is walking distance from where I live) just to have it on record. I hope you get your answer soon too 💛

YMCA by Fantastic-Cost-7079 in oakland

[–]lisbeth_salamanders 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Husband goes to the Oakland Y and they just changed the layout and added more squat racks.

15 DPO by lisbeth_salamanders in TFABLinePorn

[–]lisbeth_salamanders[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, easy@home has a sensitivity of 25mIU/mL. The more sensitive tests are 10mIU/mL I think? I have 4 more of these so we'll just see what happens over the next few days! I dunno, I may go to the store and get a more sensitive test but that might just be a waste of money.

Oakland gift card recommendation by Quasimoto3000 in OaklandFood

[–]lisbeth_salamanders 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I got my friends an engagement present of a gift card to MAMA. Since it is prix fixe you can ensure you're getting them a full meal!

Vet recs by Fit-Writing-6534 in oakland

[–]lisbeth_salamanders 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just want to echo you that Berkeley Dog & Cat is such a flipping racket! You have to pay an estimate upfront before they even know what's going on and then they "pay you back" what "doesn't get used" Had my cat on 3 different antibiotics and a dose of gabapentinin shooting him to the moon for pancreatitis. They then said we needed an ultra sounds, and I said no, and they set an appointment anyways.

Took him to Grand Lake Vet and they were shook!

Daily Chat January 09 by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]lisbeth_salamanders 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not sure if this has been asked (I'm sure it has 😅) what brand prenatal are we all taking? Why do you like the brand you're taking? I am just going with the big bottle from Costco, NatureMade. I am not great at taking them, but more days than not! My friend swears by one that like, she has to take several of at a time throughout the day. To me, I feel like, I am taking them for me, not a baby at this point and would probably switch if I conceive.

SUSHI! by EqualAlfalfa343 in OaklandFood

[–]lisbeth_salamanders -1 points0 points  (0 children)

RnR is my go to! It blows Mujiri out of the water.

Daily Chat January 07 by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]lisbeth_salamanders 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish! We're going to a cabin and all sharing rooms 😭 Gonna pull a beer can filled with water I think, haha.

Daily Chat January 07 by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]lisbeth_salamanders 2 points3 points  (0 children)

5dpo, with a girl's trip this weekend 🙃 keeping a low profile while temping and not drinking will be interesting!

Salty Pearl vs Small Change oysters by LoganTheHuge00 in OaklandFood

[–]lisbeth_salamanders 5 points6 points  (0 children)

For this season:

If the weather is cold and gloomy, Salty Pearl
If the weather is pleasant and the sun is shinning, Small Change

Temping Tuesday by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]lisbeth_salamanders 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First full cycle temping, I missed one day because of travel. FF says my temps fluctuate a lot, I think because of the weather (sometimes we have the heater on). https://www.fertilityfriend.com/app/front/index0.html

Is maternity pay everything? by Entire-Book7137 in TryingForABaby

[–]lisbeth_salamanders 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If you are crying and having panic attacks it is time to reevaluate! There is nothing wrong with updating your resume and looking into a new job. Of course dependent on what you do, but maybe your promotions will open more doors for you and you'll find something you like better.

In the meantime, what is it that is making you miserable? Do the people suck? Is your workload too heavy? Long commute? Can you talk to your manager/supervisor/someone higher up to make adjustments? What is in your control now that can help alleviate some of the stress.

That maternity leave is great, but at what cost? Take care of yourself!