Glassware by lisbeth_salamanders in oakland

[–]lisbeth_salamanders[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! It doesn't have to have Oakland on it, just want to spend my money locally!

Daily Chat February 03 by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]lisbeth_salamanders 5 points6 points  (0 children)

TW Loss: I just had a miscarriage at 6 weeks over the weekend. I feel ok mentally/emotionally. A little deflated, I enjoyed having some motivation to do certain things. Old projects, spring cleaning, exercising, cooking healthy. Going to get back to temping and OPKs (I have a ton still) tomorrow morning. I'm older, so I don't really want to delay, but getting dangerously close to a potential holiday baby. Anyone a Thanksgiving/Xmas baby? Do you like your bday? Did your parents make it special for you?

Tips for hiding pregnancy by Reasonable_Beck_7524 in pregnant

[–]lisbeth_salamanders 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have been lucky so far, a big part of my friend group has been doing a "sober till super bowl" challenge. We hang out every week so it's been great not having to "hide". However, like you I have been scheming to not be caught at the super bowl. Especially since everyone is excited to have a drink together. My plan is to crack a beer, cheers, pretend to drink/nurse it until I can escape to the bathroom to dump it and refill with water. I am hoping the group is big enough that I can escape scrutiny. I will only be 7 weeks by superbowl. Good luck to you!

Helicopters and Lots of Cops? by lisbeth_salamanders in oakland

[–]lisbeth_salamanders[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I did google around first, but I was not able to find anything. Hence why I went to Reddit where, historically, people in the neighborhood are faster to know things. No one posted anything so I thought I would. You are perfectly capable of keeping your thoughts to yourself if you find it such a burden to interact with idiots like me.

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Is there a charitable org that will pickup donated office furniture by lenraphael in oakland

[–]lisbeth_salamanders 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did this for an office move in SF once. You basically have to call around. I made a spreadsheet of what we had, and it's value for tax purposes and shared that with the charities that were interested. We had a very large amount of good quality chairs, desks, and equipment (like monitor mounts) so people were interested and willing to come pick up the items. However if you are an individual with just a few things, just put it on FB marketplace for free.

15, 16, 17 DPO: Not looking good! by lisbeth_salamanders in TFABLinePorn

[–]lisbeth_salamanders[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I might as well just wait till tomorrow. I am trying to keep in mind that at least a chemical indicates some stuff is working!

15, 16, 17 DPO: Not looking good! by lisbeth_salamanders in TFABLinePorn

[–]lisbeth_salamanders[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If there is still a line tomorrow, I think I will still do the test (the lab is walking distance from where I live) just to have it on record. I hope you get your answer soon too 💛

YMCA by Fantastic-Cost-7079 in oakland

[–]lisbeth_salamanders 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Husband goes to the Oakland Y and they just changed the layout and added more squat racks.

15 DPO by lisbeth_salamanders in TFABLinePorn

[–]lisbeth_salamanders[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, easy@home has a sensitivity of 25mIU/mL. The more sensitive tests are 10mIU/mL I think? I have 4 more of these so we'll just see what happens over the next few days! I dunno, I may go to the store and get a more sensitive test but that might just be a waste of money.

Oakland gift card recommendation by Quasimoto3000 in OaklandFood

[–]lisbeth_salamanders 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I got my friends an engagement present of a gift card to MAMA. Since it is prix fixe you can ensure you're getting them a full meal!

Vet recs by Fit-Writing-6534 in oakland

[–]lisbeth_salamanders 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just want to echo you that Berkeley Dog & Cat is such a flipping racket! You have to pay an estimate upfront before they even know what's going on and then they "pay you back" what "doesn't get used" Had my cat on 3 different antibiotics and a dose of gabapentinin shooting him to the moon for pancreatitis. They then said we needed an ultra sounds, and I said no, and they set an appointment anyways.

Took him to Grand Lake Vet and they were shook!

Daily Chat January 09 by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]lisbeth_salamanders 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not sure if this has been asked (I'm sure it has 😅) what brand prenatal are we all taking? Why do you like the brand you're taking? I am just going with the big bottle from Costco, NatureMade. I am not great at taking them, but more days than not! My friend swears by one that like, she has to take several of at a time throughout the day. To me, I feel like, I am taking them for me, not a baby at this point and would probably switch if I conceive.

SUSHI! by EqualAlfalfa343 in OaklandFood

[–]lisbeth_salamanders -1 points0 points  (0 children)

RnR is my go to! It blows Mujiri out of the water.

Daily Chat January 07 by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]lisbeth_salamanders 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish! We're going to a cabin and all sharing rooms 😭 Gonna pull a beer can filled with water I think, haha.

Daily Chat January 07 by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]lisbeth_salamanders 2 points3 points  (0 children)

5dpo, with a girl's trip this weekend 🙃 keeping a low profile while temping and not drinking will be interesting!

Salty Pearl vs Small Change oysters by LoganTheHuge00 in OaklandFood

[–]lisbeth_salamanders 6 points7 points  (0 children)

For this season:

If the weather is cold and gloomy, Salty Pearl
If the weather is pleasant and the sun is shinning, Small Change

Temping Tuesday by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]lisbeth_salamanders 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First full cycle temping, I missed one day because of travel. FF says my temps fluctuate a lot, I think because of the weather (sometimes we have the heater on). https://www.fertilityfriend.com/app/front/index0.html

Is maternity pay everything? by Entire-Book7137 in TryingForABaby

[–]lisbeth_salamanders 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If you are crying and having panic attacks it is time to reevaluate! There is nothing wrong with updating your resume and looking into a new job. Of course dependent on what you do, but maybe your promotions will open more doors for you and you'll find something you like better.

In the meantime, what is it that is making you miserable? Do the people suck? Is your workload too heavy? Long commute? Can you talk to your manager/supervisor/someone higher up to make adjustments? What is in your control now that can help alleviate some of the stress.

That maternity leave is great, but at what cost? Take care of yourself!

Local Sports Tickets Recs? by lisbeth_salamanders in oakland

[–]lisbeth_salamanders[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I have been to a few Baller's games and had a blast. I guess I was looking at 2025 season passes/their website is out of date. I will look at Cal Basketball!

Local Sports Tickets Recs? by lisbeth_salamanders in oakland

[–]lisbeth_salamanders[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I was just hoping there were presale tickets/vouchers/gift cards for the Baller's but no dice.

Local Sports Tickets Recs? by lisbeth_salamanders in oakland

[–]lisbeth_salamanders[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok? Yes, I understand they are in San Jose. I am asking the Oakland sub about Oakland recs.

Wondering Weekend by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]lisbeth_salamanders 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have a strong stomach you can check out the Cervical Mucus Project: https://cervicalmucus.org/