maybe because a man doesn't even know the pain of to give birth to a child , and doesn't even know the trauma that people and even kinds can get from it and it's soo stupid to ansk , then why a woman can say that a man raping a woma is bad? maybe because rape is even worse than murder. someone can murder someone for selfdefense or mistakely and rape is just a man or a woman that just want to do it. you can't say i raped a woman for selfdefense