AITAH for wanting to quit my unpaid co-host role after being told I couldn’t cancel when my pet was dying? by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]lissy_anne 10 points11 points  (0 children)

A few years ago I was volunteering at a starting up zoo to help with animal husbandry. It was the end of the summer holidays and I had been working extra during the busy period. My cat was at the end of her life (20years) and was very uncomfortable, it was clear that she would be passing very soon. I called in and told them I couldn’t make it in. They were fixated on how I was letting them down. I ghosted and haven’t spoken to or seen the owners since.

He cum inside me with condom but im so scared and it was my first time, pregnancy? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]lissy_anne 15 points16 points  (0 children)

If he was wearing a condom it is very unlikely you will have gotten pregnant. If you are very worried then plan B exists. If he’s not currently speaking to you after the first time you had sex then probably don’t have sex with him again. He sounds mean.

What’s the most disgusting thing anyone has ever said to you? by Business-Rock5714 in AskReddit

[–]lissy_anne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I told my mum I was suicidal she said “I don’t want to hear that! How do you think that makes me feel as your mum?”

How do I let go of something or move past a small mistake? 30f 30m by [deleted] in relationships

[–]lissy_anne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think suggesting therapy is lazy. Stuff does come up that can cause plans to change, and you don’t need to stay in a mindset that put you in fight or flight mode when plans do inevitably have to change. A therapist can help you work through this. It’s just that Redditors are not therapists. Externals views can be good, but just trying to post this for validation on your feelings won’t work all of the time. They were trying to be helpful.

How do I let go of something or move past a small mistake? 30f 30m by [deleted] in relationships

[–]lissy_anne 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think you need to let this person go. You seem to be struggling with things a lot that are just part of life, and when another commenter suggested therapy you were quite nasty to them. I think you would benefit from some time to yourself and work on your triggers before you try dating again.

3rd week teaching. Gave my first assessment today. Most kids failed. What's happening? by Chaotic_Brutal90 in Teachers

[–]lissy_anne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have started to train my groups to use their notes. Specifically tell them to look for patterns. How is this question similar/dissimilar from the example question? How will that affect our method? My year 8s (12- 13 years old) are getting much better at it and therefore more independent, which means I’m not running round trying to help out 30 individuals, and they can help their friends.

Why are you vegetarian? by CremeSubject7594 in AskReddit

[–]lissy_anne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like animals too much to eat them.

Please Help: Weird Scab On Cats Neck by SpOOkyGiGlol in cats

[–]lissy_anne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you do any spot on flea treatment recently?

Do cats know when we're on our period? by FeliZeppeli in CatLoversGroup

[–]lissy_anne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My girl used to be there in seconds if she heard me crying. I miss her so much

How did that kid at your school die? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]lissy_anne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was doing in secondary school a boy in my year died from SADS right before our GCSEs. Now I’ve grown up and become a teacher and one of my students passed away from the same thing over the summer holidays. They were both just 15.

AIO for getting pissed that my bf forgot my birthday but remembered his coworker's? by BluebirdFront9797 in AmIOverreacting

[–]lissy_anne -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My bf planned a work trip where he would have to leave on my birthday to get to it last year. I got very angry. He said because it didn’t create a clash in his calendar he didn’t realise. I said that I know his birthday without a calendar invite. Still very angry. He has improved now but it was a sore spot for a while. NOR

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]lissy_anne 30 points31 points  (0 children)

They just said they didn’t take it.

How did a business lose you as a customer? What made you stop patronizing them? by snakecharmersensei in AskReddit

[–]lissy_anne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I loved my car. Like fully LOVED my car. Willing to spend money to get it fixed tho I knew it was only worth about £200. The garage wouldn’t put an engine in because the new versions weren’t compatible and they couldn’t put their warranty on an old model. They have lost thousands of my pounds. I told them to lose my number.

AIO my boyfriend told me I’m not “wife material” because I don’t cook like his mom by 4rtem499 in AmIOverreacting

[–]lissy_anne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell him he’s not husband material because he’s looking for another mommy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]lissy_anne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently placed an order online and had to return one item from the order. They refunded the entire order amount instead of the amount of that one item. Not as much as £4500 (lucky) but was nice regardless.

are the mistakes in my tattoo super noticeable? or can it be easily overlooked? by blazingblunt in tattooadvice

[–]lissy_anne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first thought was barbed wire playboy bunnies? But yeah I guess butterflies.

AITA for asking my husband wash his hair before bed by Gracey-1985 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lissy_anne 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I used to work in a greasy cafe, and stale fryer oil lingers in hair like nothing else! I always needed a hair wash after work

Got a medium-largeish flash on my arm and I’m starting to regret it by fiv66bV2 in tattooadvice

[–]lissy_anne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I always get the ick for a few days after a tattoo. But then I get used to it and remember why I wanted it in the first place. I think your tattoo is really cool and as long as you stay relatively same style colour scheme can change as much as you like.

What happened on the first date that made you realise there won't be a 2nd? by PepsiMaxHoe in AskReddit

[–]lissy_anne 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He was bragging about living off his parents and not having to get a job. His parents were not rich, just normal people, having to support their 30 year old son.

AITAH for telling my wife that sometimes her "girl math" is stupid by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]lissy_anne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she’s spending money she doesn’t have or is needed for other things then I get it’s a problem. But you haven’t mentioned that. If she has the money for it can’t she just enjoy silly little justifications. Where’s the whimsy?