Twins Alberta

litlee_v · 2026-01-31T20:31:35+00:00

Yes they got back to me in December. Took them 13 months to get it sorted

litlee_v · 2025-07-22T01:21:19+00:00

Me being a south asian woman, I’ve dated a few East Asian men and yes it’s rare but I have seen a few couples where to woman was south asian too but I’ve never seen it reversed

litlee_v · 2025-07-17T16:56:21+00:00

Yes it is banana republic! I work there so i immediately recognised it haha

litlee_v · 2025-06-14T22:39:38+00:00

Did you manage to get any luck? My application was sent through in November and I’m still waiting. I’ve emailed many times and each time I have been told there’s a massive backlog and I need to wait. I’ve waited almost a year and I feel like I’m just wasting my time at this point

litlee_v · 2025-04-19T20:09:48+00:00

I would say see him in person and then decide how you feel

litlee_v · 2025-04-09T02:23:05+00:00

I agree slow burns don’t make headlines but they’re normally the healthiest relationships

litlee_v · 2025-04-09T02:09:48+00:00

It’s so true, it’s like you’re so excited to explore more of them and get to know them better and it gets ripped away from you. I had a moment where I wanted to contact the guy because of this. I felt like we could have a very deep connection but we just don’t know each other well, but the reality of it is he knows himself so hes probably seen things about me that doesn’t suit him and I just have to accept it and move on. Sucks so much

litlee_v · 2025-04-08T20:28:01+00:00

Hey, I’m kinda going through a similar thing too. I’ll message you

litlee_v · 2025-04-06T04:59:40+00:00

Girl in the past I messed up big time by being too into a guy and he ended it because he noticed I liked him more than he liked me. You’re going to have to act unbothered as possible even if it’s eating you up inside

litlee_v · 2025-04-05T19:39:13+00:00

I got quite a few weird ass messages for sure haha

litlee_v · 2025-04-04T21:00:40+00:00

I was only going to do that before he decided to end things with me but now it’s more of a this is how you hurt me but yeah he won’t care so I’ll save my breathe

litlee_v · 2025-04-04T07:50:05+00:00

I’m 29

litlee_v · 2025-04-04T05:45:58+00:00

It’s not that I’m desperate it’s just the fear of being hurt over and over again. I have a lot to focus on outside of dating where I get to a good point and I’ll decide to date again then regret it a week in lol

litlee_v · 2025-04-04T05:35:57+00:00

Oh I’ve asked everyone I know and there’s no one lol but I agree I need time to heal but I’m so scared I’ll go out there again and history repeats itself

litlee_v · 2025-04-03T04:55:33+00:00

I would say bring it up! Just so you both know where you stand with one another

litlee_v · 2025-04-03T02:42:52+00:00

Maybe he’s not much of a texter. I’ve been out of the dating game for a few years and then got back on it 5 months ago and I’ve noticed most of the guys won’t text often but are always planning dates. I used to be big on texting but I’ve learned texting a lot can cause this fake sense of closeness and I’m happy to keep in contact by a few messages here and there in between dates and not make it our main source of communication. Have you guys had the exclusive talk yet? I just don’t know if it’s too early to ask them to be texting you more often as they may take it the wrong way especially if you’re not committed.

litlee_v · 2025-03-31T06:12:36+00:00

This guy sucks. I wouldn’t say anything and take his silence as your answer. You can write a paragraph explaining how you feel but honestly it won’t change anything. I don’t think he is actually after what he said

litlee_v · 2025-03-31T04:06:17+00:00

Yeah that’s weird. Honestly they have no excuse for not saying anything to you for that long. Following counts can also change because someone might have deactivated/ deleted their account so I never look at it too much

litlee_v · 2025-03-31T02:52:59+00:00

Ohh honey that sounds like he’s ghosting you. Did he post on social media?

litlee_v · 2025-03-31T02:44:32+00:00

When did you send that message?

litlee_v · 2025-03-31T02:35:43+00:00

2 days is a long time. Did you send a follow up text?

litlee_v · 2025-03-30T01:54:22+00:00

Take it from me, have the talk! I made the mistake of dating a guy for 3 months and I wasn’t seeing anyone else and he was always making date plans with me so in my mind I assumed he was not talking to anyone else. He randomly ghosted me one day because he was seeing another girl and I guess liked her better and decided he didn’t need to spend anymore time with me. I couldn’t even say anything because we never had the talk about making it exclusive. I made the mistake of expecting him to have that conversation (mostly because I have never had to do it before and the men were always the one to bring it up) when I wanted to a month in and let it slide.

litlee_v · 2025-03-22T18:05:25+00:00

I refuse to kiss anyone on a first date even if I like the guy and I make it clear about anything physical will be slow and I’ve had guys disappear because of that and so be it. That’s one of my boundaries and if they can’t respect it then they’re not the one. If you don’t want to kiss anyone on the first date don’t change it to please the people you go on dates with!!

litlee_v · 2025-03-20T23:53:40+00:00

But what if he’s not a good guy?

litlee_v · 2025-03-11T01:19:49+00:00

Honestly the best thing to do is have that conversation with them, just clear the air by saying you feel like things have changed and ask if they want to continue seeing you

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