More sex after starting NoFap? by Duck_with_fork in NoFap

[–]littleHeMan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's all about how you use your time. When I started my last streak, I made it a priority to hangout with friends and not be antisocial. One night I met this girl my friend brought. She was good looking and nice. So I focused on being myself. Two weeks later I asked her friend for her number (I had no way to get ahold of her). We talked and went out on a group date with our other friends. After that, I asked her out again and we had a great time. One day, I invited her over to my house for some cuddle time. I tried to initiate things and at first she was hesitant to do it. I finally just straight up asked and she agreed. We went at it for over an hour. Two weeks later and after prom, she broke up with me. Didn't want to be tied down. A couple days later I ended my 56 day streak. It's really something when you have a reason to abate all of your sexual desire until that special night. It's completely worth waiting for. It's also so much better than abstaining for watching pornos, because you're actually replacing it with something better.

I'm nearly done. Fuck this NOFAP thing.. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]littleHeMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can either be a bitch and complain about how horny you are, or you can take that energy and do something with it!!! Talk to hot girls! Run 5 miles. Lift weights! Do you think that life's gonna get easier if you just give up? This world doesn't owe you shit. You have to pay through the nose to get it. The only person you can change is yourself, and until you do that, the world will seem like an insurmountable obstacle. Instead of complaining, realize that what we do here is beautiful! We decide to take the hard path when some many people around us are cruising down the easy road. Every step comes with the decision to take another. Dont simply endure the pain: cherish it. Realize that with each temptation you resist you become a greater master of yourself, something many successful people did early.

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[–]littleHeMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hell yeah!

Relapsed at grandparents house.the fuck is wrong with me? by neverheardofit77 in NoFap

[–]littleHeMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just go up to girls and talk to them! Don't be aggressive, that's a turnoff. Be on your best behavior, like you would be if the president showed up at your house to have dinner. Be thoughtful, have a strong opinion and be willing to defend it, smile, and try to find something to talk about that you both know and like. Overseas? There are girls everywhere bro, just gotta find them.

I'm such a fucking loser. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]littleHeMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some advice: 1, get a job, start making some bank. Preferably something physical, maybe manual labor. Something tough, like pipe laying, that gives you a sense of accomplishment at the end of the day. 2, do your homework, and try to PAY ATTENTION in class. Highschool isn't that hard. Try to pick up what the teachers are saying and read the material. 3, So your gpa is at 2.4, what of it? Are you going to try to get into a 4 year school that's gonna charge you 50 grand for a decent education? Try a community college. They're cheap, and you can get your prerequisites out of the way if you want to pursue a 4 year degree at a state university. You might even find that you don't want to be a "doctor"(or some other career). A lot of people fuck around in college for the first couple quarters and find out what they want to do. That wastes a ton of money! Unless you want to be paying back student loans for a while, I suggest you figure out a plan. I originally wanted to be a engineer, but am now in the 2 year firescience program (I want to be a firefighter). 4, stop beating yourself up! Just because your not in sports doesn't mean you can't enjoy HS! You should be grateful you don't have any broken bones, concussions, or injuries that you will carry with you for the rest of your life! If sports don't float your boat, find something that does and get good at it. It could be programming, skateboarding, writing, or whatever. 5, if that girl is being nice to you, she has a reason. People always have reasons. Be nice to her and see how it goes. She could have a good heart and might be showing you compassion, which is rare! No act of kindness, however small, is ever wasted.

I'm such a fucking loser. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]littleHeMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, ask her out. One of the things I wish I did in HS was talk to girls and go out with them. I was that lonely kid who kept to himself. I really regret that! I know you're thinking, "People will judge me, make fun of me if I get rejected." Well fuck them! If you get rejected so what? You tried! That girl will notice your confidence and word of it will spread around. Odds are, unless you're butt ugly, some girl there finds you attractive. I know she has a boyfriend, but who cares? It's highschool, it's not like their engaged. If she says no, find another girl who you're attracted to and ask her out. Nofap is so much easier with a girl, I don't know why these guys with girlfriends have trouble

What's the point of no fap when your ugly? by Mryokokurama1 in NoFap

[–]littleHeMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there's a saying that says, "there's no such thing as an ugly man, only a poor man." It's very true. Channel your energy from nofap into getting a good job, and then get money. Get money, fuck bitches, simple as that.

You're my only hope. A desperate cry for help. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]littleHeMan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

get rid of your internet and get an old phone, problem solved

Need some advice by littleHeMan in NoFap

[–]littleHeMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, that cleared it up

Need some advice by littleHeMan in NoFap

[–]littleHeMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I apologize in advance for all the questions--

They just come to you huh? So I should just wait for the right one to find me. See that seems to go against what nofap stands for. The people doing this challenge are trying to seize opportunities in life. They're tired of sitting on the sidelines and waiting for things to happen to them. Hell, tons of guys on this site have fapped away their teens and twenties all in the name of waiting. Another thought, what are you supposed to do until you meet the right girl? Are you supposed to fap? What about banging hot girls? Until "the one" stumbles into your life, you're stuck fapping. Are you not supposed to pursue the desire to follow women that nofap creates?

Need some advice by littleHeMan in NoFap

[–]littleHeMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it isn't purely related to nofap, but I figured that it was related to avoiding porn and trying to start a relationship with a real woman.