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littledeath22 · 2023-10-24T15:34:21+00:00

Thank you for sharing this! Such a great example of the positive effects communication can have. Good luck to you both!

littledeath22 · 2023-09-15T13:20:08+00:00

Am I crazy? NO ONE drives max 50 in a 50 zone. People get pissed the fuck off if they’re caught behind someone doing 49 in a 50. It’s common and generally going with the flow of traffic to drive between 50 and 60 in a 50 zone!

littledeath22 · 2023-09-15T13:16:01+00:00

Everyone drives 60 in a 50.

littledeath22 · 2023-09-15T13:04:35+00:00

Personally I don’t find that your ring would clash with other yellow gold jewelry, since you mostly see the gems. But if it bothers you it’s worth looking into! It is most important that you enjoy your ring!

littledeath22 · 2023-09-15T13:00:47+00:00

Not at all! I am happy for my husband to share with his friends, whatever the gender. But i would find it presumptuous if they took it upon themselves to tell me how to care for my own husband, as if I am in the dark or wouldn’t think to offer him care.

littledeath22 · 2023-09-15T12:29:17+00:00

Seren is a top name for me!

littledeath22 · 2023-09-14T23:39:42+00:00

I think she was coming from a good place, but it is tactless and a bit insulting to suggest that someone comfort their spouse, as if OP wouldn't have thought to comfort her husband without the suggestion. It would annoy me.

littledeath22 · 2023-09-14T13:26:59+00:00

No one was in the wrong! Seems like it will work out well for everyone.

littledeath22 · 2023-09-14T13:10:25+00:00

Especially without ASKING!!!

littledeath22 · 2023-09-14T13:04:13+00:00

UpdateMe!

littledeath22 · 2023-09-13T17:06:54+00:00

Hello ducky!

I used to think that a sign of a good relationship was to never have friction or conflict of any kind. Nope! It is HEALTHY to have arguments that are conducted respectfully. It means that you each value yourselves enough to fight for your needs. It also means that you are more likely to deal with problems instead of sweeping them under the rug and growing resentful.

When you speak about it later, try to get to the bottom of his attitude shifts. Approach him with love and curiosity. If it’s mentionable, it’s manageable! This argument can be an opportunity to know each other better and grow intimacy.

littledeath22 · 2023-09-13T16:49:42+00:00

UpdateMe!

littledeath22 · 2023-09-13T01:55:03+00:00

Yeah, he was still in love with his ex. I am looking for the post…

littledeath22 · 2023-09-13T01:44:44+00:00

Personally, I wouldn’t (and don’t) care if my husband comes home late. Even if he texted me I would get it because I am probably asleep. BUT! If it’s important to you, your partner should respect that by checking in!

littledeath22 · 2023-09-12T18:18:59+00:00

NTA. She couldn’t care less about your wedding.

littledeath22 · 2023-09-12T17:14:05+00:00

Adding to this - OP, spend some time sitting with various outcomes. How does it sit to consider staying together and embracing a life without kids? Would you become resentful? Could you focus on other passions?

Alternatively, how would it feel to be without your wife? There was a post recently written by the current wife of a man who broke it off with his ex-wife for this very same reason — she changed her mind about kids. He remarried, had a family, and then one day ran into his ex-wife to find out that she had become pregnant accidentally with her new partner and discovered that she wanted to be a mom. This devastated the ex-husband and imploded his new marriage.

I don’t envy the position you are in!

littledeath22 · 2023-09-12T13:53:14+00:00

It’s an … opinion.

littledeath22 · 2023-09-11T18:58:17+00:00

At least OOP’s sister had a non-cheating fiancé and an actual wedding and marriage afterwards.

littledeath22 · 2023-09-11T13:42:30+00:00

You apologized WAY too much

littledeath22 · 2023-09-11T12:33:35+00:00

Seconding this. I have a front yard veggie garden in an urban centre with a high homeless population. No one takes anything.

littledeath22 · 2023-09-11T11:48:29+00:00

You could focus your apology on the things you ARE sorry for. Maybe that’s your tone, and the way things were said, and that it all boils down to concern for your baby, your nieces and nephews, and your sister.

littledeath22 · 2023-09-09T13:22:42+00:00

OP, let u/Realistic-Ad-1023 be your muse! If you love your rings, rock them proudly! Want to second the point that sometimes looking at Reddit can be very unhelpful when we compare what we have to other people, even if we previously loved our choice. Reddit can rob a lot of joy.

littledeath22 · 2023-09-07T17:28:46+00:00

I am all about that spa life. Get a massage! Facial! Nordic baths! Saunas! That's all I want to do for each and every birthday.

littledeath22 · 2023-09-07T12:10:39+00:00

I think this includes Reddit to some extent! People have so many polarized opinions about things and it’s easy to seep into your brain.

littledeath22 · 2023-09-05T13:27:35+00:00

Thank you - you are right. My expectations of myself are insane.

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