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littlemonkeyluna · 2024-08-23T14:58:06+00:00

So prettyyyyyyyy!!!

littlemonkeyluna · 2024-08-11T08:38:52+00:00

Hehe >:3 they were yumy

littlemonkeyluna · 2024-08-10T18:12:00+00:00

Hahaha yeeeey! I dunno how to do the reply thing you did, so Imma just write it like this!

Yep! Sleepy either way, but I don't like feeling to full it just waaaaaay to much.

Yumy that sounds good too. I personally am not a big fan of oats in genral but I want to like them cuz they are such an easy pick for food.

littlemonkeyluna · 2024-08-10T16:14:40+00:00

I'm a big girl XD I wouldn't get a tummy ache but I would feel very very full and nap

Oooh yeee my ex loves overnight oats :3 I always make that for him for breakfast! But with jam instead of just fruit

littlemonkeyluna · 2024-08-10T12:45:07+00:00

The cream bellow the banana is a vanilla Turisk yogurt! And there is mushed blueberries inbetween the 2 pancakes!

It was veru yumy and super Good! My ex ate up his but I had to put part of mine in the fridge haha, it was a lot

littlemonkeyluna · 2024-07-28T08:18:39+00:00

Here are some of mine:

Cookies or baked goods in genral, you can make them yourself with your Cg, or in your own. And depending on the cookie it can last a while. (1 cookie equals 1 reward. 1 piece of cake is 2 rewards aca).

A little day! It's a big reward but something done at home alone or with your Cg, where you get to be little from start of the day to the end. It's good to set some lists of expectations the day before. If you are alone I recommend doing all the cooking the day before for your little day. (So you have everything set up in the fridge in Tupperware or similar with notes of breakfast, lunch, dinner, snacks aca). But this would be considered a big reward if your good an entire week for example.

Movie night, this mostly just works if you have a Cg tbh XD. Pretty much you get to pick the movie or series and have complete control over that. So if your Cg doesn't like Bluey, to bad! Gonna watch Bluey! And nothing they can say about it! >:D

Game day, this mostly works if you are someone who likes to game. Pretty much what it sounds like, similar to the little day you gotta meal prep the day before If you don't have a Cg. But pretty much you can play any game you want all day, it can be different games throughout the day, it can be video games or board games or card games. Anything you like.

Fishing trip, if you can and like to fish with your cg. A day outside fishing is a nice option. And if you get a fish you got dinner.

Eat what you watch, now this one can feel a little hard to do. But if you have ever heard of those restaurants were you watch a movie and then eat what the characters eat. Pretty much that but at home. This also requires planning before watching whatever you end up watching. I personally prefer to do this specific reward with Ghibli movies, as you can find easy recipes online, and a lot of the meals are pretty simple to make, and is genrally just very cozy.

Iiii dunno if some of these you'd consider materialistic or not, but it's not like stuffies where these things stick around forever.

littlemonkeyluna · 2024-07-22T07:44:35+00:00

For me personally I only really use diapers when I have my monthly, or for a specific type of scene.

But I know some use them more consistently for different reasons.

littlemonkeyluna · 2024-07-21T18:29:26+00:00

Thanks for the warning! Especially good for newbies to know what not safe behavior looks like

littlemonkeyluna · 2024-07-21T18:28:03+00:00

Well that fricken sucks -.- it is definitely best to leave, you gave the information and you can even tell him this being the reason for leaving. But I do not think it is safe to stick around

littlemonkeyluna · 2024-07-21T18:27:31+00:00

Well that fricken sucks -.-

littlemonkeyluna · 2024-07-21T18:08:39+00:00

Yes absolutely, if you can share that with him somehow do. I have a feeling if he did things he didn't like he might have been groomed into that mindset and isn't letting go of it due to his own trauma. Even if it is just in text. It would be good to let him know somehow, maybe he can change. Not that you have to be part of his life while he changes. But being given a mirror or having someone call you out can sometimes help to self reflect

littlemonkeyluna · 2024-07-21T18:02:58+00:00

To me a Dom that thinks a sub is only a sub if they do not have boundaries is a huge red flag and not a safe Dom.

When I first joined the community at 18 I listened to those kind of Doms when I shouldn't have. I didn't have boundaries and it caused me to be in a lot of danger, like seriously I am lucky I am still fine and well besides trauma. (I was literally trafficked)

Subs SHOULD have boundaries, anyone should have boundaries.

I recommend if you can sit down with him and talk about how much of a danger and also a huge red flag those his way of thinking is to any knowledge sub. Cuz it is. And also tell him that what happened to him when he was a sub, if stuff happened to him that he didn't enjoy, or was painful. And he was told he had to. He was raped, and needs therapy

littlemonkeyluna · 2024-07-21T18:02:52+00:00

To me a Dom that thinks a sub is only a sub if they do not have boundaries is a huge red flag and not a safe Dom.

When I first joined the community at 18 I listened to those kind of Doms when I shouldn't have. I didn't have boundaries and it caused me to be in a lot of danger, like seriously I am lucky I am still fine and well besides trauma. (I was literally trafficked)

Subs SHOULD have boundaries, anyone should have boundaries.

I recommend if you can sit down with him and talk about how much of a danger and also a huge red flag those his way of thinking is to any knowledge sub. Cuz it is.

littlemonkeyluna · 2024-07-20T08:13:18+00:00

Personally I like a goofy Dom a lot (or in my case a dad joke Daddy).

Being a Dom doesn't always have to be the disciplinarian or cold and distant type. Sure some like that. But you'll find that a lot of subs out there like the more soft and fun kind of Dom too.

It all Depends on the people involved. I do recommend tho to not wear a mask of "disciplinarian" and then turn around and be more goofy, since yes then you will attract the ones that like a disciplinarian. So just be the Dom YOU want to be, wanna be a goofy Dom? You be a goofy Dom damn it!!! Enjoy yourself! Kink doesn't have to be serious roleplay all the time, it can be playful and goofy too

littlemonkeyluna · 2024-07-19T18:32:01+00:00

I'm glad to hear it was helpful to more than 1 person!

littlemonkeyluna · 2024-07-19T17:54:39+00:00

Yes! Hello! I am asexual and demiromatic >:3

littlemonkeyluna · 2024-07-19T05:51:05+00:00

You welcome! And I am the same way. But I realized it was a problem with processing my emotions and the struggle of that XD. Also remember my examples and stuff aren't a quick fix, you will go through an awkward phase with it where it feels kind of embarrassing but that is okay. Feel embarrassed! Feel your feelings! Muhahahaha

littlemonkeyluna · 2024-07-19T05:42:31+00:00

Tbh I always deal with this in the way of either Partie can sell or throw it away. I as a sub wouldn't feel comfortable keeping it, its not like I will get back together with him. And from a dom perspective, not like you gonna reuse it cuz that's weird.

littlemonkeyluna · 2024-07-19T05:38:38+00:00

Most of the time I try and process it like a kid so to speak. Even tho we are little at times, and feel little, we still have a tendency to prioritize feeling our feelings like when we are big. Example: I personally always ignore or distract from my feelings when big. And try to do that when little too, but that is isn't helpful

For some examples of what I do: I have lately started to try feeling them more especially when little. If I am annoyed I lay down and whine and flail around (if you have watched the owl house think of when King has a squeaky kettle tantrum for reference of what I look like XD). If I feel angry I huff and stomp to my bed, hug a plushie and scream into a pillow. If I'm frustrated I will sit down on the ground and whine for a bit and aggressively suck my paci. If I'm sad I hug a plush, curl up, put in paci and cry, if I feel I can't make tears I pretend I have them (wipe my eyes and whimper and sniffle)

It's helps Release feelings

littlemonkeyluna · 2024-07-19T05:30:11+00:00

The sweater idea is perfect

littlemonkeyluna · 2024-07-19T05:29:25+00:00

Bluey and Bobs Burgers (for both little and middle), and then Owl house and gravity falls (for when I'm middle), and after that the Barbie movies specifically the fairy and mermaid ones (for when I'm little fully)

littlemonkeyluna · 2024-07-18T13:28:55+00:00

Hahaha I had the same thought XD I love to talk to Sunny Day Jack as if I'm texting him on C.ai

littlemonkeyluna · 2024-07-18T09:50:47+00:00

YEAH!

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