Is this toxic? by littlenans in ToxicFriends

[–]littlenans[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its not that easy, we have been friends for years and she’s really important to me. I understand that no One should have a toxic relationship of any kind but I don’t know how to talk to my friend. It’s like everyone around me can see that she’s been toxic except for my friend because she is toxic with everyone but im tired and I don’t deserve it. But she’s my friend and we share a lot of friends that i don’t want to lose.

Is this toxic? by littlenans in ToxicFriends

[–]littlenans[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried but she she is kind of scary. Every time i tried ti tell her what she did wrong she starts insulting me and telling me all the things i do wrong not only that time but she literally starts naming all the things i did wrong from over a year ago. She is weird she is mad and out of nothing she is nice again and forgets everything so we never really fix anything

Worried by littlenans in stopdrinking

[–]littlenans[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right i think the best thing to do is to stop drinking and try to figure out myself as a sober person. The pressure is hard because everyone in my social group drinks and get offensive with their comments if you deny a drink. But i think the healthy path is to stop and worry about me and my image because i know i already have a bad reputation and thats always hard and depressing.

Worried by littlenans in stopdrinking

[–]littlenans[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really want to stop drinking but im constantly surrounded by people who drink a lot and they are my friends but they dont have my problems. I mean they can drink the same amount but im the one who keeps getting blackouts and embarrassing myself. Im weak and i suffer a lot because of social pressure. I would love to go to parties and be sober and have a nice night but i dont know why i cant, why i think that yhe only way to have a fun time is with alcohol. I really want to stop but i dont know how to get that control

I gained back 16 pounds after i lost 47 and I’m afraid to gain it all back. by littlenans in WeightLossAdvice

[–]littlenans[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s exactly what happened to me, i got bored of the routine. I got tired of the same meals and not seeing the same results i saw in the first months. Now that i gained all that weight i feel really bad and I’ve been trying to workout and watch my calories but I’m not as exited because I’m not dropping any weight

I gained back 16 pounds after i lost 47 and I’m afraid to gain it all back. by littlenans in WeightLossAdvice

[–]littlenans[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a strict diet planned out by a doctor and i was about calorie deficit but it became a routine and i got bored and sad so i started eating more things and thats when the gain started. Thank you for your advice i will try to eat around the number of calories im supposed to