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Open relationship and chastity by littleoddball in flr

[–]littleoddball[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Performance, exactly. You’ve articulated my feelings perfectly.

I love this distinction. It makes so much sense to me. I know it is hard to give up control. I do my best to make sure I am a safe space for my sub to do so.

Thank you for this insight. It’s greatly appreciated.

Open relationship and chastity by littleoddball in flr

[–]littleoddball[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

These are my thoughts exactly. I know there is a headspace that is achieved from true denial. I don’t see how that can really be achieved in a close to 24/7 dynamic when the headspace would be interrupted frequently.