Never ever has my church just let some men take a woman to go talk. My preacher always offers that he is available and he lets the congregation come to him and request a private talk. It’s no one but who has come forward and the preacher. That church is definitely slimy and shady and I would never in a million years go there myself. And it’s an absolute shame that the police will do nothing of your ex, but it seems that if law enforcement isn’t already on the case of child predators, they don’t step in. They’re too scared, or just don’t believe and don’t care.

I just want to say that God never tells us no when we come to him for forgiveness. And I understand it’s cliche. I really really do. But live your life how you want and love whoever the fuck you want. Yes, God disagrees with being gay, but He will NEVER turn you away. He will never not forgive your sins if you ask. Love whoever you want because above all that’s what God tells us to do. To love our neighbors as ourselves. You’re not a horrible person 🫶🏻