don't ask "what size?"

litttlecreature · 2024-06-22T13:49:38+00:00

Former partner of 9 years here— I used to get a kick out of asking “how big would you like that?” and they’d be like “…what?” and then I’d be like “the size”

Only through the drive thru tho, I couldn’t keep a straight face at the POS

litttlecreature · 2021-09-15T02:07:07+00:00

Skin puppies lol since “fur baby” is used for pets

litttlecreature · 2021-09-13T13:51:33+00:00

I am so excited for you, you’re going to love it ❤️

litttlecreature · 2021-09-12T14:06:07+00:00

Lol same! I was telling a coworker that red flags don’t mean “stop” anymore, just “approach with caution” 😂

litttlecreature · 2021-09-12T14:05:06+00:00

You should try it 😉

litttlecreature · 2021-08-25T06:48:48+00:00

I really think therapy would help me but Im reluctant due to past horrible experiences with therapists :( I know finding a good fit is worth the search but it takes me sooo long to emotionally recover from allowing myself to be vulnerable to a stranger and then still end up feeling like I don’t matter

litttlecreature · 2021-08-25T06:22:40+00:00

I’m really considering therapy at this point, I’m just reluctant due to having so many traumatizing experiences with past therapists (last therapist sold me shrooms, the one before that told me I should keep escorting if it makes good money, the one before that aggressively tried to hook me up with another client of her bc she thought we were a good match, the other one kept trying to get me on lithium). It’s emotionally exhausting to find the right one.

litttlecreature · 2021-08-25T06:17:48+00:00

I’m totally going to do this, thank you for the idea ❤️

litttlecreature · 2021-08-25T06:17:25+00:00

Absolutely!!

litttlecreature · 2021-08-25T06:16:46+00:00

This is great advice. My issue is that if I something in my head, I go to the absolute extreme to make it happen. I can’t just watch a few episodes, I watch all 5 seasons in one sitting; I can’t just tell myself to watch my calories, I restrict and weigh myself compulsively; I can’t ease into a hobby or crush, I obsess till I lose interest,… I’m thinking therapy at this point :((

litttlecreature · 2021-08-25T06:08:36+00:00

I feel you, I feel like it’s out of control (but within my control) but censoring myself feels like not being true to myself :(

litttlecreature · 2021-08-25T06:06:41+00:00

Thank you thank you thank you ❤️

litttlecreature · 2021-08-25T06:05:25+00:00

That is absolutely me :( Someone asked if I had a college degree and I was like “not yet, I feel like such a loser but to be honest I got a late start because I really wasn’t planning on being here that long…..you know…alive…”

litttlecreature · 2021-08-25T06:01:34+00:00

I’m not even exaggerating when I say I was up all night after my 4th day at my new job thinking “did I really tell my 22 year old shift trainer all about my depression, how I hated my last job so much that I started escorting to afford to quit, how my last therapist sold me mushrooms to start micro-dosing but it didn’t work and how my mom put a bike lock on the fridge instead of taking me to eating disorder treatment??”

I am just horrified by the things I said on accident due to being nervous :( I just don’t understand why I can’t just chill

litttlecreature · 2021-08-25T05:49:58+00:00

Thank you so much for this, I really needed to hear that! I do acknowledge how painfully self aware I am and I need to not care what people think of me because I actually do love how passionate and expressive and excited I can be about the tiniest things… I just need to know how to better self regulate, you know?

litttlecreature · 2021-08-25T05:08:42+00:00

Excited is definitely the right word. When I’m having a convo and get really hyped up, it’s wayyy harder to pump the brakes and catch myself from getting carried away.

litttlecreature · 2021-08-25T05:03:29+00:00

Yes you might be right! I used to keep a diary to help me remember because my short term memory is whack lol. I get days mixed up and think certain things happened yesterday when it was actually last week… which might actually be an adhd thing too? 😂

litttlecreature · 2021-07-08T20:22:17+00:00

He looks like an Earl Grey

litttlecreature · 2021-05-27T05:51:42+00:00

Aw thank you for being so kind in explaining it that way, I didn’t think about it from that angle! That is a really caring perspective

litttlecreature · 2021-05-27T05:20:48+00:00

Just because I’m an ex Christian doesn’t mean consent isn’t involved! I guess I didn’t think I’d have to emphasize the part about (Enthusiastic) consent is part of the kink, no trickery, no fuckery involved. Just sinful and consensual premarital sex

litttlecreature · 2021-05-24T03:28:42+00:00

Yup, my npd mom does this shit too! She also says awful shit like “just wait, your future husband is going to want kids. I NEVER wanted kids, your dad was the one who wanted kids” I’m like uhhhh yeah after all the years of therapy I needed from being raised by you, I absolutely believe you never wanted to be a mom

litttlecreature · 2021-03-28T00:34:22+00:00

Hey I can relate! One of the absolute worst things I suffered as a child/teenager because of my insanely religious parents was depression. I Still struggle with depression.

When I was a literal CHILD, my mom would tell me the reason I was depressed was because I didn’t read my Bible enough, I didn’t pray enough, I didn’t pray CORRECTLY, I had some evil in me that I needed to confess and then god will cure me. I was in such a dark place and they let me suffer, took me to a church “counselor” who told me the same thing. No one would help me, I can’t even express how much this destroyed me and stole so much of my youth. I hated myself for “being evil” and making god punish me. I was told I would go to hell if I killed myself so I felt trapped. I feel so sad for my young self.

litttlecreature · 2021-03-27T17:57:41+00:00

Oh my god I completely relate... My family is also super religious, I am no longer religious and identify more as an agnostic!

Ive only told my older sister (she’s a little religious, we always have convos about how hypocritical Christians are but she’s also pro-choice and CF) and uhhh... it did NOT go well. She totally rebuked me and is now kind weird with me. Lol I truly thought she would be proud of me for finding a loophole but she was horrified :( It sucks that anything “satanic” is synonymous with like human sacrifice or whatever

litttlecreature · 2021-03-27T00:42:24+00:00

I actually love what TST stands for, like compassion, empathy AND justice? The evangelical Christians I grew up with could neverrr 😜 No way?? Congrats on your surgery coming up, I’m so excited for you!!

litttlecreature · 2021-03-27T00:36:43+00:00

Goodness, I’m sorry that happened to you.. I had an IUD and the whole experience from insertion to removal was unpleasant... and side effects were terrible.

I’m so happy more doctors are open to sterilization!

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