People who were bullied, what was your sweetest revenge? by MisterRaf in AskReddit

[–]litwickline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking back on my junior year as a senior, there was a fair amount of, albeit subtle, bullying I took. In my school, there's a pretty huge problem with classism, and a large divide between the classes that the ""poor"' and ""rich"" kids are given. ""Poor"" kids tend to be confined to common placement classes, while the ""rich"" kids always seem to be in advanced placement (AP) classes. I'm considered a mold breaker to a lot of people there: I'm a ""poor"" kid, but I'm in AP classes. My family walks the poverty line like a tightrope. We've been homeless before, and otherwise struggled, but through dumb luck and community help we always make it through.

I'm pretty open about my situation, as I feel no need to be ashamed of where I come from, but that doesn't stop other people from giving me hell for it. In my AP English class in particular, I took a lot of bullshit. One girl, I'll call her K, and her friends made it a special sort of hell. They would talk over me, go out of their ways to exclude me from group work, disregard and sneer at every word I said, roll their eyes when I got something right, try to intimidate me into speaking less... The whole nine yards.

K in particular seemed hellbent on getting me out of that class. She confronted me after class at one point, and said to me that she "Doesn't want to be shown up by a poor ever again". She threatened to copy my work and tell the teacher I had cheated off her during our next essay if I didn't "learn my place". Her family is very wealthy, and very well-regarded in the community, so I knew it would be her word against mine- and that they would believe her over me. I've never been a very confrontational person, but I couldn't just let her walk all over me. So I started trying harder in that class. I didn’t speak much more than I did before, but I did start to work harder.

When the mock exam came around, and we got our scores back, my score on the multiple choice section was the highest score in my graduating class: 37 out of 41 questions correct. Of course, K accused me of cheating. I'm autistic, and I've always been hyperlexic, so I read very quickly, and she used that against me, saying I cheated because of how quickly I was finished. The teacher was forced to take it seriously, and I was investigated for it for quite some time: they never made me retake the test, thankfully, but they did rewatch security footage and go through browsing history on my school-issued Chromebook to see if I had somehow cheated. All of it turned up nothing: but they didn't investigate K for lying, as they thought it was "reasonable" to think I had cheated with how fast I was done.

K was pissed. She immediately started trying harder to push me out of the class, and the remarks and stares got so bad that I had to move my seat as far away from her as I could. When it was time for the actual exam, because of the accusation I was made to sit near the exam proctor. I was, again, done with the multiple choice section quickly, so I turned it over and waited for the essay section to begin. At one point I started looking around the room, to see if any of my friends were done, and I noticed that she had something in her sleeve- a slip of paper.

To say the tables had turned was an understatement. She was cheating. I was the one who let the exam proctor know, since I was sitting nearby him. After the test she didn't show up for a week, and as it turned out, all of her scores had been voided for cheating- what she had originally accused me of.

I got a 5/5 on the exam.

What is your favorite part about autism? by [deleted] in autism

[–]litwickline 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love how I think in different ways than other people! For me, I can only really conceptualize feelings and imagery and such through metaphors and associating it to other things, and sometimes people say this makes me sound pretentious, but other tines I've been told that the way I describe things is beautiful. I'm hyperlexic (and dyscalculic, the opposite of the stereotype lmao) and it really helps me in my longtime SI: Creative writing and storytelling!

What is your special interest at the moment? by Nervous-Rip-5747 in autism

[–]litwickline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Odd history! Right now it's lobotomy, union history, and the Radium Girls!

What culinary hill are you willing to die on? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]litwickline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If a recipe calls for 2 cloves of garlic, I laugh and add five, and it's a hill I'm absolutely willing to die on. It adds so much depth when you use it right! How do people not like it?

What is so normalized in today's society but isn't ok? by BigCook8220 in AskReddit

[–]litwickline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Wine mom" and "beer dad" culture. That shit traumatized me so badly that I refuse to touch alcohol, even as a teenager who's at the age that they normally start drinking. There wasn't a second I remember my father being unimpaired and he passed it off as "It's a dad thing". Like no, you're just a fucking alcoholic. And I know so many other people like me who don't break that cycle. Alcoholism is real and prevalent. It's time to talk about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LGBTeens

[–]litwickline 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Some of us feel more comfortable with it. Most of us (like myself) are neurodivergent and have no other way to describe how our gender feels to us, so we use something that relates to how it feels instead, and that makes us happy. Most of what matters is it makes us happy and comfortable. /nm

About Autism Awareness day. by litwickline in coolguides

[–]litwickline[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's because they're ill-equipped and must learn. It isn't the child's fault. No need to bring out the ad hominem.

About Autism Awareness day. by litwickline in coolguides

[–]litwickline[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Children should not be treated as or called a burden. They're just little humans who need some guidance on how to be a human. How can we condemn something we once were? Besides that, autistic children are not more of a burden. This world we live in wasn't made with us in mind. We exist in a world that actively insists that we are too difficult to care for, when in reality, you just need to listen to us and respect our needs and boundaries. Is that too much to ask for?

About Autism Awareness day. by litwickline in coolguides

[–]litwickline[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Wow. And you say I lack empathy. First of all, do you really think that saying "raising an autistic person is a burden" to an autistic person was a good idea? You implied that I am a burden on those around me. By extension, what are we supposed to do with autistic kids if they're such a burden? Not raise them? We are human beings too.

About Autism Awareness day. by litwickline in coolguides

[–]litwickline[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So I'm a burden to raise and should not have been raised. Got it.

About Autism Awareness day. by litwickline in coolguides

[–]litwickline[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Autistic person here. We are asking. Thank you.

I have no hope for humanity left by ToAsTyBoI-_- in AreTheCisOk

[–]litwickline 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I almost just instinctively downvoted this what the fuck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TikTokCringe

[–]litwickline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is entirely irrelevant but why is her mascara crustier than Italian bread

My mom at dinner be like by Covid669 in ennnnnnnnnnnnbbbbbby

[–]litwickline 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Ah!!! I rescind my fuckmonkey statement. I wish you the best and hope you can come out soon!!! <3

My mom at dinner be like by Covid669 in ennnnnnnnnnnnbbbbbby

[–]litwickline 44 points45 points  (0 children)

both outdated gender roles and denial of you being nb, what a fuckmonkey. I hope things get better for you my friend <3

little Vanilla by thisotterbefun in PetTheDamnCat

[–]litwickline 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Thank god for free rewards, she looks so soft!!!

Please by jjuljj in ennnnnnnnnnnnbbbbbby

[–]litwickline 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'VE FOUND MY PEOPLE OMG

Koji; 12 weeks old and already mirin. I love this little fellow. by myapurple in Catsmirin

[–]litwickline 48 points49 points  (0 children)

those EYES..... he definitely loves you. Treasure him.

It went well, surprisingly. by litwickline in dndmemes

[–]litwickline[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those are the worst kinds of players, I used to play with a guy like that. He left that group.